dating single moms: yay or nay?
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- Do not discuss or display signs of your high earning income if you are afraid they might take it away.
- If you do not want to reproduce, always use a condom and then properly dispose of your ejaculate yourself as I recall reading about anecdotes of women impregnating themselves with semen in used condoms and mouths (after a CIM I presume). Vasectomy is an effective alternative.
- A single mother's child is her sole responsibility, unless you are willing to share it. As noted by a previous poster, once you become involved, there may be legal obligations.
- If you are not interested in anything long-term, communicate that to them from the beginning and behave accordingly (e.g., seeing them once every one or two weeks).
Do what makes you happy, and be aware and ready to accept the consequences that accompany your decisions.
How true, people need to be up front and honest. But many people pay only lip service to that. Politicians? Big businesses? In any case, it doesn't matter if one is an escort or a single parent, it really boils down to the individual's integrity. Unfortunately in this world of me-first-even-at-others'-expense and profit being the bottom line of most things, integrity is a rarity.
Why are we typifying single moms as welfare cases?
Ok some are and others work hard to make ends meet and still others are highly paid professionals. There are as many reasons for a woman to be a single mother as there are single mothers. Show a little respect and a lot of admiration for those who make it without your freaking money and compassion for those who aren't smart or educated enough to pull it off.
If all you want is sex hire an sp or find a woman who actually wants NSA sex and wait for her to dump YOUR sorry ass.
On the other hand if you want to wake up to her face on the pillow beside you, drink tea together, have meals, share love in a thousand different ways then start by deciding if you REALLY like her kids and how she raises them. If you like how that goes you may just qualify for the privilege of being invited to join a wonderful thing. If it's not a wonderful thing or if it's just not wonderful to YOU, find another sandbox.
I just don't get you guys who tar everyone with the same brush
Ok some are and others work hard to make ends meet and still others are highly paid professionals. There are as many reasons for a woman to be a single mother as there are single mothers. Show a little respect and a lot of admiration for those who make it without your freaking money and compassion for those who aren't smart or educated enough to pull it off.
If all you want is sex hire an sp or find a woman who actually wants NSA sex and wait for her to dump YOUR sorry ass.
On the other hand if you want to wake up to her face on the pillow beside you, drink tea together, have meals, share love in a thousand different ways then start by deciding if you REALLY like her kids and how she raises them. If you like how that goes you may just qualify for the privilege of being invited to join a wonderful thing. If it's not a wonderful thing or if it's just not wonderful to YOU, find another sandbox.
I just don't get you guys who tar everyone with the same brush
Well said. It's "winners" like some of the guys in this thread that are getting these girls pregnant and then abandoning them. They sure don't make "gentlemen" like they used to who would mind their responsibilities and MAN UP.
I have done the relationship thing with single moms and for a person who does not have children it never works for me. Either the kids do not like you or the kids really like you and the mom gets nervous and jealous that you are moving in on their parenting. Then there also the dad of the kids who may be in the background. If you are not listening about the kids you are listening about the dad, even when he is not in the picture. Unless you become the sole income spreader you are just a guy that could be the filler until Mr. Right comes along. It is constant competition always. Then if they have a dog you find yourself being the dogs pal.
My opinion stick with single women only, bearing in mind that everyone has some sort of baggage.
My opinion stick with single women only, bearing in mind that everyone has some sort of baggage.
FWIW, the lady I see is a single mom and I've been seeing her on and off for about 5 years. She has a normal job and just needs help with the bills. So we get together once a week or so, and have our fun and I shoot her some $$ either on the spot or deposit it into her account. We're at the point where she tells me what her ongoing obligations are, and I do my best to help her with whatever I can, in turn she e-mails me and lets me know when she's available for a litte fun time. When we're together it's usually for a couple of hours at a time, and it's a very intimate encounter.. It's an interesting relationship, one I value very much.
What you have described is simply a sugardaddy relationship. Is it exclusive? Have you met her parents? What is the difference between this and seeing the same SP over and over again?
I never claimed to be dating her..of course it's a sugardaddy relationship, hence my handle, but my point is that this might be an option to consider, and if you're worried about the dynamics of the situation and you can have fun with single moms without going into deeper issues if you're scared to venture down that path.
+1 to that.
When I was in my mid 20s went to do a semester in KC.
It was a culture shock, girls hitting on me in bars/clubs, asking me out.
I still remember my first night on the town there, went with some guys I had just met.
Thought they were pulling a prank on me, the way girls were hitting on me.
For the record I dont think a girl has ever bought me a drink in Vancouver or approached me, the odd smile is about it.
So always thought it was just KC. but now i travel all over Canada and the USA for work, it is like this most places.
Went to Europe last spring, yep friendly there too.
Vancouver is a great city, but not to date.
Let me see if I have this right. Everywhere you go in the world you have to fight women off, but in Vancouver, nary a smile, maybe consider moving. Thanks for the chuckle.
I'm not saying fight off women everywhere I go, but KC yes, go check it out.
My favourite bars there are the hurricane and harpos ($2 pitchers)
But in small town Canada or the US, much easier to strike a conversation.
Not just with ladies, but all people. I recall a 30 minute conversation with some guy at a gas station in Nelson, when I asked him where is a good place for steak. Can you see that happening in Vancouver?
Vancouver girls care about what you wear much much more and what you drive.
My summer car is a Porsche almost as old as me, been in my family since I was 5 years old.
78 930 turbo.
GF tells me I should get rid of it for a bmw. I ask oh what model, she has no idea, just a new one, like her friends bf.
Yes indeed! My mom was the greatest woman who ever lived. I'd like to give a shout out to all the moms in this world, the most honourable profession of them all.what a mommas boy
just to clarify things and clear things up for those who don't have the best of reading (or reading comprehension) skills, i've re-posted the op's message with some key words emphasized in bold... and i won't be moving any time soon
Hi from the sunshine coast - got a gal pal here who actually complains that when she hits on guys (and she is seriously cute) they freak out and ignore her so welcome to the west coast.Wow, I'm sorry to hear you guys had such negative experiences with Vancouver women.... There ARE some good ones here though.... And coming from the Sunshine Coast, I can say that it is a hard city to really get in and meet people, I wouldn't say everyone is cold... But I get it, although I wouldn't write it off completely
bcneil, sorry to hear of your girlfriend. The way you have described her here on an escort review board makes one think she is nothing but a materialistic, vapid, vacuous, shallow, tart. She is lucky to have you as the beau of her life, who said chivalry is dead. But look at the bright side of things, at least she is cool with you seeing hookers. Alot of wives and girlfriends aren't cool with that.
BTW, my summer car is a rusting 87 Tercel. Come to think of it, it's my spring, fall and winter car too.
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