Envelopes
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I just throw it at them
They seem to enjoy it more than the session they had with me
They seem to enjoy it more than the session they had with me
I just use a plain white envelope. ✉
I place it on the desk where she can see it as I am heading to the shower. 🚿
I place it on the desk where she can see it as I am heading to the shower. 🚿
Don't buy cheap envelopes....if you lick them you may perish.
There are two cases I always use envelops:
- If the SP or the agency has a website and it mentions about presenting the donation in an envelope.
- If I’m seeing two SPs for a duo and they charge different rates.
Yes I use envelopes. I used to use the bank deposit envelopes until they took that one away, and I now have to remember to take my own envelope with me to the bank. I usually leave the envelope in an obvious place as soon as I am in, or hand it to her. I have experienced the response from one extreme to the other. Some will totally ignore it while others will open it and count it in front of me, which makes me feel uncomfortable.
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My fav was a client who gave me my session fee in a church collection envelope
A wad of cash on the counter before entering the bathroom has always been well received. Count it when ever or where ever. If it is a provider that knows me and is trusting I will usually put my wallet in plain site with a bulge of bills showing. As a previous post states, if requested an envolope would be used.
Providers are not impressed with johns that can’t respect their written instructions. As so many say please read add or website carefully. Doing so goes a long way to earning their respect.
Hahaha that’s too funny! Do you find it awkward or uncouth if someone leaves subtly places money (without an envelope) on a counter for example? Is it a faux pas?
If I am paying using an envelope, I make sure I add a spritz of my current cologne as well as adding a handwritten "For you" with a heart and some XO's.
I mean why not. A tiny bit of effort is meaningful.
I mean why not. A tiny bit of effort is meaningful.
I don't mind having it counted....removes any uncertainty.
I use an envelope. It just seems to be the proper thing to do.
There was a old SP joke that went something like "what's a telling sign that the girl might be an escort? She has a drawer full of empty envelopes, but no cards"
The envelopes banks give you when you get foreign currency from a teller are the perfect size. Ask nicely in a branch (Yep they still have those) and they'll give you a stack.
The envelopes banks give you when you get foreign currency from a teller are the perfect size. Ask nicely in a branch (Yep they still have those) and they'll give you a stack.
