Drama

[sevenofnine]

After spending a long weekend with the inlaws,
you know some people are just prone to drama, selfish, insecure, ego, need all the attention, inmature spoiled brats.

Unfortunatly perb is not much different.


You know its funny though.

There was a rescued dog at one of the parties I was at. I don't know all the details,
But the dog just hid as much as it good its back to the fence as far away from everything as it could be.
It was so afraid and just shivered with fear the entire evening.

But you know everyone at the party felt sorry for that dog, and at some point in the evening tried to befriend it.

You know that was me, that dog was me when I was a teenager, but no one reached out to me.
A lot of peopole tried to bully me.


You know it really is sad, that people are so afraid, that they have to bully and abuse another human being in order to feel good about themself.

And that is what it amounts to Im better then you, Im so scared and insecure and unhappy with myself but if I go and piss on you I will some how feel better.

I actually really do feel sorry for people like that.

I got over my problems, but I think bullies never really do, that type of person never really does. Because they never think anything is wrong. Who not me,

I think as far as this hobby goes, you only want to get involved with a class act lady.


Over the years several women have told me they have ruined a guys life, and or hinted to me how easy it would be.

Some sp's are just prone to drama and deceit'
When others are just a class act.

 

[NoSoundRain]

Sigh.. WTF.

 

[VanessaofBC]

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Sure we can agree to disagree, but if you are going to start attacking people and constantly patronizing them, put them on ignore.

Ignore button is your friend. Use it.

Someone had a good idea. They staid drama should be moved to "fight club thread" and let them hash it out there.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

What's a forum for, anyway, if not to bring topics up for discussion?

Since this hobby is so private for most people, it makes sense to me that a person might have an experience or a thought they'd like to discuss, but they have only one venue, and that's this Forum. We discuss every topic, from animal rights, to sexual positions, to politics, to investment ideas, etc etc etc.

So I say, let people be...live and let live. If someone brings up a topic that doesn't interest you, I wonder why people feel the need to comment on that. I prefer just to walk away, and go on to something else I'd rather be doing, reading, watching, listening to. Do I need to tell the OP that I found their topic dull, boring, irrelevant? No, and I just don't see the point of doing so.

I just recently discovered the ignore button. Yes, I find that some people are prone to drama in this community. If I have the energy, I might even take a peek at their post. But it's more likely that I'll keep going and read everyone else's comments. If you find someone's posts repetitive or boring or mundane, why not just put them on ignore and save yourself some time and energy? Why bother commenting on it?

 

[VanessaofBC]

Since this hobby is so private for most people, it makes sense to me that a person might have an experience or a thought they'd like to discuss, but they have only one venue, and that's this Forum. We discuss every topic, from animal rights, to sexual positions, to politics, to investment ideas, etc etc etc.

So I say, let people be...live and let live. If someone brings up a topic that doesn't interest you, I wonder why people feel the need to comment on that. I prefer just to walk away, and go on to something else I'd rather be doing, reading, watching, listening to. Do I need to tell the OP that I found their topic dull, boring, irrelevant? No, and I just don't see the point of doing so.

WOW...it was like Angels singing that was so profound! Hopefully others read it too!:clap2:

I just recently discovered the ignore button. Yes, I find that some people are prone to drama in this community. If I have the energy, I might even take a peek at their post. But it's more likely that I'll keep going and read everyone else's comments. If you find someone's posts repetitive or boring or mundane, why not just put them on ignore and save yourself some time and energy? Why bother commenting on it?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Back to the topic at hand, I agree that it's sad when someone has to put someone else down to make themselves feel big. But it is the way of the species. At every turn, we are given challenges and opportunities to grow.

None of our lives has been a cake-walk; we've all had things happen to us that tested us, and we've all experienced life's unfairnesses. That's what growth is about.

Be proud of the growth that you experienced; maybe never forget those that tormented you, since they taught you how not to be. And remember that, what goes around tends to come around, so the likelihood is that they'll get theirs.

Meanwhile, success is the best revenge. Just go on and live your life to the fullest.

 

[The Lizard King]

you know some people are just prone to drama, selfish, insecure, ego, need all the attention, inmature spoiled brats.

Nope...news to me...never noticed that but I think it's "immature" rather than "inmature" though.

 

[Larry Storch]

I nominate this for the first thread in the new "Fight Club sub-forum" ®L-I-J. :thumb:

 

[NoSoundRain]

I don't see how there is any drama here.. for me I was just expressing exasperation at yet another one of 7of9's meandering posts. It's like a contest for seven on how many ways he can postulate some random huge generalization about a human emotion and tie it with a "my SP"/"an SP once told me"/"an SP said I was"/"I am friends with this SP in RL" comment. It was novel the first few times, then a little concerning and now it just seems, well, sad.

Seven, say something new. Please... just once.

With cherries on top... no not those cherries...

....

 

[sevenofnine]

Sorry if I didn't make my point very well.


It just strikes me as amazing that people worry about some poor little dog.
But have no concern about what they do to some fellow human being.
Just amazing.


I think its because a dog doesn't challenge them, or pose any kind of a threat, but people are so insecure they need to piss on everything they can..


And by the way take a big leak on me if you want.

I remember a few weeks ago I think three ladies called me an ass hole.
or hinted something to that effect.

It took me awhile to stop laughing, it made my day actually. so please be my guest.


I think this is a discussion board, and when a guy pays for a ladies company, well he should know who he is getting involved with.

And well Ms Sarah started a thread about people getting along, but they actually couldn't the mods shut it down.

And we call our self adults.

God you have to just laugh sometimes.

It is so fucking amusing the only thing I did wrong in my entire life, is hire an escort.

It really makes you stop and wonder.

 

[The Lizard King]

I think its because a dog doesn't challenge them, or pose any kind of a threat

I think that's because the dog knows humans will generally feed him and demean themselves by walking behind the dog to clean up after it pinches off a loaf

 

[The Lizard King]

Awesome! That's actually not a bad stoner show.

 

[mik]

 

[VanessaofBC]

**** insert stupid meme here****

really, why so cruel......

 

[mik]

really, why so cruel......

Fixed that for you and for

 

[VanessaofBC]

Fixed that for you and for

thank you! see how much better that feels!!!

 

[Larry Storch]

Take it down a notch here boys, no need for 'personal attacks' lest you get called the B word.

I think my suggestion was a constructive one: start a journal or a blog.

I nominate this for the first thread in the new "Fight Club sub-forum" ®L-I-J. :thumb:

Sorry, forgot to ad these: [sarc] [/sarc]

See? What did I tell you people? Vote early. Vote often.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I think you need a diary or blog or something.

Actually, I think this was excellent advice. Much of the time, we just want to get our thoughts down on paper, the audience is only an after-thought. 'Thinking out loud', as it were! And, you never know, maybe one day, all those thoughts will turn into a personal memoir.

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[Smilf]

If you had stopped here you would have come out ahead.
But then you revealed what I suspected when I first opened this thread; you're trying to revive the thread sarah started.

Yup that ain't too hard to figure out ...

honestly some people need to quit playing the victim and pretending to be innocent all the time .. it's getting old and tiresome.

And if you don't know the whole story, also best to shut up about it.

 

[hiddencloud]

It looks like there's a whole lot of caring about words posted on the Internet happening lately.

Caring about words on the Internet seems like a bad idea to me. That's why I don't do it.