bad attitude Sp's

[ryankumar]

yes which is why she's probably going to sleep with you, even if she doesn't want to. sure, it's a "mood killer" to go through with sleeping with someone who doesn't want to sleep with you. but she's probably doing what she has to do to survive. it's up to you whether you wanna force it or cut your losses and leave.

OP has a good point.

The difference is the SP IS offering/advertising a good sexual experience.

If a person is not going to give the client a good time, enjoyable experience or service attitude - just don’t offer it or do this line of ‘work’.

Or at the very least, be upfront/honest with what the experience will realistically be.

I get and respect that we don’t know someone’s situation - but - it doesn’t excuse surviving by lying/cheating others out their own hard earned money (we don’t know what that client had to do or sacrifice to pay for what they thought would be an enjoyable/happy experience).

A bad/poor attitude is disappointing and a mood killer IMHO.

 

[luvsdaty]

like I asked masterpoonhunter, do you ever ask for your money back or at least a portion of it?

No,chalk it up as a bad experience and move on

 

[maxic]

Maybe its just a me problem but does anyone else have a hard time performing when the sp has poor attitude. Its as if they are not into it so then neither am I and I cannot do the deed. Anyone?

Yea is all about the right attitude with combination with good looks otherwise might as well stay home and watch good porn and particular SP should get a job in different line of work.

 

[g eazy]

am i crazy to question the ridiculousness of the question? you can replace it with just about any other service-based occupation and it's equally true. a cook in a bad mood might oversalt or char your food. your server might not smile at you. your car dealership might've missed a spot on their car wash. the point is: nobody is going to respond to OP's question with "why yes, it turns me on when she has bad attitude and i smash away" all the responses to the question is just circlejerk (i guess since they couldn't get jerked in their session due to bad attitude)

the only follow-up question was "well why don't they just not do it"?

are perb members all troll caves or something? you're purchasing a service requiring interaction with a person, not a finished product. perberts love LBSA ratings and acronyms because they seem to think purchasing sex is akin got buying a car or something. fucking insane. nobody knows why the SP might carry on with the work, you won't know and you will never know... so i suggest sucking it up and dealing with it. it could be YMMV, new to industry, bad day, who the fuck knows? providers try to promise acronyms because they know that's what pooners are all about... to the point where pooners (i.e. see this thread) seem to forget the inevitable variability of just purely being a human being.

nobody is excusing what a 'bad attitude' SP is doing, but a lot of perberts need to grow up if they treat it like some unresolved personal vendetta (i.e. see the review section). learn to accept the damn variance... the variation (including imperfections) is what makes us human. if you cant accept the variance then buy a sex doll and some lotion instead.

 

[macdaddypa]

Scenarios and my actions:

• Supreme Hot Gorgeous SP with Bad Attitude = I stay and give it to her hard. Heck I paid to bang someone hot - might as well bust a nut or two.
• Mid-grade Attractive SP with Bad Attitude = Depends on the level of attitude. If tolerable....I'd stay. If the attitude causes a deflation on my Viagra medicated dong - I'm outta there.
• Unattractive (face) but bangin body SP with Bad Attitude = I give her the benefit of the doubt for 10 minutes and see if things get better. If it does - I bust a nut. If it goes sideways - I bail! Cut my loss.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Scenarios and my actions:

• Supreme Hot Gorgeous SP with Bad Attitude = I stay and give it to her hard. Heck I paid to bang someone hot - might as well bust a nut or two.
• Mid-grade Attractive SP with Bad Attitude = Depends on the level of attitude. If tolerable....I'd stay. If the attitude causes a deflation on my Viagra medicated dong - I'm outta there.
• Unattractive (face) but bangin body SP with Bad Attitude = I give her the benefit of the doubt for 10 minutes and see if things get better. If it does - I bust a nut. If it goes sideways - I bail! Cut my loss.

This is like The D.E.N.N.I.S. System.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

am i crazy to question the ridiculousness of the question? you can replace it with just about any other service-based occupation and it's equally true. a cook in a bad mood might oversalt or char your food. your server might not smile at you. your car dealership might've missed a spot on their car wash. the point is: nobody is going to respond to OP's question with "why yes, it turns me on when she has bad attitude and i smash away" all the responses to the question is just circlejerk (i guess since they couldn't get jerked in their session due to bad attitude)

the only follow-up question was "well why don't they just not do it"?

are perb members all troll caves or something? you're purchasing a service requiring interaction with a person, not a finished product. perberts love LBSA ratings and acronyms because they seem to think purchasing sex is akin got buying a car or something. fucking insane. nobody knows why the SP might carry on with the work, you won't know and you will never know... so i suggest sucking it up and dealing with it. it could be YMMV, new to industry, bad day, who the fuck knows? providers try to promise acronyms because they know that's what pooners are all about... to the point where pooners (i.e. see this thread) seem to forget the inevitable variability of just purely being a human being.

nobody is excusing what a 'bad attitude' SP is doing, but a lot of perberts need to grow up if they treat it like some unresolved personal vendetta (i.e. see the review section). learn to accept the damn variance... the variation (including imperfections) is what makes us human. if you cant accept the variance then buy a sex doll and some lotion instead.

I think the OP posted a valid point and question not something to illicit a circlejerk as you put it. You cut a deal that you thought was to have an enjoyable time. You went in ready, in a good mood, horned up yada yada. The SP was a beeyatch and was giving off her bad attitude. It happens to any pooner who has been in this for any significant amount of time. You can suck it up all you want but if the mood has been killed and you are not enjoying this person's presence why stay?

That scenario sounded the same as my second ex wife and I sure as fuck did not stay around that!

 

[Hantingan]

Yes so g easy is saying we're all human,.sometimes things don't turn your way. It is not like as soon as we go in, she will be kneeling down and ready to suck you or in love with you. Remember these sp have sex for work see stupid dudes all the time. And also my attitude counts as well remember, its alwayw 2 way street. But yes sometimes you get unlucky and would meet some bad attitude sp, its variations. Just don't go back to her. Nothing is always perfect and Seeing sp isnt like you go buy some bigmac at McDonald's. Of course if you are scammed or threatened it is a different story.

 

[ryankumar]

I saw this in a review today an thought I’d share it here.

“3. She seems like such a nice person. She seems so kind and gracious with her time, and I always feel special when she's there. I know it's her livelihood, but she makes an effort to be kind and nice and thoughtful, it feels good to visit her on top of everything else.”

 

[RalphiEboy]

Maybe its just a me problem but does anyone else have a hard time performing when the sp has poor attitude. Its as if they are not into it so then neither am I and I cannot do the deed. Anyone?

Totally a boner 🦴 killer