I tried a few people out and shopped around for a long time, but I came to realize that I always leave happier when I see one particular person, so I went exclusively to her. Unfortunately this can lead to some troublesome real world feelings if you're a dumbass like me.
been there done that,
but you know if your both mature and adults, you can work it out.
it works for me, in that I am married, with kids, and when I started not really planning to leave my wife, still not,
and the lady I see is involved she has people in her life, so she is not pulling me in because she is lonely,
so we have openly talked about our feelings for one another,
but at the same time realize just liking one another is not enough or even loving each other is not enough,
I don't know what will happen with her and me, but its not something I lay awake and worry about,
we kind of promised each other we would never shut the door on the other,
but like I said we both know liking or even loving is not enough,
we both realize we both have some living to do,
some more life experience for both of us,
it makes a a big world of difference who your involved with and there emotional level and experience, as well as your own,
yeah it does hurt sometimes,
yeah we make a fool of our self
a big fucking fool
but so what,
I went out with a couple guys from work today, boring, hell boring,
never been married never had a serious girl friend never did much of anything,
some one told me the other day, I sure as hell am not boring.
shit I would fucking shoot myself if I was boring,
I would fucking shoot myself if I have never loved and been loved,
so what there are a few awkward moments so fucking what,