dating single moms: yay or nay?

[Aerts]

I am just dating around, but nothing serious. I have noticed a lot of single moms out there... My concern is a woman trying to tie me down. I'm very busy, and I do have a high income. I've been getting paranoid a lot this year about women trying to tie me down, getting prego, etc. and take my hard earned riches. The main pro about single moms to me is that they obviously put out. As I am not looking for anything serious, that is my main concern. No offense to any single moms here. I guess I'm getting sick of women who want long term relationships, and these women seem to all want something serious and possibly a breadwinner. Should these ladies be avoided? Discuss.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

get a vasectomy and don't tell them about it

oh, BTW, get ready for the usual shitstorm about having sex without a cover

 

[rat_fink]

Can Frank Zappa be wrong?

Welfare mothers
make better lovers.

o7O

 

[whatisthis]

Depends really.

 

[hunsperger]

OK female point of view here. This is easy, you sound like a rather young man, sorry old gal here..lol
So there for the women you seek are younger and single? correct me if I am wrong.
Don't reveal your income or how well you are doing financially. Unless you are serious about being serious it is none of there business. Are you looking at one night stands or 1-2 week flings.
Yes I am sure some single moms may be seeking father figure, someone to support her be the bread winner.
You don't want to knock a girl up so my god regardless of knocking her up or not Protection my man. Condoms condoms condoms!!!
Where are you meeting these ladies. Are you out seeking a relationship whether it short term. Be up front and honest if they seem to be more serious then you tell them before it gets out of hand. So you are not breaking any hearts.
Do not date single moms be patient one will come along that has no children. If that all fails well you are on a review board for goodness sakes, check the ladies out pay the donation have a date. SP's are willing to go to movies and dinner and play, for a fee.

PS I am a single mom and a single grandma...damn I look good too. I am not exactly seeking right now. And if I were they have to realize I am a package deal...have kids will travel. But I would not be seeking any of there assets I take care of me well and my family.

Good Luck.

I disagree...

you are extremely naive...

and quite frankly, conceited at times...

do you believe in astrology...

Good Luck...

 

[sureshot]

Welfare mothers
make better lovers.

o7O

Frank was never wrong about anything. I still say brown shoes don't make it.

 

[atitagain]

Um,that isn't Frank Zappa's tune BTW...... Neil Young thankyou very much......

 

[Smoothmover]

Single moms always go the extra mile - you can talk them into doing pretty much anything. Be nice to them, pretend to like the kid and your in like Flin

 

[PhoneGirl]

Only you can decide for yourself who is right and wrong for you.

Don't over analyze it, the best relationships happen organically.

If you have hangups about a woman seeking a man that can financially support her, then don't seek out those types and look for someone who's independent. It's common sense. If you have such a "high income", I assume that you're smart enough to figure that one out on your own.

 

[chuckanut]

yay.

-chuck

 

[alex4you2]

done it - answer is NO!

 

[Happy Al]

Just as a heads up: In Washington State, a man involved in a relationship with a single mother can be held respon$$ible for her children, if the children become attached to the man.

 

[ilovejenny]

DO NOT DATE SINGLE MOMS!!!! Bad mistake man bad!!!!
If you have got kids yourself, yeah than go for it. But if you don't have not any, then dont do it!!!! All these women want is someone to be there bank account WHY? Because being a single mom sucks because kids costs money and women don't have any THATS WHY THEY ARE LOOKING FOR GUYS.

 

[hunsperger]

SP's are willing to go to movies and dinner and play, for a fee.

there you go guys...

sounds like the woman of any man's dreams...

isn't courtship and true love for a fee wonderful...

can dood take you to a movie for a fee when you go meet your dear friend...

 

[hunsperger]

I fixed this now you don't sound judgemental. It must be an experience you had. Some moms are looking for that security, some moms are very independant. Being a parent whether you are single or not takes alot of your time and commitment. Life is no longer about you once you become a parent. It is about the kids. Some women devote all of who they are to there children, no time to go out and date meet people. It can get lonely for a single mom or a single dad and there comes a time when they do want to venture out and start dating.
What is your view on single dads? Do you think women should not date them as maybe they are seeking a mother figure for there children. I know single moms and single dads and they need no financial compensation they are doing just fine. IMO

nice to see you finally turned on your spelling and grammar check...

hard to beleive it's the saim woman...

have you mastered smiley faces yet...

I can hear your granddaughter calling, "Grandma, can we go for a walk in the park and play in the leaves"...

instead of trying to make friends with weirdos on an escort review board...

spend quality time with your granddaughter...

if you play your cards right, she'll be the one at your bedside holding your hand when you take your final few breaths in this world...

and she will probably do it without a fee

I know the pollster in Calgary will be no where to be found...

he'll be looking for someone to fill his sphincter...

oh, I almost forgot...

IMO...

 

[melissa.in.abby]

What Angie is politely saying is quit being an asshole. Why don't you contribute something positive to the board. "beleive" and "saim" woman? Now who needs spell check? You're an idiot (IMO)

He needs to put his "don't be an idiot" check on. But then, it would be a blank post.

 

[Big Dog Striker]

For me, if you like someone it doesn't matter if their a single mom or the octomom. Just go with the flow. Single moms are rockstars in my book.

 

[snif]

I agree , and i take my hat off to single moms....
yep they need sex too , but if doing it on a repeat basis , she is obviously thinking of a possible relationship...
if you are there only for sex , leave her alone and man outta there dude.
Dont knock them as i,m sure anyone in that situation is wanting help and some kinda support.
I love em and respect them.

 

[jnewton]

What ever happened to the big "C" word (communication)? If you're just in for some sexual fun, there are ways to make sure that is understood early on. Make sure she knows that's all you want. If she stays in, then she's made the choice and you're probably in for one hell of a horny ride but at least you showed her the courtesy of allowing her to make that choice.

Have to agree with the other advice though. Even guys suffer from becoming attached over time. If you just want to play and don't want to break hearts, don't repeat more than a few times.

 

[jnewton]

It is never right to use any one. Single moms, single ladies, single fathers, single men. People need to be up front and honest. Respect is a two way street and if you are using others don't be surprised when you reap what you sow. If all some one is after is sex find some one that is ok with that. Or pay some one for it. Don't worry most escorts (single moms or not) are not looking for some one to date or take care of them.

Oh Angie to do the smiley face you do a : and then a ) and you get a

Thanks April for saying what I was trying to say in my post about using people. You were much more eloquent.


ok, a : plus a ) equals a { : + ) = }