Dateing a SP ????????

[nube]

Having dated 3 different SP's in the past and had long term relationship with all of them, this is my 2 cents on what it is like to date one. I also interacted with quite a few of their friends or coworkers and got an insider's sneak peek on the life of SP's. Like all of us, there are many different type of SP's who got into this line of work for different reasons. While some did it to support their addiction(s), most did it to support their schooling, family, son, daughter or even parents. Some kept this job a secret while others were opened about it to family and friends. Some spent all the extras on partying, shopping and having fun in general while some invested it wisely.

For all the ones that I have been with, they were all intelligent individual who got the brain to match the look. Being a SP is a much more stressful job than our regular 9-5 one. At least, that's the case for a successful SP with a lot of repeated clients. You gotta know how to market yourself to the right client, maintain a high service level and a good client/provider relationship with them. They key is to make the client feels like you are his only lover, and not everybody's. This sounds easier to say than done especially on a bad/long day when you still have to keep your mentality "on" for him even though he is not your type or even borderline irritating. On top of that, they still have to deal with the daily chores to keep the incall place going as one lady on here mentioned. Of course, there were also the ones who are gold diggers, bitchy and so on...

It's not easy to date a SP unless both people share a completely trusting relationship with open and honest communication. Yes, it is hard to see that she is free to romp with other men and we can't take out other SP's. Yes, it is hard to think that everything on her body can be had for a price by others. But if you can see past those sides of the business, conquer any jealousy nature that you might have, and actually participate in helping her managing the business, it can very well be a great relationship. The most important part for both people is mutual understanding, have a goal of what needs to achieve and when to quit, then it is no difference than a normal relationship.

Good points...now old experienced one, is there some sort of personal gratification that you get for 'free' and with less restrictions, what everyone else pays for ??? Just curious

 

[blondeluver]

Good points...now old experienced one, is there some sort of personal gratification that you get for 'free' and with less restrictions, what everyone else pays for ??? Just curious

Obviously, yes... that's the perks of being a bf but then again, she has the right to say NO to sex to you. Trust me, she wants to cuddle instead of intimacy at home more..., and the busier she is, the more likely the NO answer. Go figure!

 

[georgebushmoron]

Obviously, yes... that's the perks of being a bf but then again, she has the right to say NO to sex to you. Trust me, she wants to cuddle instead of intimacy at home more..., and the busier she is, the more likely the NO answer. Go figure!

Or worse: she has all the desire for you, but she's dryer than the Gobi Desert from too much humping at work. Now that's a piss off.

 

[wannaliquorbox]

i am a bit late...

...going back to the car analogy:

you are a professional, you drive up to your business dinner in your car which happens to have been in the limo service. the other guys are snickering at you, because they have all partied in that limo before.

dont see how it would work, unless you only drive your limo out in the back woods and never in the city. but thats not right either. anyone?

 

[nube]

Yessss but......

...going back to the car analogy:

you are a professional, you drive up to your business dinner in your car which happens to have been in the limo service. the other guys are snickering at you, because they have all partied in that limo before.

dont see how it would work, unless you only drive your limo out in the back woods and never in the city. but thats not right either. anyone?

That might bother me...but then again...I'd think...yes you've ridden in that limo...but once I had, she'll NEVER give you a ride again...so eat your hearts out and if your memories don't fail ya.. you'll be able to masterbate to the image that I see every day...

 

[the_shogun]

okay i'm too lazy to read this entire thread but here's my 2 cents

i actually think it would be interesting dating an SP. i would love to hear all the wacky stories of weird ass customers. that life style does intruige me a lot. whether or not that relationship would last for the long term... meehh i dunno.

 

[wannaliquorbox]

you dont have to date them to hear those stories.

 

[the_shogun]

................you're absolutely right...........

lol i just like SPs!

 

[goodghost]

Don't do it.

Don't think about it.

In the end, you will end up wanting more then she will be able to give.

In the end you will end up hurting her as a result and losing the friendship you already have.

In the end you will both suffer.

She - because you wanted to much

You - because you needed to much

Just my opinion, based on a wonderful but heartbreaking expierence.

 

[tianna]

you got that right

.............that sp's are jealous that a long time client and friend would go elswhere for sex. It is twisted as they do see it as work(work they enjoy to) However they(sp's) can be territorial and not want you to see any other women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

any one who sees me, stays with me!!!! or I chew them up and eat them alive next time they decided to cumm around.. then I lock them up in my basement and keep them as sex slaves to... satisfy my every need

THEY NEVER SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY AGAIN

 

[Nookie Monster]

any one who sees me, stays with me!!!! or I chew them up and eat them alive next time they decided to cumm around.. then I lock them up in my basement and keep them as sex slaves to... satisfy my every need

THEY NEVER SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY AGAIN

sounds like the slow torture treatment for those poor prisoners...

Nookie

 

[tianna]

oh some kind of treatment

it is !!!!! lol

 

[nube]

oh ohhhhhh....

any one who sees me, stays with me!!!! or I chew them up and eat them alive next time they decided to cumm around.. then I lock them up in my basement and keep them as sex slaves to... satisfy my every need

THEY NEVER SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY AGAIN

Thanks for the warning......

 

[seannachie]

Don't do it...based on a wonderful but heartbreaking expierence.

It hurts when things don't work out. Most people have experienced heartbreak at one time or another. My concern with not trying to have a relationship is probably the obvious one: that one might miss out on having the best relationship ever. I respect what you've said, though: failed relationships often involve mismatched expectations. Small consolation perhaps, but at least you can't be faulted or or shouldn't feel bad for having tried!

 

[freakychef]

I think life is too short to wonder why???

.......go for it and if it works it works if not move on!!!!