Does Chemistry Count?

[MissingOne]

I only see SPs for erotic massage. I don't go for full service. Therefore, my encounters with SPs are intrinsically less physically intimate than those of aficionados of full service. Perhaps they are less likely to become emotionally intimate as well.

I don't know how to define or describe "chemistry". My regulars of the past were women whom I liked, and they seemed to honestly like me, but that is as close as either party ever wanted to get.

My former regulars have retired. I hope to find another regular, but for the time being, the women I see for massage are professionally pleasant and I am polite. I'm pretty sure that is not what anyone means by "chemistry".

 

[sevenofnine]

yes and no,

I think women have different styles and personalities its just who they are.
I don't believe any of which really comes across in a review or ad, you have to meet face to face,

you repeat or not, well let me put it this way, we chose to have sex with what interests us. the girl next door, the bad girl, the brat from high school, the young up and coming university kid, the chic on the back of the motor cycle, the cute nurse or teacher
all women in my experience have a personality that fits something, or fits our fantasy of some type of women, that is kind of who we imagine were fucking. after that its how well we enjoy the sex, there body.

But to be honest I think were wired in a certain way, for a certain type of women.
I have seen one women in this almost exclusively and you know there is nothing real special about her, especially as we both get older, but she is a fit for me.

so yes I think chemistry is important, but I really enjoyed seeing and having sex with that bad girl and that biker chic, but the bad girl was actually bad, and the biker chic, way to much booze and drugs, just in the end not something I could have a steady diet of.

I never really could get anything going with a women who is rather immature either,

but then chemistry has its pit falls do I love her does she love me, when if that is what you want your in the wrong place

 

[paprides]

Yup. Chemistry plays a large role.

After all, "regulars," are such because of the chemistry that is developed and nurtured over time. much like the entire experience, the chemistry is a contribution of both (all three?) participants, no merely a unilateral effort.