Do escorts really have orgasms or are they just faking it?
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Yes,
You don't know
Yes.
It's definately possible for ladies to orgasm with a client. It's natural if the sex is good. Of course SPs fake it. We are still women, afterall!
Men may claim to know if a girl is faking it or not, but all girls orgasm differently so there's really no way of knowing unless you see only one girl frequently and get to know her body and responses.
Sex with a stranger is uninhibited. Therefore, a girl isn't thinking a million other thought such as "does he really love me, is he seeing someone else, do i want to spend the rest of my life with him, did I put that load into the dryer" so we focus on making you happy and sometimes we get please in the end
Besides, it's much easier to make all those sexy noises without having to TRY to do it
You don't know
Yes.
It's definately possible for ladies to orgasm with a client. It's natural if the sex is good. Of course SPs fake it. We are still women, afterall!
Men may claim to know if a girl is faking it or not, but all girls orgasm differently so there's really no way of knowing unless you see only one girl frequently and get to know her body and responses.
Sex with a stranger is uninhibited. Therefore, a girl isn't thinking a million other thought such as "does he really love me, is he seeing someone else, do i want to spend the rest of my life with him, did I put that load into the dryer" so we focus on making you happy and sometimes we get please in the end
Besides, it's much easier to make all those sexy noises without having to TRY to do it
I would say for the most part yes, All the reasons moi said. Some girls are more in touch with them selves than others. We are like real women, lol
Some girls are more in touch with them selves than others. We are like real women, lolGreat answers have already been given. I would just paraphrase and say "do women really have orgasms or are they just faking it?" Because some have easier time orgasming than others, some know what works for them better than others.
And the best thing you could do is just stop focusing on orgasm - and concentrate on mutual pleasure instead. Sex is about exploration and many subtle or intense sensations. Satisfaction should not be reduced to whether a person had an orgasm or not.
As a woman who very rarely achieves orgasm with a partner and has done a lot of reading on the topic, I would say it is a lot more about a particular woman's knowledge of her body and ability to communicate than connection. I know one lady (non-local) who does not enjoy connection at all and has a lot of contempt for her work and clients, but she still orgasms for real and often. I build connection with everyone I see but it is still not enough for reliable orgasms - whether with a client, or any non-paying partner I've had.
In other words, her orgasm is not a testament to you being a great lover or to you truly getting through to the real her. It's just orgasm.
And the best thing you could do is just stop focusing on orgasm - and concentrate on mutual pleasure instead. Sex is about exploration and many subtle or intense sensations. Satisfaction should not be reduced to whether a person had an orgasm or not.
As a woman who very rarely achieves orgasm with a partner and has done a lot of reading on the topic, I would say it is a lot more about a particular woman's knowledge of her body and ability to communicate than connection. I know one lady (non-local) who does not enjoy connection at all and has a lot of contempt for her work and clients, but she still orgasms for real and often. I build connection with everyone I see but it is still not enough for reliable orgasms - whether with a client, or any non-paying partner I've had.
In other words, her orgasm is not a testament to you being a great lover or to you truly getting through to the real her. It's just orgasm.
Wow, all of these responses from the ladies are really good. You're lucky to be getting such straight-forward and honest feedback.
If you put pressure on your SP that she has to have an orgasm, then guaranteed it will be fake. Otherwise there's no absolute way to tell. Signs are just that -- signs. A good example is blood rushing to the face. Some women get this when they get closer to climax, but closer could mean 3 sec away or 30 minutes away. It never sounds like it does in a porn film, but other than that it could sound like anything from loud (again, not like in a porn) to soft moaning to total silence. You can never tell for sure.
It can and does happen with SPs, just don't force the issue. It's much more likely if you're both relaxed with each other. Be courteous and friendly, explain that you don't need fake sounds to shore up your ego, and go from there. Read up on it, sure, but don't make it the be all and end all. Relax and take it easy.
