Bbbjs And Daty

[*ALexis*]

I know you guys love your bbbj's and Daty.....

However, I must emphasize that if you are GIVING another person oral sex, your risks of infection with HIV and other STD's is much much higher. While giving oral sex, you would be at high risk for HIV, Gonorrhea, Herpes, Hepatitis B, and other STD's as well. For some diseases, while giving oral sex, you would be exposed to pre-cum, semen, vaginal secretions, and menstrual blood which could contain some STD's (such as HIV and Hepatitis B). While giving oral sex, you may be exposed to discharges which could cause infections such as Gonorrhea. You could also be exposed to lesions which can lead to other STD's, such as Herpes. So giving oral sex is much riskier than receiving oral sex. But overall, vaginal or anal intercourse is still higher risk than oral sex, but oral sex is NOT totally safe (especially if you are giving oral sex to another person).

Sorry I've heard way too many horror stories with oral sex and how its assumed to be okay...I don't feel that daty and bbbj, which are considered unsafe sex practice to be praised as better or higher quality service. It's not necessary and I'm not sure why pooners choose to take a chance like this and admit to this board that it's a positive service to offer. Please lets keep your hobby safe....

If you do like giving daty, which alot of men do, why not opt for a daty condom found at your local drug store? And ladies, if you are giving oral use a condom!!!! If no one offers these services, then our proffesion becomes alot cleaner and safer..so lets make an effort here.....

Thanks.

 

[batguy]

This is the Review Section !

Alexis I appreciate your concern for pooners and SP's but really - this is not the section for posting this information.

I come to this section to read reviews - If I want sexual health information there is plenty in that section - in fact one of the permanent posts there deals with the risks of oral sex - we don't need to have a lesson posted here.

 

[CalgaryJenn]

OH FOR FUCK SAKES!

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[DQ Guy]

ohh how true Jenn...
I don't think it will ever end..
I personaly don't think that bbbj is for the higher class SP. Its a choice
anyone can make for them self..
In this Hobby every incounter is a risk no matter how safe you are.
Get Tested regularly or quit the hobby(pooner)/ line of work(sp)

 

[TooMuchFun22]

SP's can make their own decisions

I think that SP's make regular decisions of what they will practice with what clients.

I have had SPs inspect me for signs of my cleanliness etc. And I know I look at an SP for sign that they are a safer or a riskier SP.

I have asked plenty of girls if they give BBBJ and often if they say yes I say really, all a guy needs to do is ask. remind me to insist that you use a condom on me.

No different than getting with a girl for the first time. I have never had a casual encounter want to or use a condom for ORAL sex. I know I am safe, but who knows about her. That being said I suppose I might pass if she had a big cold sore.

 

[TooMuchFun22]

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That horse is totally sleeping.

 

[*ALexis*]

Tooo bad Hep C and HIV do not have cure. Yikes.. maybe girls may think twice about riding dirty!! Oh no!! This is a review by the way. Think of it as our review on services provided by SP's and pooners. I know that you can really appreciate your unprotected services, I know it makes for an amazing SP. I know the talk about STD's makes us uncomfortable, but its reality. Its information to live by and it could save you in the long run. You know the risks without this post,yet you continue on? Just a friendly reminder to wrap your pickle!! I dont think it can be said too much.

 

[Aeiyah]

there's only one way to have safe sex

but jerking off by yourself would put all the SP's out of business.

 

[DQ Guy]

but jerking off by yourself would put all the SP's out of business.

And I'd then be able to buy that dream house on an Island somewhere with all the money saved......
all alone on an Island Spanking my own monkey....
hummm,.. maybe,....
NAHHHHH

 

[*ALexis*]

...stop the madness

I'm not even trying to stir up an argument...I was trying to post something positive. Im glad this post is being read and is bringing awareness to others. I just don't want any of my friends or clients catching any of these common diseases which might be life altering. Its been happening way too often lately and Ive heard enough horror stories. Please stop the madness....

 

[*ALexis*]

A Daty Condom

For the gentlemen who are messaging me asking what a daty condom is....

Its actually called a Dental Dam. Its just a small piece of latex that goes over the vagina, to protect the man from digesting any vaginal fluids.

 

[Pantylick]

Dental Dam

I have asked at various MPs for that or saran wrap and none have it. I agree with Alexis. Studios should have that material just as they have condoms. On one occasion at Legends, I used a plastic bag that I ripped apart - poor sensation for me and her. Once at MMC I used a condom which I tore apart - that didn't work very well as it wouldn't stay in place. I've read that Saran Wrap works really well, feels good too.

 

[*ALexis*]

The thing that you have to worry about the most, is when you are engaging in an activity where you are ingesting sexual fluids from someone, such as pre-cum, vaginal discharge...etc. Alot of clients preach to me that its safe, and promise me that its not risky. I just don't want anyone to be misinformed.

The last client I had was a mission doctor from Africa. He informed me about the epidemic in Africa, and what the new "trend" for spreading diseases were.
I'm not telling anyone to quit pooning, Id be a hypocrite if I did. Im just trying to send a positive message.

Thanks for understanding.

 

[DQ Guy]

I still think Jenn said it best

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[Aeiyah]

My point, as well as those of a few other posters, is ALL sex, except sex with yourself, has some level of risk. Using condoms, whether for oral sex or penetrative sex does not eliminate risk, it only reduces risk. Using condoms won't guarantee 100% that you won't catch an STI. Condoms do fail and everybody will have an accident with one at one time or another. I agree that everyone should use condoms, I would never trust a partner that didn't insist on it.

 

[Pantylick]

Ok - SPs then

SPs - if you're going to offer DATY, please have the appropriate materials for playing safe for those of us who prefer it.

 

[DQ Guy]

SPs - if you're going to offer DATY, please have the appropriate materials for playing safe for those of us who prefer it.

Don't di it if you don't like the situation?.. simple logic right?
but if you REALLY like it and you want it safe.. how hard is it to bring your own?

 

[TooMuchFun22]

Tooo bad Hep C and HIV do not have cure. Yikes.. maybe girls may think twice about riding dirty!! Oh no!! This is a review by the way. Think of it as our review on services provided by SP's and pooners. I know that you can really appreciate your unprotected services, I know it makes for an amazing SP. I know the talk about STD's makes us uncomfortable, but its reality. Its information to live by and it could save you in the long run. You know the risks without this post,yet you continue on? Just a friendly reminder to wrap your pickle!! I dont think it can be said too much.

Alexis, do you still offer DATY or is that something that is no longer on your menu?

 

[jim]

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THANKS JENN!!!!


All that's missing is the "RMT with 'extras'" posting.

 

[Annalise Lane]

The SP actually buys all personal supplies. Condoms, lubricants, etc. Studios provide cleaning supplies, lotion, kleenex and oil only. Everything else is at the provider's expense....

Oh man, the money I would save not buying condoms and lube.....

oh Kendra - try doing out calls and forgetting the lube not once but twice in one night. AT 15 + a bottle, it can be VERY expensive. ~sigh~ Now if they had a low-jack that small I'd invest - or one of those cute 'clapper' contraptions that beeps at you ~waving, I'm here I'm here, don't leave me behind~