girls just want to be wanted(and loved)

[the old maxx50]

It seems to be what girls want and it gets drove home the more i know them .It is part of why they are in the escort business and why they leave the business .Why they settle for one guy over another.
..Bescause one makes them feel they are loved . needed and wanted
And they will do any thing for that lucky guy to please and keep him
Of course that is not all ways the best thing to do...it can backfire and often does.

And then there is us guys that have our own version of looking for some one that wants use and some one we cant help but fall in love with

I am not sure if it is love ..when so many of us have this hole that has to be filled by someone elses words..effecsion..desirers.. or company
We ard lonely people ,so often lost in our self doubts... inperfection and fears
No matter how we put on a brave front to hide behind.. or how indapendant and determond we seem most of us are not

We are insecure and need assurace .by many different means.. Sex is one . where we get it does not allways matter just as look as there is some there to share it.. Thats why masterbation does not work for ever . weather they are young or old.

In the end it comes to wanting aperson to stay with you ...bethere for you to come home to and not be afraid of lossing.All though fear of loss is allways there and it can preserve a relationship.. or destroy it with. jolousy ..suspition.. guilt.. accuasations and unforgiveness

Every body needs some one who we find or who finds use desirable.. and what we do with it will determond if we find love and happiness

 

[Gotee-man]

dood: if u can fix up your spelling a bit, this would be a nice piece of writing.

 

[the old maxx50]

This conclusion is bases on my observasions and friend ship with some of the ladies
I am not the one they chose...for obvious reasons...but they do chose ..usually some that does not see escorts . Of course part of it is to get out of the business but it all so applies to none working girls

What ever their feelings about the clientel it not so jaded as many think.. read what .many have writen and you realize that they like some of their clients and freind ship are common through the years
Some continue on long after they are out of the business

 

[InTheBum]

I don't know, max. I'm no cynic, but I am a realist. To suggest that the women who do this business are looking for love is a tad on the naive side. No pay, no play, I believe is the order of the day. If you're doing this because you have self esteem issues or you're looking for love, the reality of this business will sober you up in a hurry. First middle aged guy with a bad body who bores you with his woeful miserable tale of how his wife just doesn't understand his needs as you're slapping the cover on to give him a blowjob should convince you that this line of work is not the place to find Prince Charming.

I would suspect the main reason that women leave this line of work isn't because they found the right guy but rather they had encounters with one too many of the wrong guys.

I agree 100%! Actually 2 out of my last 3 sessions, both women thanked me at the end of the session. I said, no need to thank me, I had a very good time. They said no, "thank you for being nice"! One girl who is a drop dead beautiful Korean said some clients treat her poorly and she stared at the ground when saying this. I didn't ask for details but assured her, that those men have no business treating her that way.

I am hardly a Prince, but I never do things to SP's that they don't want done...

 

[sevenofnine]

Yes and no.
Younger ladies in this business I think are caught up in the moment the money, the fact that all us guys are willing to drop like a weeks worth of hard earned money to spend an hour or two with them.
There just lost like I said in the moment.
Maybe love happens or not but there not holding there breath for it.

I spend most of my time with older ladies, and I feel a lonliness from them.
They want to know was it worth it whats it all about.
One lady the pull was so thick you could cut it with a knife.
She just wanted to be wanted, after seeing thousands and thousands of guys, wanted some to like her not for sex, for her being her. She enjoyed the money, etc, but was tired of just fucking jerks and then sleeping alone spending her weekends and nights alone.
yeah she wanted to be loved not for the sex she provided but for her.

I think the lady I see now the same thing almost,
but leave out the lonly part. Were good friends enjoy each other's company, she is tired of fucking jerks, and wondering about life and where it all has gotten her.
We have a good relationship because were honest and open, but don't want anything from the other, then just the moments we have.
I would say she wants to be loved for her, not just the fact that for a few hundred bucks some one can fuck her. She needs and wants to feel self worth as a human being besides just be someones sex toy.

But she doesnt' at all need a man to complete her, as the saying goes.
The first escort was looking for that man looking for love.

The bottom line
I think everyone wants to love and be loved.
But love changes with time with life experiance. Our understanding of it anyway.

 

[Sporting]

One expressed it thus. "I don't like the job, but I like the money." There are some durn fine ladies in this biz who have an eye out for a man, but also to build a nest egg so they can live well, take care of a family.

 

[Sonny]

One expressed it thus. "I don't like the job, but I like the money." There are some durn fine ladies in this biz who have an eye out for a man, but also to build a nest egg so they can live well, take care of a family.

Generally speaking, this is the way it is. Girls love the money and do the work to get it. Some waste it but many more accumulate for a good and secure life.