If you put pressure on your SP that she has to have an orgasm, then guaranteed it will be fake. Otherwise there's no absolute way to tell. Signs are just that -- signs. A good example is blood rushing to the face. Some women get this when they get closer to climax, but closer could mean 3 sec away or 30 minutes away. It never sounds like it does in a porn film, but other than that it could sound like anything from loud (again, not like in a porn) to soft moaning to total silence. You can never tell for sure.
It can and does happen with SPs, just don't force the issue. It's much more likely if you're both relaxed with each other. Be courteous and friendly, explain that you don't need fake sounds to shore up your ego, and go from there. Read up on it, sure, but don't make it the be all and end all. Relax and take it easy.
They sure do, they have them AND they fake it. You can't always know they are real but once in a while there is no mistaking it. A couple times I have had BBDATYTCIM....and I swallowed!
You have gotten honest answers from the girls here but after a session if you ask "did you cum?" Don't expect an honest answer then. Personally I don't think you should ever ask that.
They have real ones with me and fake ones with everyone else
All joking aside I was having a conversation with a real life porn star at one time and she told me that she loved the sex and got really turned on but that she never had orgasms because she was always focusing on the "performance". This may be true for some escorts as well.
I'm just waiting for the inevitable, "Who cares?" answer...
I believe Jerry Seinfeld put it best...
"A female orgasm is kinda like the bat cave. A very few people know where it is and if you're lucky enough to see it you probably don't know how you got there and you can't find you way back after you left.
You know there are two types of female orgasm: the real and the fake. And I'll tell you right now, as a man, we don't know. We do not know, because to man sex is like a car accident and determining the female orgasm is like being asked 'What did you see after the car went out of control?'. 'I heard a lot of screeching sounds. I remember I was facing the wrong way at one point. And in the end my body was thrown clear."
I have seen both the real, and the fake ones - some are good about it, but some of the girls shouldn't be pursuing a Hollywood career, if you know what I mean...
Usually a good indicator is her face - you can always tell, as well as the breathing. With my SO, I know I made her cum if she has tears in her eyes - and no, it's not from a shitty performance in bed, ya wags.
When a girl is able to squirt it's always a plus to see the fruits of your labour....
Usually a good indicator is her face - you can always tell, as well as the breathing. With my SO, I know I made her cum if she has tears in her eyes - and no, it's not from a shitty performance in bed, ya wags
.When a girl is able to squirt it's always a plus to see the fruits of your labour....
Don't know don't care. You pay escorts to go not cum! I only make an exception for squirters because its entertaining for ME!
This is not to say she can't cum if she so desires but i certainly won't go out of my way to make it happen. Im the customer and the session is about pleasing me.
This is not to say she can't cum if she so desires but i certainly won't go out of my way to make it happen. Im the customer and the session is about pleasing me.
I into a session with the mindset that her orgasm is a PRIORITY!!!! I get pleasure from her pleasure, so me being the client, that's what I want. I do my best to get her there but know that it isn't a lock. As Nina mentioned earlier, women have to be "in the mood" to have an orgasm. An open mind by both parties will allow for mutual enjoyment .
Why is that ? You figure you got to work on a tan and try to grow some whiskas to have a shot at Greenie ?Greenie I didnt need to hear about either, far too much info
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If I start, I finish.
If a client is performing oral worship on me it's for ME, not him and he will keep going until I'm satisfied.
Best accomplished with client tied face up on the bed. I straddle his face so I have some control and giddy up. He's tied up. He doesn't get to leave (or have his orgasm) until I'm happy.
(For those who don't know me, I fit more into the Dominatrix category than escort. I'm not everyone's cup of tea... )
If a client is performing oral worship on me it's for ME, not him and he will keep going until I'm satisfied.
Best accomplished with client tied face up on the bed. I straddle his face so I have some control and giddy up. He's tied up. He doesn't get to leave (or have his orgasm) until I'm happy.
(For those who don't know me, I fit more into the Dominatrix category than escort. I'm not everyone's cup of tea...
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