Dumb questions - at least one

[idiotnoob]

Potential client here, but even looking at a lot of ads & websites, still never hired one before. I have questions. Stupid questions. Hopefully the kind that maybe those with experience can help me with.


Question 1: When you go to an SP incall, do they provide the rubber jimmy hat, or do you have to bring your own supply ? (And what if its outcall, do they bring some or what?)

Question2: Same question, but regarding lube.

Question 3: Do incalls have a dress code for clients ?

Question 4: How anonymous is it for the client ?

 

[girth-brooks]

Quick answers:

1. No, you don't supply the condoms.
2. No, you don't supply the lube (unless you have a crazy idea that I don't know about).
3. Incalls don't have a dress code, but I would recommend that you try to blend in to where you are going.
4. It's anonymous for your privacy as long as you are anonymous with hers. It's about trust.

 

[Dnice]

1. Never a bad idea to bring one just in case.
2. Usually the girls have their own and know which brand/type works for them.
3. I believe first impressions help sessions go smooth, so looking presentable helps in my opinion, helps me anyways.
4. With the more established agencies and sp's you have nothing to worry about. Use an alias and a burner phone.

 

[hornygandalf]

1. Usually the ladies have their own supply and much prefer using those for a variety of reasons, however, if you are an unusual size and need a special size condom to accommodate, you might want to check with her first if it is okay to bring your own. Having a backup is not a bad idea either, JUST in case the lady has run out (it happens).

2. It's the ladies body, her preference rules... unless you have a particular brand/idea you want to try, then ask her (and make sure what you bring is sealed and never been opened).

3. Eventually naked is the most common dress code at incalls, before then, depends on how much attention you want to draw to yourself. Most want to be as nondescript as possible and blend in with the environment.

4. How anonymous do you want it to be? If you wish to wear a mask, it may draw attention to you outside the apartment, but might add a kinky twist once inside. I have read of one gentleman who was blindfolded around the point of entry and stayed blindfolded throughout the encounter. Heightened the experience, but I'm not sure that it made him any more anonymous.

And hey, these aren't totally dumb questions if you are a newbie. But, if you come back and ask us the same questions next week, then some may judge that they ARE dumb at that point and watch out...

 

[bcneil]

1. Yes, they provide.
2. Yes, they provide.
3. No, but use common sense.
4. Varies.

 

[idiotnoob]

And hey, these aren't totally dumb questions if you are a newbie. But, if you come back and ask us the same questions next week, then some may judge that they ARE dumb at that point and watch out...

No, I'll make sure I have new dumb questions each time.

Here's more:

Question 5: Some of the ones I have looked up have a demand references (either other SP's or a sign-up service of some kind ?), which of course, being a noob, I have none. So, is it better to ask the SP anyway, being up front about having none, or just to give it a pass and select a different SP who doesn't ask for them?

Question 6: How common is it that incalls and parlours have cameras in the ...? What are the warning signs (mirrors by the bed ? weird looking objects?) ?

Question 7: How hard is it to find someone who is (for real) D&D free ?

 

[hornygandalf]

5. Only a portion ask for references. If they don't advertise they need them, you probably will be okay. Don't bring it up unless they ask. If they do, explain the situation and see what their response is.
Many of these ladies have pretty attuned intuition and will sense whether you are genuine or not.

6. There are a very small number, as far as I'm aware, but you will have to mine through reviews and comments on here to be alerted to them. Well-reviewed, highly regarded ladies are very unlikely to have them inside as that would destroy their business as soon as they are found out. Some may have them at the door, however.

7. Again, look for well-reviewed ladies, who don't offer unsafe services. That isn't a guarantee, but is a starter. I suspect that most of the well-reviewed ladies who are active on this board are likely to be D&D free, but there are likely a few exceptions. Make sure condoms are used and you are already part way there. Be sensible, be safe, and you should be fine, though there is a risk with anything in life.

 

[Poonian]

Throwing my $0.02 in here...

Question 1: When you go to an SP incall, do they provide the rubber jimmy hat, or do you have to bring your own supply ? (And what if its outcall, do they bring some or what?)

Question2: Same question, but regarding lube.

As answered above, SP's will always provide these. They want to make sure they are protected against STDs and would never set an appointment without having these handy.

Question 3: Do incalls have a dress code for clients ?

Not really. But as girth-brooks suggested above you should dress appropriate for the location. Wearing sweat pants with holes in them really wouldn't be appropriate if you are seeing a SP in an upscale apartment in downtown vancouver and might alert other tennants in the building, who would alert the building manager.

Question 4: How anonymous is it for the client ?

If you are seeing an independent SP it's completely anonymous. You go to their suite/apartment/whatever and they are the only person there usually.

If you going to a micro/agency/whatever there will be other people there. The idea of it used to bug me when I was starting this out but now I really don't care. We're all there to have a good time and most agencies are good about keeping clients away from each other so you don't usually see them, but you will usually see other SP's wandering around.

No, I'll make sure I have new dumb questions each time.

In this hobby there really are no dumb questions

Question 5: Some of the ones I have looked up have a demand references (either other SP's or a sign-up service of some kind ?), which of course, being a noob, I have none. So, is it better to ask the SP anyway, being up front about having none, or just to give it a pass and select a different SP who doesn't ask for them?

Depends. Some SP's are really picky about this which is understandable. Just be honest and tell them you are new and see what happens. Worst-case scenario they say no. Most SP's are pretty understanding though.

Question 6: How common is it that incalls and parlours have cameras in the ...? What are the warning signs (mirrors by the bed ? weird looking objects?) ?

I have only heard of one place that actually hides cameras, it's a shared apartment near Lougheed Mall. It's pretty uncommon I think and they aren't doing it to frame you, they are doing it for protection. You have to understand that some guys think paying a SP means they can smack them around and hurt them. So the cameras are there mostly so they can file a police report and give a picture of the jerk. I've never heard of an SP using hidden cameras and trying to extort clients, but I wouldn't be surprised if it happened if you were a celebrity or politician or something.

Question 7: How hard is it to find someone who is (for real) D&D free ?

Don't pay less then $80/15 mins. There's a few SP's in certain parts of surrey that offer a $20 BNG...STAY AWAY FROM THEM. These SP's rely on massive volume, it's literally a rotating door. Never see them.

Don't bareback a SP. Ever.

Even BBBJ is not adviseable but some of us love that feeling of blowing a load down their throat that we can't help but look for those

Also look for SP's who have been around for a while. STD-ridden SP's I would imagine don't last long. Once word gets out they have herpies or whatever nobody calls them and they fall off the map.

 

[badbadboy]

Potential client here, but even looking at a lot of ads & websites, still never hired one before. I have questions. Stupid questions. Hopefully the kind that maybe those with experience can help me with.


Question 1: When you go to an SP incall, do they provide the rubber jimmy hat, or do you have to bring your own supply ? (And what if its outcall, do they bring some or what?)

Question2: Same question, but regarding lube.

Question 3: Do incalls have a dress code for clients ?

Question 4: How anonymous is it for the client ?

1. No. Some take their own if they are of the large variety. Some SP's are not trusting of others bringing their own condoms. So ask first.
2. I sometimes have liquid silk in my bag. It's firkin awesome lube and not the sticky stuff most SP's have on hand.
3. One should always arrive fully dressed so not to become suspicious to the other owners or concierge in the building :nod:
4. As long as you do not have Pooner labeled on your forehead or on your Pooner Bag it will be ok. Over time, you may find you share things with the SP if you are into repeating.

Happy Pooning.