Do escorts like getting a massage from their clients?

[overkill79]

Just want to see if any escorts on the island, or traveling, ever let their clients massage them. I know Lady Vanessa offers it on her website (last I checked), and Burgandy gave a mutual massage before she left for the US. It's not something I do very often, but I'm looking to do more of that. You scratch my back, I scratch yours. Right?

 

[Cantstopatone]

I've always given massages to girlfriends as well at SP's my entrie life and they have always seemed to enjoy and appreciate it. I guess it would depend on the women as well as your skill. Saying that if the SP is a premier masseuse I might be worried my massage won't cut it, but worth asking the question.

 

[boggitypop]

Just want to see if any escorts on the island, or traveling, ever let their clients massage them. I know Lady Vanessa offers it on her website (last I checked), and Burgandy gave a mutual massage before she left for the US. It's not something I do very often, but I'm looking to do more of that. You scratch my back, I scratch yours. Right?

You can easily just ask them. I'm more curious if you're going to pay them $250-$300/hr to give them a massage?

 

[Lady Vanessa]

You can easily just ask them. I'm more curious if you're going to pay them $250-$300/hr to give them a massage?

Plenty do!! The latter is messy, petty and none of your business, as to what consenting adults agree to do within their time together and at what agreed rate, in order for you to be snide, like you always are.

 

[2bfair]

I have never had a complaint from an sp when I would sensually caress her with my long soft hair moving up her inner thighs before daty. Or when I have run it up and down her back. Of course I have only done this with those who appear quite into the session.

 

[vimanone]

Lady Vanessa - your comment is pretty harsh.

Every man has different fantasy’s - some may include giving a massage which is cool.

The bottom line how anyone wants to sugar coat it is the client is an ATM and the provider
is a business for profit. Common sense dictates paying $300 for an hour the provider should be providing.

 

[overkill79]

I was more or less asking if you guys knew anybody that wouldn't mind getting a massage from their clients....... but dear lord, this conversation is fast becoming a confrontation. ?

 

[boggitypop]

I was more or less asking if you guys knew anybody that wouldn't mind getting a massage from their clients....... but dear lord, this conversation is fast becoming a confrontation. ?

I can't believe you need an answer to this. Given that you're paying them $200-$300 per hour I would bet every SP would. Ask them and find out, it's not like other requests that may be hard or inappropriate to ask via message.

 

[Finewine60]

I enjoy giving SPs a massage and everyone of them loves it.
It’s usually built on trust and in my experience SP rarely get to receive massages
The stories I could tell,
Anyway always ask and communicate your intentions.

For the record I do offer massages for select women clients on a professional, relaxation and sensual basis. So send me your significant others, they will thank you!

 

[alextorani]

Ya, gotta jump in here.

Lady V is more than being a little harsh. She is the one coming across as petty, mean and poking into other peoples business.

As I've said before, these ladies are simply business people, and to them men are simply an ATM. That's why they are called 'providers' and we are called 'clients'. Sure they'll be happy to let you massage them, for the going rate ... try it without paying and you'll see what your 'friendship' is worth fella's.

The OP's question was "do escorts LIKE getting a massage from their clients?" And the answer is - they will like, or tolerate within their boundaries, whatever you will pay for. Pretty simple, ain't rocket science.

If a guy wants to pay to give a provider a massage, no problem and nobody else's business.

Anybody tries to tell you different is just blowing smoke.

I think your comment "to them men are simply an ATM" is classless at best. Would you say your doctor, lawyer or other professional rendering service seems you simply as an ATM! These ladies are professionals providing a service, which can take any forms from companionship to sexual acts. They are people with feelings and sometimes their customers are less than that. They charge a fee for their time and service as each of us does to make a living. Their business include degrees of intimacy which takes a very special skill set to do well and some excel. They do not deserve to be disparaged for taking payment but deserve respect and to be treated well in return. I think you should apologize to Lady V!

 

[mopar man]

I was more or less asking if you guys knew anybody that wouldn't mind getting a massage from their clients....... but dear lord, this conversation is fast becoming a confrontation. ?

Not to worry friend, we are just having a friendly discussion about morals and ethics as they relate to transactional sex. Of course everybody loves massage and enjoys giving and receiving.

 

[2bfair]

After reading some of the comments here it is clear to me why an sp would not want to comment on this thread, especially after Lady V gets put down for her comment which is not as clear as it could be.
Many people see providers for various reasons. If I could no longer get it up I would pursue providers whom I could enjoy feeling the softness and curves of a woman and I would caress her all over. ie Lady V since she has a variety of options on her menu that no one else appears to provide. Her incall is the best I have seen from an indy. I would go for the mutual body exploration. I think that is a hands on approach.
And I have only read negative comments against Lady V by people who appear to have never seen her. Be kind gentlemen and let the ladies chime in on threads without condemnation.

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

Personally, I love receiving massage if the giver understands quality of touch (and if they aren’t sure, I’m happy to teach). For me, receiving touch helps me get into my body (embodiment) and helps me to become more relaxed and orgasmic. For some clients, this is important and enjoyable.

As others have mentioned, we are there to provide, but I would argue that some clients genuinely enjoy giving (and even need to give!) and that this variation of session time is just as valuable as one where they are solely receiving.

It’s interesting to me that some of the comments in this thread are so critical and dismissive of this possibility. Everyone has different needs and desires and with that comes varying perspectives of value.

Just because it’s not valuable to you, doesn’t mean it’s not valuable at all.

 

[Lady Vanessa]

Bravo Miss Sophia. Had I been a current SUPPORTING member, my response would have mirrored the same sentiments and those who know me, would agree. Thank you for your view in the regards to Overkill's question. ?

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

I would also add, that this work absolutely requires special skill sets. Sure, anyone can lay down and get fucked... But it takes many different skills to create a well functioning professional practice where clients feel cared for, turned on and taken care of. It’s pretty simplistic, and actually pretty ignorant, to say there’s no special skill sets that go into this business ?

 

[Class]

I have followed this thread and must say that I enjoy a mutually satisfying session, where both of us enjoy the time and derive satisfaction. I enjoy a women, whether a SP or not, that can get into the moment. It is not just about the sex, it is the human touch, the connection, and mutual pleasure. Anyone can go through the motions and get off but it is not the same as having the total experience. It is not for every SP or customer, but it provides a great delight when it occurs. I have been fortunate that I have found some local providers that can be at ease, mutually enjoy the time together, and is more than just being about the money.

 

[overkill79]

Personally, I love receiving massage if the giver understands quality of touch (and if they aren’t sure, I’m happy to teach). For me, receiving touch helps me get into my body (embodiment) and helps me to become more relaxed and orgasmic. For some clients, this is important and enjoyable.

As others have mentioned, we are there to provide, but I would argue that some clients genuinely enjoy giving (and even need to give!) and that this variation of session time is just as valuable as one where they are solely receiving.

It’s interesting to me that some of the comments in this thread are so critical and dismissive of this possibility. Everyone has different needs and desires and with that comes varying perspectives of value.

Just because it’s not valuable to you, doesn’t mean it’s not valuable at all.

I'm always willing to learn.

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

I'm always willing to learn.

Then the answer is a definite yes from me ☺

 

[Bridge]

A mutual massage invariably heightens the sensuous experience for all concerned and that is a "win-win."

 

[EuroSZabina]

I can't believe you need an answer to this. Given that you're paying them $200-$300 per hour I would bet every SP would. Ask them and find out, it's not like other requests that may be hard or inappropriate to ask via message.

What he means by giving them a massage is to come by for free to massage them and leave. Get it ?