Do you let the SP know before you CIM?

[justwannahavefun]

I always let her know its coming. For me there is nothing better than knowing she chose to still do it after you let them know.
To CIM without her knowing is wrong.

 

[ForestMan]

For me, it depends on the SP. In my experience, some only allow it but it’s extra, and others don’t allow cim. Either way, I let her know, if she allows it then she’s prepared, and if not, she can pull out.

 

[angry anderson]

No. But I do tell them their cheque is in the mail.

 

[cruefan]

I have had it happen once where a gorgeous provider was giving such great head and going at it so aggressively that she popped me unexpectedly.

I was both stunned and slightly embarrassed at the same time so it can happen and it was never done intentionally.

 

[felixthecat]

So what do you think is the appropriate way for a SP to react to that?

Years ago, a very intelligent retired SP that posted here would spit it out immediately on the guy's stomach.

I guess it does not appear very confrontational but drives the point across well.

 

[masterblaster]

I was doing 69 with a woman a few years back while I was occupied I happened to lose control. She got some in her mouth before she pulled it out and the rest went on her face.

 

[Paulscope]

I only a bbbj is offered then the question has to to be asked would you like to wash your face or the sheets. I just had a recent visit to a mp and agreed to fs which started with a bbbj I knew things where brewing and asked her to to get the cover on and get on top but she hesitated and kept on with the bj which made me cim with out any time to pull out I still paid for fs but with load gone so was erection. Bbbj is a risk of getting a unintentional load but as most respectfully men with control should let you know what's about to happen. Have a merry Xmas and a glorious new year and thank you for the service you provide

 

[VanessainVictoria]

. Have a merry Xmas and a glorious new year and thank you for the service you provide

Thank you and Merry Christmas!

 

[latetraveller]

I think communication is critical .I think it is polite to alert her.I always will.

 

[take8easy]

What provider is ever going to say she wants it. Thats some big time wishful thinking. At best she might tolerate it but thats one horny gal who actually wants it.
I've had girlfriends that seemed happy to swallow a load but I didn't dare ask is they actually liked it because I didn't want to ruin a good thing.

Oh trust me, there ARE some who actually tell you that they do like it My first one was Cherise. If you don't believe me, ask other guys who have seen her. Although not many, but there are more but I prefer not to tell because in many cases I got to hear that clearly on my repeat visits.

 

[peacectryguy]

Oh trust me, there ARE some who actually tell you that they do like it My first one was Cherise. If you don't believe me, ask other guys who have seen her. Although not many, but there are more but I prefer not to tell because in many cases I got to hear that clearly on my repeat visits.

I also have had several over the years who have specifically asked for it. It's not a common thing though. I think some of it has to do with trust and chemistry. As for those who don't want it, I do my very best to hold back and let them know if they are getting me too close. Sometimes it's just a matter of taking a little break to slow me down but if I'm that close, I usually can't hold on much longer. Honestly, I have no problem with CBJ as well. Some if my better BJs have been covered so that is a great alternative. I do think communication is key as well. Sometimes girls can be too aggressive with the BJ for my liking as well and I'm not afraid to tell them to stop for a minute and slow down. The porn movie shit really doesn't fly with me. It's over rated.

 

[Ray]

CIM is something I look for, but it's always covered, so never thought I needed to announce the moment. With real life partner, when going bare, yes, I would always let her know. It's been decades though.