Dinner or play first

[rayrice]

Wondering if when having a dinner/play date with a lady. What do you prefer??? Dinner then play or the other way around. Also would like to hear what the ladies think. I know we're the boss but I think the ladies should have a say also.

As to what I prefer it depends on what I'm doing after the date. If I'm going home or if I'm going out again as to which I prefer.

 

[meaghanmcleodDELETED]

I actually do dinner dates for my guys at my place. The travelling businessman, who eats out at restaurants, really enjoys getting the opportunity to sit down to a home cooked meal. We usually play first, then eat, then play some more. Its a lot of fun, and they enjoy themselves as much as I enjoy watching them eat.

 

[uncleg]

Make dinner part of the play....

 

[clu]

Depends on the play. If it's over three hours or doesn't have a concession stand open at intermission you might want something to hold you over.

 

[sybian]

Well now....I always have too cook for myself ,and I'm told I've become damn good at it along the way. There is no take out here, and a pizza would cost about 40 dollars in diesel to pick up, and I wouldn't hazard a guess what a delivery would cost.
Miss McCloud..Are you sayin' that dinner would be included, if I present myself as a Gentleman and pass your screening process?
And as my good friend Uncleg says....When the fridge door opens....I certainly hope you have strawberries ,and whip cream in there.
BTW....I do make it to the Island once in a while, delivering my beef to a certain restaurant that recognizes superior quality.

 

[sybian]

Yeah.. I know what you mean Miss T...My Buddies get me drunk and feed me shellfish to see which side of my face swells up, and to time when I will stop breathing.
I hate that party game.

 

[bmwdriver]

I prefer playing first and then eating. That way I can fully enjoy the meal and company without being distracted by thinking about all the fun I'm going to have. Also, I'm usually hungry after playing so I enjoy the food more, and I'm not worried about being overly full so I can indulge in desert.

 

[rayrice]

Make dinner part of the play....

Damn !!! Now that's a great idea ... I'll have to remember that one for next time

 

[badbadboy]

Desert first for me

I just don't like feeling full when having sex.

Finding out about food sensitivities in advance is important if eating at a restaurant because they have limited choices.

 

[Prairie_Guy]

I definitely prefer to play first, then dinner, then dessert! And I'm always up for a second helping of dessert!

 

[gerri]

I prefer to fuck then eat!

gerri

 

[Cock Throppled]

You AWAYS play first (as long as dinner doesn't get burned).

No worries about too much tension thinking about sex, garlic breath or stray bits of food while kissing.

Leaves time for round two after dinner.

 

[badbadboy]

I bought sushi for an SP's Birthday dinner and pretty much wanted to play first then have dinner.

Sex was great but the mood went south during dinner so I left while still eating my sushi.

So there's a great reason to play first ound:

 

[curious1800]

Play first to build up the appetite for a good dinner n desert

 

[meaghanmcleodDELETED]

Miss McCloud..Are you sayin' that dinner would be included, if I present myself as a Gentleman and pass your screening process?
And as my good friend Uncleg says....When the fridge door opens....I certainly hope you have strawberries ,and whip cream in there.
BTW....I do make it to the Island once in a while, delivering my beef to a certain restaurant that recognizes superior quality.

That's Ms. McLeod...lol

Yes, just name your meal and I'll make it ready for you. Roast and Gravy, Pasta and salad I love cooking for someone who enjoy good down home cooking.

 

[sybian]

Pardon me....Ms. McCloud.
I'm sorry...I find your boobs very distracting, and my typeing skills are a challenge at the best of times.

 

[Aellyn Rose]

I agree with several comments on here - indulging in play first gets the excitement, the sexual tension out of the way before satisfying the senses further in a more "civilized" setting.
I certainly love replaying in my head what was going on just an hour before as I sit down in public with my partner in crime...

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Dinner first then play. Homecooked is the best!! I'm a pain in the ass to feed at a restaurant..too many food sensitivities makes me a super-high maintenance date.

As much as I love to cook, I also love to eat beautiful food!! I love a snack between rounds, as a few of my ATF clients know. A memorable indulgence was ash-cured TRIPLE creme brie with peach chipotle jam & a good baguette; he gets me, clearly! I really enjoy dining out though too; teasing conversation across the table, footsies under the table, & knowing what's to follow will be hot & sweet.

 

[Larry Storch]

(snip)knowing what's to follow will be hot & sweet!!!

Exactly. You ALWAYS have dessert AFTER dinner.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Exactly. You ALWAYS have dessert AFTER dinner.

And I am a big fan of dessert!!!