now i have a very funny one for you. about 3 years ago i was visiting one of my favs. afterward i was just walking out the door and right in my face was my father in-law. now you want to talk about crapping your pants. of course he knew what this residence was all about because he was there for the same reason. now my father in-law was single at the time, but i am married to his little girl. SHIT, luckily he is a very cool kind of guy and broke in histerical laughter, much to my surprise. thank god. he says to me what the hell are doing here, is she not putting out already. i was so caught off guard i did not know what to say. i must have mumbled something, but can't remember what. he thought this was the funniest thing, just kept laughing. i said what are you doing here, trying to see about getting the upper hand i guess in the conversation. he tells me he is here to see so and so, meanwhile i have just been with this lady. how sick is that. luckily i was there first that day. ha ha. he kept laughing at me and said he would not say anything as long as he never heard or saw any of this again, i said no problem and thank you very much. i did not ever see this wonderful lady again. now as time went on, i spent a great deal of time with my father in-law. i was learning about his business, which when he passed, he left entirely to me. not his daughter or son, but me. we had spoken of this awkward moment only once when we alone driving to a meeting and he said he needed a good laugh and reminded me of the look on my face. i definately took some time off from this hobby after that.