Expected Privacy

[Skygod]

I visited an Idependant the other day and had a great time and probably would repeat. She is well review on the boards. I emailed her again to set up another appointment and I accidently had my real name in the signature area. I want and expect total privacy.

What kind of confidentiallity can I expect from a reputable ID?

 

[mikeoman]

I'm not sure exactly what an ID is , but I think with all of the well reviewed ladies here, they would not violate the trust that you put in them by revealing your real name. They are well reviewed for a reason, and they would have nothing to gain by breaking that trust. Confidentiality and discretion is a two way street. We are discreet with the details they share with us, and we expect the same in return. Most of the women I've met couldn't care less what your real name is. They have no interest at all in screwing up your life. Relax, and go back to see her again.

 

[big_pegger]

I'd be paranoid and would just avoid seeing that SP again in the hopes that she'd forget about me completely. That's about all you can do. If you bring up the topic with her then she will more likely remember you more.

I remember seeing an SP on the board (I think her name was Lesley) go completely batshit crazy and out a bunch of perberts on other boards, at their workplace, and at their homes with their wives. I think it was all over a bad review and flame war thread. Since then I don't even give my real first name even though it is quite common.

 

[Avery]

big_pegger, now that she's apparently retired, I guess you can say the "L" word and not get banned.

 

[lickalot]

The Loon

Retired and retarded......

 

[shedevil]

What kind of confidentiality can I expect from a reputable ID?

It's my experience that pooners are more careless with the personal information of an Sp, not the other way around.

You shouldn't have anything to worry about.

SD

 

[Avery]

I visited an Idependant the other day and had a great time and probably would repeat. She is well review on the boards. I emailed her again to set up another appointment and I accidently had my real name in the signature area. I want and expect total privacy.

What kind of confidentiallity can I expect from a reputable ID?

I presume you meant "reputable SP".

In any case, you pretty well answered your own question by using the word "reputable". A reputable SP would have the common sense and decency to know that violating clients' confidentiality is a sure fire way to become disreputable in a hurry. They wouldn't bite the hand that feeds them.

Just stay away from those SPs that don't have a reputation for providing good service. Poor service is usually an indication of a lack of respect for clients in general, and those SPs probably can't be trusted with personal information.

 

[Mchatte]

Keep personal info to a minimum and keep your secret away from your friends! Too many people with big mouths around I think!

M

 

[skipper1]

You're probably all right but of course discretion is never a guarantee with your personal info. For example, I recently had someone give my cell # to some stupid "Friendjungle" pay service and lately I've been getting the odd text message on it -- no, not from any interested girls directly, but advert kind of crap from the service itself. I just delete right away. I'm still relatively safe this way but I imagine it could cause a lot of grief to some other ppl.

I don't know who gave it out but it had to be one of the SP's I've called or seen because I have two cells and I reserve that one for SP calls ONLY. I've never once used that cell to call work, taxi, or anywhere else.

If anybody knows anything at all about this kind of thing I'd appreciate hearing.

 

[Sixpak]

Nobody knows whether a name showing in an email is your real name unless you let them know.(or they really do know you) I know a lot of SPs who have a name showing in their email, but I do not know if it is a real name. However, a few times I used the name that was showing, and the lady asked how I knew her real first name!!! Happened a few times - had to explain how not to show that name. When they, or you, send out an email, the name you entered in the setup does not show for you, but does for the recipient.

I would just pretend it was a fictitious name I use, but when you are caught unawares, then you might blurt out 'how do you know my real name'?