It seems like there are a lot of high-class ladies on this board who will not hesitate to interrupt a session if they are too grossed out by the guy. I have male pattern baldness, weigh 265 lbs at 5' 10" and am covered in bristly hair. I'd have to have to endure the humiliation of being turned down for ugliness so I thought I'd conduct a brief survey to determine how many of you pooners are as ugly as I am.
Fat, Bald, Body Hair -Chances of being turned down?
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Not sure why you're calling them "high-class", no-class would be a better description. Perhaps you mean high-priced?
Except in the instance of poor hygiene or unacceptable behaviour, the odds of a session being interrupted before it is over go down 99.99% if she hasn't been paid yet...
Once the girl has your money, on the other hand, her likelihood to be grossed out goes up 1000%
(Not implying that ALL SPs are like that, but many certainly are).
It is always good to self improve. Absolutely for sure.
However, it should not matter how you look with a professional sp. If it matters, she is in the wrong line of work. There is a lot that can be done with laser, grooming, and exercise. However, it is really hard to find the motivation to do that, when you lack the desire. Quite possibly the woman you choose to see, will help you gain the confidence you need to over come your physical imperfections. The 2 things any sp should care about are hygiene and manners When I say manners, I don't mean the ones you portray at grandmas house. I mean the ones you bring out on a first date
I personally would never in a million years turn a man away based on his physical appearance. i would feel so horrible inside. I specifically say on my website that I am age (although I prefer over 25), race, weight, and status blind. As a matter of fact, the less attractive someone is, the more I want to make him feel incredible.
I would, though to lessen the chances of any kind of silliness, research ladies websites, see if they specify a certain type. If you find nothing on there saying a specific body type, then send her an email with a physical description. I personally would never turn you away unless you were mean. Hygiene can be fixed with a shower and a toothbrush. I know most of my friends think the same way
However, it should not matter how you look with a professional sp. If it matters, she is in the wrong line of work. There is a lot that can be done with laser, grooming, and exercise. However, it is really hard to find the motivation to do that, when you lack the desire. Quite possibly the woman you choose to see, will help you gain the confidence you need to over come your physical imperfections. The 2 things any sp should care about are hygiene and manners When I say manners, I don't mean the ones you portray at grandmas house. I mean the ones you bring out on a first date
I personally would never in a million years turn a man away based on his physical appearance. i would feel so horrible inside. I specifically say on my website that I am age (although I prefer over 25), race, weight, and status blind. As a matter of fact, the less attractive someone is, the more I want to make him feel incredible.
I would, though to lessen the chances of any kind of silliness, research ladies websites, see if they specify a certain type. If you find nothing on there saying a specific body type, then send her an email with a physical description. I personally would never turn you away unless you were mean. Hygiene can be fixed with a shower and a toothbrush. I know most of my friends think the same way
Ya, considering Hubba's last description was 5' 2' @ 300 lbs and hairy, while still being considered dead seXXXehhhh, you should be getting treated like you're Brad Pitt. At least like he gets treated by women other then Angelina.
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Hmmm I am not sure, I would be convinced if they saw Fat Bastard:
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Well, I've never been turned down yet and I have 2 of these 3 covered.
I am quite hairless so I can only offer so much assistance in gaging your opportunity for refusal.
Seriously any woman that has success as an SP is smart enough to know that some of there business is going to come from clients that in real life they would deem undesirable or unattractive. As long as people act with respect towards each other and have good hygeine habits the experiences will be memorable.
Enjoy the hobby bug and make sure you're up front about your appearance when booking so if you do try to book with someone that might have difficulty seeing you the disappointment can be avoided. It has worked for me so far.
I think it's cute to see guys that get concerned how they will appear to the girl. Bug123, most working girls just ask you be polite & maintain proper hygiene. When you shower wash yourself everywere and brush your teeth. It also helps if you trim down there if you are bushy. When I was in the industry a clients looks meant less than how clean he was and the respect he showed me. Some of my fav clients were older men in their 50s who were bigger and had lost some of their hair but they were nice people.
What an increadibly mature post!It is always good to self improve. Absolutely for sure.
