I am unable to find a discussion on this topic so please forgive me. I would like to find out from SP and us pooners, if there is a problem with age difference between SP and client, meaning, let say a person in late fourties book and appointment with a 19/21 years old. I am not concern about performance indeed it is better with time! but more about YMMV and a less welcome face.
Client age vs SP age
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I think there would only be a problem if the client can't afford the services. c'mon it's not like regular dating here ya know.
It's not like a regular personal relationship here.
Let's say your 55, would you not let a 20 year old plumber "plumb", or would you not let a 25 year old artist not paint your picture?
Your paying for a service, not a temporary girlfriend. Anything more is an illusion. But sometimes illusions are better than reality.
In short, I don't think it matters. Well, unless one of you is 120 and wants a 19 year old spinner, than that's just creepy.... "hey baby, change my depends and pass me my teeth!"...
Let's say your 55, would you not let a 20 year old plumber "plumb", or would you not let a 25 year old artist not paint your picture?
Your paying for a service, not a temporary girlfriend. Anything more is an illusion. But sometimes illusions are better than reality.
In short, I don't think it matters. Well, unless one of you is 120 and wants a 19 year old spinner, than that's just creepy.... "hey baby, change my depends and pass me my teeth!"...
I see quite a few SP's advertizing only for mature men. I'm not sure if the SP is older or they feel that mature men are easier to service. I know that at my age now I'm less bendable and ask for less athaletic positions than I would have 20 years ago.
Remember high school? Sometimes (but not always) the lookers end up being high maintenance prima donnas with a lack lustre performance and attitude. Overall, I'd take a less than perfect, interesting, older, enthusiastic girl over the former. (Mind you, it would be nice to live out the fantasy of being with the beautiful girl you never could have way back thenmanicure said:
....it's all about what you're after at the moment)Everyone had that one girl in high school that you wanted so bad that you would have done anything to get her. Imagine actually getting that one day. That would be a good day. I know that there were 2 girls that I wanted and I was too nervous/shy to talk to them about anything more serious than classwork.
I suspect a little of both. I would imagine that some older girls might desire a client who is a little less "ride 'em cowboy," and also less inclined to measure her mature body against the standard of nubile girls his own age. Comments from mature providers?littlejimbigher said:
I think that ya it does to some degree......case in point with this girl https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=62318 Looks stunning but seems to have issue with older guys etc. and post 8 actually disscuss it as being the case. I`m thinking that new girls or ones that are not going to be doing this for awhile will have the worst time. The real pros either don`t have issue with age/looks or just are better at hiding their feelings.manicure said:
there have been a few sp's who implied that 'if you're not Brad Pitt,
don't bother calling' and the response should be 'if you're not Angelina
Jolie, I won't!' ...
i would think that us 'older guys' are pretty much an sp's
bread and butter and the occasional hottie who shows up
is just the jam!
most of the sp's i see are really nice in attitude and looks,
and while banging a hottie is sometimes interesting, too often
the attitude that goes with it is not ...
a few years ago there was one in Victoria who was phenomenal in looks
and body ... absolutely a 10+ but had the attitude of a sack of potatoes ...
all I can say about it, was I got to fuck a hottie and she got fucked
by a fugly ...
who got the better deal?
don't bother calling' and the response should be 'if you're not Angelina
Jolie, I won't!' ...
i would think that us 'older guys' are pretty much an sp's
bread and butter and the occasional hottie who shows up
is just the jam!
most of the sp's i see are really nice in attitude and looks,
and while banging a hottie is sometimes interesting, too often
the attitude that goes with it is not ...
a few years ago there was one in Victoria who was phenomenal in looks
and body ... absolutely a 10+ but had the attitude of a sack of potatoes ...
all I can say about it, was I got to fuck a hottie and she got fucked
by a fugly ...
who got the better deal?
You missed the point of SPs. Its about client bank account vs SPs bank account. The bigger disparity between them (to the John's benefit that is) the more appropriate the "relationship" becomes.
Age gap...
