thats exactly it. just being fair to the girls in a studio setting is key. you guys really have no idea how the SPs who don't provide GFE and other extras view and treat the SPs who do. it can be brutal. there are serious politics to deal with and life at work can be made very difficult. there is a weird attitude that the girl who doesn't do this or that is better than the one who does. the other girl is 'dirty' or what have you. or she's 'cheap'. or both.
if you're an indy you have no one to deal with, so yeah, you can charge and do whatever you're comfortable with.
i don't like the idea of nickel and diming guys, nor do most other girls i work with, but straight up, if i charge the same for GFE as i do fs, which is the same that the other girls at work charge for fs... you think i'm not going to be way busier?? how can the girl next to me compete? its just not fair, and i want the girl next to me to make her money too. i do not want to monopolize... as all of us girls have made serious sacrifices (and are well rewarded, mind you) to be here and i would hate to drive others out of business.
as well, i believe that my GFE services, greek, and so forth are actually worth more than my fs. just like my reverse is worth more than my nude and so forth. you guys don't agree? i also don't want to offer and perform some of my extra services for every single guy who comes through the door to see me. i do know that some SPs do enjoy making out with every guy, that its comfortable for them and it gets them business, and thats cool.
this leads me to another idea, kind of off topic...i don't personally understand that level of acting (not all SPs act...no fights here). i'm talking about what i have seen first hand from a particular SP who used to work for supreme (no longer however). to her credit, guys who liked her, who bought it, probably felt like a million bucks when they left. she made other guys sick, as they found her fake. how can an SP be so into every client? i've always had such hard time with this whole thing... and you guys know it. its like, i couldn't pretend to save my life. i mean, its been great for business but also bad at times. i don't need to have physical chemistry with a client, like think he's hot. i do, however, need to have other 'chemistry'... usually personality. to be honest, it seems like the 'hot' guys usually lack in the personality department, so the looks just wear thin super quick. lol. anyhow, is there not something to be said for an SP genuinely enjoying your company? or do guys just want the act and the cookie cutter session for all? where does personal service come in and being a regular who gets treated better than when he wasn't? i have always read how guys don't want fake and want personal service and to feel special... so how do you get that from girls who give it all to every client? is that what you guys really want?
i really hope i haven't offended anyone. i really just am curious. i do not look down upon what any girl offers for service or what she chooses to charge. we all have to be able to sleep at night, and i am very aware that we all have our limits, and i respect that. i also do not look down upon any of you guys, what you think is fair to pay and what you expect from your SP. it takes us all to make the world go around.
kisses,
gabrielle xxx