However, it should not matter how you look with a professional sp. If it matters, she is in the wrong line of work. There is a lot that can be done with laser, grooming, and exercise. However, it is really hard to find the motivation to do that, when you lack the desire. Quite possibly the woman you choose to see, will help you gain the confidence you need to over come your physical imperfections. The 2 things any sp should care about are hygiene and manners When I say manners, I don't mean the ones you portray at grandmas house. I mean the ones you bring out on a first date
I personally would never in a million years turn a man away based on his physical appearance. i would feel so horrible inside. I specifically say on my website that I am age (although I prefer over 25), race, weight, and status blind. As a matter of fact, the less attractive someone is, the more I want to make him feel incredible.
I would, though to lessen the chances of any kind of silliness, research ladies websites, see if they specify a certain type. If you find nothing on there saying a specific body type, then send her an email with a physical description. I personally would never turn you away unless you were mean. Hygiene can be fixed with a shower and a toothbrush. I know most of my friends think the same way
I must say your attitude has been growing on me Harmony - & we've tossed words back & forth a bit over the years so consider that a real compliment!
Never got into a heated debate with you Sihasen but I am impressed with your perspective!
I think that if more SP's were to approach this biz with your attitude the worlds oldest profession would be seen in a much different light!
Thanks for your words of reason!
WOOHOO, this means I can cancel my gym membership and stop sweating to the 80's with Richard Simmons. Now where's that gallon of Ben & Jerry's?
Hi Bug!
I'm heavy and hairy too, just not balding yet. I've worried about the same thing myself from time to time. But I've been seeing SPs for many, many years now and have never been turned down or even treated with disrespect stemming from my body hair or, in later years, for being heavy. I think what many are saying here is true, hygiene (very very clean) and attitude (respectful) are what is important.
I wonder, when did body hair on a man become objectionable anyway? Or is it really objectionable to a lot of ladies? Maybe it's just a modern media stereotype? I had more body hair when I was in high school than most adult men have. Without even trying to hook up with the older girls, I was approached by a few college girls that slept with me because they liked the way it felt against their bodies. Has that changed now for some reason, or was I just lucky back then?
I'm heavy and hairy too, just not balding yet. I've worried about the same thing myself from time to time. But I've been seeing SPs for many, many years now and have never been turned down or even treated with disrespect stemming from my body hair or, in later years, for being heavy. I think what many are saying here is true, hygiene (very very clean) and attitude (respectful) are what is important.
I wonder, when did body hair on a man become objectionable anyway? Or is it really objectionable to a lot of ladies? Maybe it's just a modern media stereotype? I had more body hair when I was in high school than most adult men have. Without even trying to hook up with the older girls, I was approached by a few college girls that slept with me because they liked the way it felt against their bodies. Has that changed now for some reason, or was I just lucky back then?
Now that you mention it, you may have something here. (There's nothing sexy about being the one doing the picking either!) A while back I shaved my pubes for the first time and went to see a sexy little spinner of an SP that I had seen one time before. When I got there she remembered me and showed a normal amount of enthusiasm for my returning. But when she saw what I had done, she got genuinely excited and gave me the best GFE I've ever had from an SP! Since then, I've had other SPs make positive comments about it too. Gotta say, I've gotten a lot of mileage out of a relatively simple thing to do!
Fuck that's funny! I laughed so hard Ben & Jerry's (Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough) came out my nose.
I gotta tell you that this is a basic difference between men and woman. I would never consider jumping on a 300lb ugly woman no matter how much alcohol I consumed. lol.
Seriously, they actually made reference to this on CNN yesterday. Men are much more visually orientated when it comes to sex, it's just a basic biological difference between the two sexes.
I've had to turn several people away at the door and yes, it is a HORRIBLE feeling (and I'm sure 100 times worse for the poor guys!)
My advice to the original poster:
-read the girl's website carefully to look for her restrictions (I've seen age, weight and even race restrictions)
-tell her about your worries before you book to make sure she will be okay with meeting you
The more research you put into finding the right girl for you, the better your experience will be
My advice to the original poster:
-read the girl's website carefully to look for her restrictions (I've seen age, weight and even race restrictions)
-tell her about your worries before you book to make sure she will be okay with meeting you
The more research you put into finding the right girl for you, the better your experience will be
But most of the SP's that've chimed in here have said that this need not be the case.
the physical attraction part is easy, you're attracted to whatever she has that attracts you, and she's attracted to your folding. it's the avoidance of 'revolting' that leads to turn downs - on her part or yours