Does age matter? I think so. The best clients to me are in the range of fifteen years of your age. Some much older gentlemen with the passion and great comversation are not bad at all. The old, boring depressing people are the worst...
I don't usually have a good time with some young men; inexperienced. We usually call them the rabbits. Have no passion, no nothing, just having tons of energy. Because the Sps usually want to have a good time, too. Have some passion...at least pretend you care, even for a short time...
I had a very old client one time, in his 90's... no kidding. He was so old and made me feel so bad to take the call, but felt even worse to turn him down. So, I was there thinking...what should I do?
At the end, that's why the girls got paid more than ordinary jobs, because most of the calls are hard calls...believe me on that!!!
But some people are so intresting to be with...the converstion and the knowledge you gain from them. That's the part I like the most...
Does age matter? I think so. The best clients to me are in the range of fifteen years of your age. Some much older gentlemen with the passion and great comversation are not bad at all. The old, boring depressing people are the worst...
I don't usually have a good time with some young men; inexperienced. We usually call them the rabbits. Have no passion, no nothing, just having tons of energy. Because the Sps usually want to have a good time, too. Have some passion...at least pretend you care, even for a short time...
I had a very old client one time, in his 90's... no kidding. He was so old and made me feel so bad to take the call, but felt even worse to turn him down. So, I was there thinking...what should I do?
At the end, that's why the girls got paid more than ordinary jobs, because most of the calls are hard calls...believe me on that!!!
But some people are so intresting to be with...the converstion and the knowledge you gain from them. That's the part I like the most...
Just like with everything else, most SPs have an age range that they prefer, and that might be part of YMMV or even in some cases restrict who can book with them.
Sorta ties in with my 'non-specific discrimination' thread.
But, from the girls I've talked to, most of them preferred a guy 10+ years older than them.
(20+ years in some cases, LOL)
Sorta ties in with my 'non-specific discrimination' thread.
But, from the girls I've talked to, most of them preferred a guy 10+ years older than them.
(20+ years in some cases, LOL)
Thats what I want. When I get to my 90's still wanting sex. Especially with younger chicks.miss meiko said:
It does provide evidence to me that most SPs are there for their own pleasure, not just money. Heck, if they have to do that job just to earn a decent living, why not enjoy it being fucked by a handsome caring guy? It's why I never believe an SP when she says, "it's just a job, honey". Bullshit.miss meiko said:
Because of this, I found that most SPs (especially the older ones) find it awkward to go with a guy in his late teens or early 20's particularly if they have their own kids. The exception are some particularly perverted SPs who are older tend to prefer the younger flesh.
Does this mean that us pooners who like SP's that are younger than our kids are perverted as well?georgebushmoron said:
I don't know. Coming from an age bracket that would be called young on this board, I do have to say that it does depend on the individual. I do have acquaintances that are around my age that act as though they were still in high school, but on the other hand I have friends who act their age, or are even more "mature" than they should be. Mature is a very subjective word. When your 10, mature is knowing that you shouldn't pick your nose, but you do it anyways. When your 20, mature is when you are going to school, have a vehicle, and are making a living on your own. 30, 40, 50, does it stop? Every age has its own characteristics that make it interesting. I would imagine that a 20 year old has more energy than someone who is 55-60, but on the other hand, someone who is 55-60 probably knows "what a women wants" better than the 20 year old.
I haven't noticed
Most of the SP's I have seen are a least 20 years younger than me. I have never been made to feel like they wished I was someone more handsome or less grey hair. In fact I have had many comment on how much more enjoyable it is with an older man since we tend to like to please as much as be pleased and take our time trying to make sure the ladies are enjoying themselves too.
G.A.
Most of the SP's I have seen are a least 20 years younger than me. I have never been made to feel like they wished I was someone more handsome or less grey hair. In fact I have had many comment on how much more enjoyable it is with an older man since we tend to like to please as much as be pleased and take our time trying to make sure the ladies are enjoying themselves too.
G.A.
Personally, when i'm with someone who's even 10 yrs older than me, i can't stop thinking about my dad. Yikes! 10 yrs younger..bring it on! Double standard? Uhuh.
