DFK. What do you think/like.

[memyselfandI]

Question about kissing (no, not how to. I got that part covered). More of a "what do you define?" and "what do you like?" sort of question. And certainly not limited to talking about SPs either.

I've noticed that some people seem to engage in / enjoy DFK that can really only be described as "open mouth, insert tongue, keep it that way". Is it just me, or does anyone else think that shoving your tongue down the other persons throat is NOT all there is to the fine art of kissing. I've seen PDAs (public displays of affection) like that, picked up women who kiss like that (in my day), and had SPs kiss like that. Open mouth, insert tongue. And that's it!

I'm genuinely curious, and would love to hear from the ladies especially. I don't know, but for me, kissing is about variety. Open mouthed, closed mouth, lips slightly apart. Sometimes hard and crushing, sometimes soft and gentle, sometimes fast and sometimes slow.

I don't know, maybe I'm babbling (I do that alot), but kissing just seems like it should be more than shoving your tongue down my throat...

 

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[jakey_edwards]

I agree...

I'm genuinely curious, and would love to hear from the ladies especially. I don't know, but for me, kissing is about variety. Open mouthed, closed mouth, lips slightly apart. Sometimes hard and crushing, sometimes soft and gentle, sometimes fast and sometimes slow.

I don't know, maybe I'm babbling (I do that alot), but kissing just seems like it should be more than shoving your tongue down my throat...

I agree with MemyselfandI (always wanted to say that ). Unequivocally. It is a fine art that few people have mastered. Then there is Monica in Winnipeg who could probably write a book on the topic. She is one of the most amazing kissers I've known.

JE.

P.S. I too would love to hear what the ladies have to say on this topic.

 

[memyselfandI]

kissing IS an art....
no drooling. When you kiss do NOT shove your tounge down as far as you can and move it as much and fast as you can and keep it that way... soft kisses, open and close the mouth as to not drool into the other persons mouth is crucial. If someone is not doing it properly, I will silently guide them and if that doesn't work I will just avoid DFK a bit.
Kiss with both lips, kiss one lip, little nibbles and playfulness is good. There are a differences between passionate kisses and playful ones. DO NOT start with passionate ones for gods sake.
Tounges should not go beyond eachothers tounge. Don't spend 10 minutes simply kissing.. kiss lightly and play for a bit, then move down to kiss the nape of the neck or ear, then go back, and repeat.

Kissing MATTERS. If you start off a session with poor kissing it does indeed alter the service. Talking to other girls, the biggest pet peeves are bad kissers. A god kisser makes your Mileage go UP UP UP


btw i am sure i spell tounge wrong but I can never remember so I just guess.

A girl after my own heart indeed.

 

[memyselfandI]

....... I don't know, maybe it's just me. I think kissing is a big thing...more important than the sex itself. Do people agree with me? Or am I being too hard myself?

Kissing is a big thing. A very big thing. And yes, sometimes it can be better than the sex itself. At the very least, its a huge part of the "pre-FS festivities"...

I certaily don't think you're being hard on yourself. And I can understand SPs who don't DFK. You'd have to be in the right head space for that, and I can understand sometimes a lady just ain't there. For me, its huge, and I keep hoping that my next SP (whoever the hell that will be) will be a talented kisser. Would help me out a lot..

 

[lenny]

Question about kissing (no, not how to. I got that part covered). More of a "what do you define?" and "what do you like?" sort of question. And certainly not limited to talking about SPs either.

I like open mouth kissing where i am all around the girls lips and
mine are often inbetween & penetrate hers. Some girls have said
that i am a good kisser, but this has been a work in progress &
i'm sure there is more to experience.

Closed mouth kisses are nice but akin to a kiss on the cheek from
your mom, so not something i'd pay cold hard cash for. But in a
session of kissing they can be a good beginning.

French kissing may yet be an acquired taste for me. I usually abstain
from it, & inform the girl that is off the menu, but if i forget and she
does it i don't stop her nor {as a rule} reciprocate. But it usually
makes me giggly.

At times I will spend a whole date {anywhere from 10-30 minutes}
doing nothing but kiss. It may be non stop or with breaks for air ;

 

[Ilovethemall]

just remember....

Enjoy that tongue and if she does bbbj & cim - try not to think what it is covered in.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Kissing is a wonderful art that is integral to a wonderful time with a woman. If you can't do it, learn it