Like some of you on here, I am more mature... at least chronologically speaking... than most of you. I love the look and feel of a 20 year old female body. Some of them are even great to have sex with. But, with very few exceptions, I have not made a mental connection with those 20 something women after I turned 40.
I have never seen Carmen, although she is on my sexdar scope. So, this is a generic comment about older women as lovers.
I have seen two SP, who to my knowledge, were older than 50. One was Leanne, the squirter. The other was Carmella. Carmella also turned out to be a squirter beyond compare. My SO is also 50+. All three ladies are fantastic lovers. Leanne has a body my 20 year old would be proud of. Carmella was also well put together, and a 30 year old would be pleased to have her bod. I would love to see Carmella again, and wish I could get in touch with her.
My point is that we should not eliminate someone who gets rave reviews simply because they are over a certain age. There are some 20 somethings whose boobs sag to their waste line, and who have no idea how to please a man. Do not judge the book by its cover.
Having said that, I also judge by its cover as well. But, when the book gets rave reviews, and the art on the cover looks as enticing as Carmen does, I will read one or two chapters.