However, I can readily right now think of an Asian SP who very much wants to solve the loneliness that often is a part of this job if they do not have a boyfriend or spouse.
She craves a good man to be with, to go out with, to sleep at night with, to feel connection with, to talk with, to have good sex with...... pretty normal, eh?
Even if he is not a spouse or fulltime boyfriend, even if he is a kind and considerate pooner to her.
I was tempted myself, but my predilection for a constant endless variety of sexual partners is a stopper.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

You don't pay your friends.

How so many of you guys fail to get this is really just sad and pathetic.

 

[87112]

You don't pay your friends.

How so many of you guys fail to get this is really just sad and pathetic.

This, don't fall for the I am China girl I don't help pay on a date. Fucking human leeches are those bitches, they need to go home.

 

[the old maxx50]

Yes you do pay your friends .If they need help .and your able to help out them you do it weather it is money or time or aplace tl live . and it has nothing to do with being anescort or not.You dont expect to get payed back with sex or ask for it

.It is not about friends with benafit . Of couse we might all love that but generally that is not what friends have...then it is something else.
I think most do get it... we are not here to take all we can and use people that just need some help or some affection and love.

Some where in all the people we meet an all that we do for each other every one hopes...hopes for love ..hope for a relationship that last and...persaveries through the termoil of lifes ups and downs.
I can see there are many tainted and jaded by there lifes experiances ... but let make you turn away
from what you need or are looking for.

We have said it many times here ..we are all just people our perceptions my be more open minded ...or even closed mine and what we do for a living or hobby does not change the basices of our relationships and love
What i write here can apply to any group of people it is just not indemick to this business.. Love and the need for love is universal.. careing and needing to feel someone cares about you is all some an intrical part of our humanity and makes our existance worth while

 

[sevenofnine]

You kind of do pay for friends.

Before I was married, I had this big bank account, I would go to the bank and the tellers would mumor and there eyes light up even the bank manager.
Getting married and buying a house ended all that.

The point is you don't necessay pay, but you throw money around live a certain live style and a certain type of women will join you, you don't pay but she sure as well will help you spend it.

Your broke a minimum wage job, yeah you can get a women, but maybe not the class of women you want.

No you don't pay directly for friendship, your stupid I agree if you fall into that trap.
But you pay to live a life style.
And that lifestyle will attract the people that go with it.
And if they happen to be women and well your having sex with them, its kind of a given that your going to support them somehow or share in your wealth somehow.

You always pay as a man regardless for women, you kind of just take care of them at some point or share what you have,
Especially if your boinking them, on a regular basis

 

[the old maxx50]

This thread derailed
Start a new thread on who pays

 

[Annalise Lane]

You don't pay your friends.

How so many of you guys fail to get this is really just sad and pathetic.

I think your opinion is, Is sad and pathetic.

Hookers are HUMAN, and We have the right to all the things that other take for granted. I promise to the man who accepts what I do for a living to NEVER lie to him, NEVER fuck someone without being PAID, and will NEVER need his money for ANYTHING I want. I WILL never take him for granted.

I like many who choose this profession live outside the box. I am an Engineer who tried to fit into a square hole when I'm a round peg. I will NEVER be what society expects yet I deserve the love, attention, desire and loyality that EVERYONE else in the world who chooses a mainstream occupation does. Can YOU share to your family and friends what I do when we buy a house and share the cost and love each other ? NO but what does it matter ?

MR.Bobo, you are so young and so blah blah blah.............. NOT worth my energy ~sigh~

 

[VanessaofBC]

Hookers are HUMAN, and We have the right to all the things that other take for granted. I promise to the man who accepts what I do for a living to NEVER lie to him, NEVER fuck someone without being PAID, and will NEVER need his money for ANYTHING I want. I WILL never take him for granted.

I like many who choose this profession lived outside the box. I am an engineer who tried to fit into a square hole when I'm a round peg. I will NEVER be what society expects yet I deserve the love, attention, desire and loyality that EVERYONE else in the world who chooses a mainstream occupation does. Can YOU share to your family and friends what I do when we buy a house and share the cost and love each other ? NO but what does it matter ?

Well said. I mean, I am not an Engineer, but I feel the same way.

 

[Sucre]

It seems to be what girls want and it gets drove home the more i know them .It is part of why they are in the escort business and why they leave the business .Why they settle for one guy over another.
..Bescause one makes them feel they are loved . needed and wanted
And they will do any thing for that lucky guy to please and keep him
Of course that is not all ways the best thing to do...it can backfire and often does.

And then there is us guys that have our own version of looking for some one that wants use and some one we cant help but fall in love with

I am not sure if it is love ..when so many of us have this hole that has to be filled by someone elses words..effecsion..desirers.. or company
We ard lonely people ,so often lost in our self doubts... inperfection and fears
No matter how we put on a brave front to hide behind.. or how indapendant and determond we seem most of us are not

We are insecure and need assurace .by many different means.. Sex is one . where we get it does not allways matter just as look as there is some there to share it.. Thats why masterbation does not work for ever . weather they are young or old.

