DATY etc

[vanblue]

In my experience most of the SP's reacted much better to a lighter touch than something harsher. Some orgasm easier than others but it makes it more enjoyable and tastier for me to go with longer strokes of the tongue and lighter teasing. I doubt that I would see a lady that wasn't wholeheartedly into daty and dfk; it sets the whole mood for me!

 

[ExpCharlee]

I once visited a young woman in this biz who needed to have an ultra-light touch with a tongue to even handle daty, and while I would... over time, adjust to that in a long-term partner, it was such a regretful trait in a working girl who I saw only once.

I think that if/given you've conditioned yourself to (show the amount of vulnerability needed to participate in this business as a woman), that the very direct conversation you'd need to have with a prospective long-term lover can be shared with a client to the extent needed to convey precisely what YOU need as an individual to gain the most from oral sex done upon you.

At the end of the day, it isn't the depths of your cervix, or your discomfort because of their roughness that delights men who have in common the desire to dine on your goodies... it is your sharing the vulnerability that is your will to climax before their eyes. Deep down, I don't think they believe themselves to be Adonis's, OR that their suave magic with their tongue is universally delightful to all pussies in precisely the same way.

BUT it DOES take some of YOUR directness to convey the precision YOU as an individual NEED to fulfill their interest in seeing you climax.

Furthermore, a good number of the men who see you professionally haven't likely licked as many pussies as you might think. (for so many in this biz being averse to allowing it, and for so many men in this biz having zero interest in that, AND for so many men in this biz NOT being very 'experienced' at all, let alone with DATY)

to SOME, your pussy is merely a PIE in a great PIE-eating contest (just like the many pies they've seen-but-never-touched in porn)... so they are indulging for THEM... (minus your direct and unique-ish-to-you instructions/guidance).

It's just one more aspect of your vulnerability that men are paying to witness.

But practice this communication... it could be great practice for future lovers in your civilian life.



PS - the quoted statements you cite above are those that are fitting for the random teen girl in the random car with a high school boy.


YOU as an adult, with a lot of investment IN your environs, should probably be more direct before the fun starts.

Being GUIDED by a woman toward HER pleasure is an amazing bit of vulnerability to witness... and those most eager to dine on your charms WILL respond favorably to your earlier/immediate efforts in that way.

You’d be great on an ad for a used car lot

 

[cruefan]

Just tell your clients exactly how you like to be pleased in the appointment.

It is not that difficult to guide people along so they do not do it the wrong way where it is not pleasurable.

 

[ExpCharlee]

Just tell your clients exactly how you like to be pleased in the appointment.

It is not that difficult to guide people along so they do not do it the wrong way where it is not pleasurable.

dude, it is. I do tell clients. they don't listen. did you even read my post???

 

[ElectricWoodie]

dude, it is. I do tell clients. they don't listen. did you even read my post???

LOL. that's funny.

For what it's worth. I read it and applied your advice. Be gentle, listen to her reactions and ask her. But don't talk with your mouth full. That's rude.

Seems easy enough to do. Pretty amazing results.

 

[Crookedmember]

dude, it is. I do tell clients. they don't listen. did you even read my post???

Oh Lord, as God is my witness, I've been there.

She was screaming directions at me, swatting my head with a rolled-up newspaper, trying to position her hips to I guess move into the 'pleasure zone.'

But I was oblivious to it all, and continued to fumble.

When it was mercifully all over, she turned to me and said, "That was about as pleasurable as a bad yeast infection, but you smell worse."

 

[ExpCharlee]

Oh Lord, as God is my witness, I've been there.

She was screaming directions at me, swatting my head with a rolled-up newspaper, trying to position her hips to I guess move into the 'pleasure zone.'

But I was oblivious to it all, and continued to fumble.

When it was mercifully all over, she turned to me and said, "That was about as pleasurable as a bad yeast infection, but you smell worse."

HAHAHAHAHA

 

[Forum mod]

Ok, everyone has had some fun with this. Closed. Listen to the ladies guys and you will be fine.