Dominatrix and Masochism, and Bondage
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but i don't really know what to expect. I would love to tussle with you V-L...........actually you Ingrid and myself thats the fantasy i've been having these last few days. Heheh!!!
I think S&M and B&D with the right person could be alot of fun. I'm not sure of the two which i would enjoy if any but i would be willing to give a shot.
I do know it has to be with someone who has experienced in this sort of thing and knows how far to take it. --- Kev
I think S&M and B&D with the right person could be alot of fun. I'm not sure of the two which i would enjoy if any but i would be willing to give a shot.
I do know it has to be with someone who has experienced in this sort of thing and knows how far to take it. --- Kev
Duff, Veronika is one sexy woman. Have you ever seen her? Too bad you can't touch her, she has one remarkable set of breasts.
She does things I've never heard of. Some pretty bizzare stuff. One hilarious item on her website was a list of gifts clients could bring and on that list was "medical equipment."
She does things I've never heard of. Some pretty bizzare stuff. One hilarious item on her website was a list of gifts clients could bring and on that list was "medical equipment."
And if you're into reading...
an excellent beginners book is SM101 A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman.
an excellent beginners book is SM101 A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman.
ANother good local Pro domme
Another good local Pro Domme
www.mistressshellie.com
Like Veronica Harley not full service, but lotsa other fun things if you want to experiment with BDSM and if your into legs wow....
Another good local Pro Domme
www.mistressshellie.com
Like Veronica Harley not full service, but lotsa other fun things if you want to experiment with BDSM and if your into legs wow....
Re: So what's up with this? Am I too straight, or what?
If i told my mother some of things i like to enjoy with a female companion she would think i was sick and perverted. Of course my mothers very old...and the only position is the missionary position. Oral, DATY etc, are for sinners.
I have seen on TV in film and documantries about M&S and B&D and i'm wondering whats the fascination.
I don't know if this is my thing but how does one know unless you take that first step? So to explore another area of myself i say lets start of small and see where it leads?
Unfortunately this seems to be a taboo subject and many who may have partaken or would like to partake won't speak up here for fear of ridicule. Pity it could be interesting. --- Kev
Well adventurer i thought thats what i was doing when i started this thread. However....adventurer said:
If i told my mother some of things i like to enjoy with a female companion she would think i was sick and perverted. Of course my mothers very old...and the only position is the missionary position. Oral, DATY etc, are for sinners.
I have seen on TV in film and documantries about M&S and B&D and i'm wondering whats the fascination.
I don't know if this is my thing but how does one know unless you take that first step? So to explore another area of myself i say lets start of small and see where it leads?
Unfortunately this seems to be a taboo subject and many who may have partaken or would like to partake won't speak up here for fear of ridicule. Pity it could be interesting. --- Kev
Well LP and duff thanx for your input. Its interesting....
LP you stated that i "Try the fetishes that have popped in your mind first." Well thats a start because i haven't even given fetishes any thought. Actually i thought of women in schoolgirl outfits but who hasen't?
To think you can go through all that duff and not get off. Maybe i'm looking at this the wrong way. --- Kev
LP you stated that i "Try the fetishes that have popped in your mind first." Well thats a start because i haven't even given fetishes any thought. Actually i thought of women in schoolgirl outfits but who hasen't?
To think you can go through all that duff and not get off. Maybe i'm looking at this the wrong way. --- Kev
Well i took the time and reread this thread from start to finish. Thanx everyone for your comments.
Especially you duff for putting it all out there. I appreciate it.
I think from what i have been reading here and from some other research i've done, i don't think this dom/sub experience is for me. I always thought dom/sub was a different kind of sexual experience. At least the end result. As i'm learning its not. It appears that its alot more than just something thats physical. I'm getting the idea its more of a mind set. For example Lady Pandora says i should start off with fantasies i may have. The problem is i don't have any fantasies regarding this. NONE I think thats my problem i don't have the right frame of mind regarding this. (If that makes sense.) --- Kev
Especially you duff for putting it all out there. I appreciate it.
I think from what i have been reading here and from some other research i've done, i don't think this dom/sub experience is for me. I always thought dom/sub was a different kind of sexual experience. At least the end result. As i'm learning its not. It appears that its alot more than just something thats physical. I'm getting the idea its more of a mind set. For example Lady Pandora says i should start off with fantasies i may have. The problem is i don't have any fantasies regarding this. NONE I think thats my problem i don't have the right frame of mind regarding this. (If that makes sense.) --- Kev
There is much info out there for those that are into it. But I'd say think long and hard about what your true desires are and where you want to go with it. From what I've seen from browsing around the odd time out of curiousity (hate to sound superficial), but most do not have the looks I'm into. But this one below... WOW. Now she is a godess. With her looks she could probably turn a pure vanilla into a raving hardcore sub. But she's pretty darn hardcore...
Godess Nikita... She's based out of LA.
http://www.eros-la.com/file_images/la-nikita6-14.jpg
http://www.truesuperiority.com/index_flash.html
Godess Nikita... She's based out of LA.
http://www.eros-la.com/file_images/la-nikita6-14.jpg
http://www.truesuperiority.com/index_flash.html
