I had a long response to this thread full of opinions good and bad. I cose not to post it as I would see more debate going on over and over again.
So this will be how I see it. I do not live in a little box and a little world of my own. I try to see both sides of a story and take it from there. I look at the pros and cons as I do feel no one is perfect we all make mistakes.
I have seen many men from this board and the other boards, when I ask where they saw my advertisement they tell me. Now what I have learned from some regular clients is they are not members on the board they just lurk here and check out who is available, one of my clientswho has seen more than 20 times in the past year goes here and checks out when I am available sometimes just calls. Anyways there are aalso the men that just don't review. (obviously the lurkers don't revirew) For there own reasons they choose not to review what reasons they have for not reviewing is there business and their choice.
I beleive we all make mistakes and we are always learning, both pooners and sp's, not just in our jobs but in life. It is a never ending journey of lessons learned.
I beleive in honesty, trust, and keeping it real, if that makes sense.
An honest review (I really do apologize ladies) either negative or positive. However use cation with negative do not bash ladies down and call them names. For example:
"I saw Sally the other night, she was older than advertised, her in call was clean but did smell of smoke. Decided to give it a go service was poor mechanical did not offer all she advertised and so on" That is a negative but not putting girl down. Now if you were to say "Sally was alot older than advertised she is an old bag, the place was clean but had the horrid smell of smoke" That is a bit discriptive and rude."
You can do a review negative with respect and class there is no need to use discriptive rude words and be ignorant about it. Yes you men are the paying customers and do expect what the lady advertises. sometimes you TOFT a new gal and write a review and your experience is not good. Share by all means but give the girl a chance she is still learning. You get your hopes up high and expect the best, anxiety gets going as you read all these wonderful things a SP advertises. Go in a session with an open mind it may not always be what you expected even from a well reviewed SP. We all have different expectations, sometimes we click and sometimes we don't..and if you have a bad vibe walk out.
The bottom line is your experience might not be what others experienced good or bad. Communicate with the lady you choose to see before hand and get all your answers.
Anyways I do not have a whole lot of reviews myself and I have seen a good many men in my time here, and many of the men have come back over and over. So they do not review. I know I have done my job and satisfied the men that come back. Some don't as maybe I was not what they expected or they like variety. They did not review me that is their choice.. I don;t think a negative review if done respectfully will harm your business it is a learning tool it is ones view on how they experienced you. Bashing down and plain rude ness in a review is un called for. Shows me you are a disrespectful man, an angry man, customer satisfaaction is number one and no matter what your job is you can not please everyoine. Be nice but be constructive. We are not perfect we do our best (most of us) to please you men.
I hope that I have not hurt anyone with this thread, but if you men use respect and word things right negative reviews are ok. I would myself be hurt probably and shocked at first if I were to get a negative review, but I know that I am good at what I do and I am not for eveyone and sometimes things do not go wellor we don't click I am only human I do my job best I can and hope that I was all that they expected. Communication SP's be honest in advertising and open to what your menu is men communicate so you do not have to have a bad experience. I am an open book communication is the key. Men save your money she opens the door and is not whaat you thought put that little head aside and use the big one and think and walk you have the right to walk away before you experiencee the bad.
Ok I need to get to my coffee..
Grammar and spelling her just ignore...lol I just got up here.
) . Exactly what I have had a hard time expressing myself. I have admitted that I have never been good at expressing myself but my honesty, respect, love, ... have been projecting and saving me.