In the end it comes to wanting aperson to stay with you ...bethere for you to come home to and not be afraid of lossing.All though fear of loss is allways there and it can preserve a relationship.. or destroy it with. jolousy ..suspition.. guilt.. accuasations and unforgiveness

Every body needs some one who we find or who finds use desirable.. and what we do with it will determond if we find love and happiness

I dont normally participate in the lounge but what maxx 50 says is so true. One would never normally meet the woman we do, pooning. We have the oportunity to meet amazing woman, but having paid the freight, we find after a couple of visits, they are just woman and so many of these woman are just missing something intimate and are needing love (not sex, they get that daily) that they are easy to seduce, if you treat them right. Of course if we meet a hot woman in real life, we would share our wealth and lifesyle - and its all good, so in a sense our cost is almost nothing. Of course there are losers and greedy bitches who want your money and are hostile/entilted but it is their loss and they do not get it again and soon run out of fools.

Meeting wonderful woman pooning is no different than meeting them in another social situation, as they are no different. I have had so many girls want me and spend extra time or date me outside, freebies, or whatever, and wow, I am so honoured. It is so easy to fall in love and have then fall in love with you, as there are so many that are so special. And likewise would you have a girlfriend in real life you do not want to spoil and spend extra money upon. So in some sense the money they seek, or you spend is no more than you would spend anyway. An SP date is an opportinity for both, and so many SP have found a special guy, probably because of the reasons maxx50 exposes.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Meeting wonderful woman pooning is no different than meeting them in another social situation, as they are no different. I have had so many girls want me and spend extra time or date me outside, freebies, or whatever, and wow, I am so honoured. It is so easy to fall in love and have then fall in love with you, as there are so many that are so special. And likewise would you have a girlfriend in real life you do not want to spoil and spend extra money upon. So in some sense the money they seek, or you spend is no more than you would spend anyway. An SP date is an opportinity for both, and so many SP have found a special guy, probably because of the reasons maxx50 exposes.

Some clients you just "click"with. Sounds like you were lucky enough to "click" with a bunch of ladies. Lucky you!

 

[BallzDeep]

i think it works very well on both sides. normally when i poon im very detached. im there to enjoy myself and make the lady feel as comfortable as possible given the circumstances. i was never a pooner to find love. until i met one very very very incredible young special lady that changed EVERYTHING for me. i never saw her as an escort. i never viewed her as her job description. i mean sure the sex was probably the most intense and intimate sex ive ever had, but theres just something about her that moves me, something i dont think any other sp/civvy can ever replace. this lady will always hold a special place in my heart, and i would do anything if i knew it would make her happy. just thinking about her smile right now almost brings me tears of joy.

everything happens for a reason. people connect regardless the how or the why. if its meant to be it will be.

 

[thebuttdance continues]

"Love, love will tear us apart, again..."

 

[Annalise Lane]

I dont normally participate in the lounge but what maxx 50 says is so true. One would never normally meet the woman we do, pooning. We have the oportunity to meet amazing woman, but having paid the freight, we find after a couple of visits, they are just woman and so many of these woman are just missing something intimate and are needing love (not sex, they get that daily) that they are easy to seduce, if you treat them right. Of course if we meet a hot woman in real life, we would share our wealth and lifesyle - and its all good, so in a sense our cost is almost nothing. Of course there are losers and greedy bitches who want your money and are hostile/entilted but it is their loss and they do not get it again and soon run out of fools.

Meeting wonderful woman pooning is no different than meeting them in another social situation, as they are no different. I have had so many girls want me and spend extra time or date me outside, freebies, or whatever, and wow, I am so honoured. It is so easy to fall in love and have then fall in love with you, as there are so many that are so special. And likewise would you have a girlfriend in real life you do not want to spoil and spend extra money upon. So in some sense the money they seek, or you spend is no more than you would spend anyway. An SP date is an opportinity for both, and so many SP have found a special guy, probably because of the reasons maxx50 exposes.

Thank you

i think it works very well on both sides. normally when i poon im very detached. im there to enjoy myself and make the lady feel as comfortable as possible given the circumstances. i was never a pooner to find love. until i met one very very very incredible young special lady that changed EVERYTHING for me. i never saw her as an escort. i never viewed her as her job description. i mean sure the sex was probably the most intense and intimate sex ive ever had, but theres just something about her that moves me, something i dont think any other sp/civvy can ever replace. this lady will always hold a special place in my heart, and i would do anything if i knew it would make her happy. just thinking about her smile right now almost brings me tears of joy.

everything happens for a reason. people connect regardless the how or the why. if its meant to be it will be.

Yeap, who cares how or why. Well said.

 

[Master69]

........for leaving ound:

They said no, "thank you for being nice"!

I think that clears that up.