This happens so much, it almost feels like a robbery! You ask for 30 minutes, and 15 minutes later, she starts saying "Time is almost up". Then after just 20 minutes she says "Time's up". Stuff like this makes me want to quit this hobby and never look back.
Asking for 30 minutes and only getting 20
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I usually try to book for at least 45 minutes. 30 minutes is pretty rushed for a thorough session. Unless you just want a bng or quickie without including many extra activities. It probably depends on the SP as well and how busy they are. I have had some great 30 minute and even 15 minute sessions, but I still prefer longer sessions so I can actually relax a bit and enjoy my time instead of feeling rushed.
If you do that, then they'll start winding up within 30 minutes. These are professional scammers, you'll never get the time you paid for. At this point it should just be like a mechanical horse where you top it up every 5 minutes to keep the ride going.
If you’re booking incall then the time you book is the amount of time you have to enter, do what you came for and leave. It’s not a time starts when you get settled and leave after your 30 minutes is up sort of situation. Many incall spaces have several providers who use the space because many of us don’t want to sit around a boring incall space for hours in case we maybe get a booking so you staying past the booked amount of time delays other bookings that come after it. Don’t forget we have to remake the bed, tidy up, deal with laundry etc afterwards for the next person as well and sometimes we only have 15 minutes to do so. If you want more time and don’t want to be rushed then my suggestion is book 45 minutes or more especially since you should be showering once you arrive which comes out of your time not ours, and definitely if you plan to shower afterwards. If you’re unsure ask the provider beforehand. I always set a timer for 5 minutes before the persons time is up so they have a few minutes to shower and get dressed. Do you want to stay after work and work for free?? Neither do we.
If my boss asks me to be in by 9, that means be at my desk by 9. Not enter the building by 9, have a coffee, use the bathroom and reach my desk at 9:45. Doi, that's common sense.
Are you whining about someone in particular this time or just painting the entire industry ('these are professional scammers') with the same whine?
We all always have the option to not return after a sub-par session. But whining about 'everyone' on here is rather pointless. IMHO.
We all always have the option to not return after a sub-par session. But whining about 'everyone' on here is rather pointless. IMHO.
Not the entire industry, but there are several who use tactics like this. Yeah you can not return, but what about the money you've already spent? If they can't provide the service listed on the ad, they shouldn't be taking the money.
I laugh at guys I see complain that they were shorted time etc. Number one your time is from opening the door till it hits you on the way out. The lady's end early to give you clean up time etc, and for many guys, time to talk. Lots of guys want to chat the lady's up post appt time. Well that time isn't free. I pay for a job well done. If she can do that in 22 minutes or 27 what do I care? If I am so worked up by the time I get there it has been 14 minutes...oh well. Many guys jerk off in the minutes prior to entering to save money on that 2nd shot, too help them last longer etc. So if you run out of time due to that, oh well, next time don't do that.....
It happens.
Some SP's and it may not be the provider but the agency, group, manager, pimp etc, cut your time short. Usually its because the next guy is arriving and they want their money too, but does it matter? They fucked you out of your time.
No sense whining about it, just NEVER use them again and post the contacts so others can spent their time and money elsewhere with a reputable SP.
Some SP's and it may not be the provider but the agency, group, manager, pimp etc, cut your time short. Usually its because the next guy is arriving and they want their money too, but does it matter? They fucked you out of your time.
No sense whining about it, just NEVER use them again and post the contacts so others can spent their time and money elsewhere with a reputable SP.
Agree with @IvyLane91 on this. I also set a timer. Clock-watchers aren’t attractive on either side of the equation, and it allows for a different level of engagement to not have to worry about going over time.
There is evidence of men being told to leave in an abrupt way, especially in AMP’s. It’s noticeable in how people talk and behave throughout the session. I recommend that SP’s just set a timer that goes off 5-10 minutes early, depending on if there is a mutual end shower.
With that said, don’t dill dally and respect the SP’s time. We do have a decent set of tasks to complete, and may want a drink of water and to sit for two whole minutes. 🤷🏼♀️
There is evidence of men being told to leave in an abrupt way, especially in AMP’s. It’s noticeable in how people talk and behave throughout the session. I recommend that SP’s just set a timer that goes off 5-10 minutes early, depending on if there is a mutual end shower.
With that said, don’t dill dally and respect the SP’s time. We do have a decent set of tasks to complete, and may want a drink of water and to sit for two whole minutes. 🤷🏼♀️
Are you paying them to talk to you? Or spend time counting/examining the money? Cause that's a crap deal and encourages stalling. Even in professional (non-sexual) massages, they start the timer after the massage starts.
Yes, the time to get in the building and up to the suite, greeting, pre session shower and post session shower etc all come out of our time... and rightly so. This is why I almost always book for a full hour. Also, with most agencies that offer 30 / 45 / 60 minute appointments, the 60 isn't all that much more than the 30... usually around $100 more (eg 250 for 30 mins / 300 for 45 / 350 for the hour. I just wish more agencies offered similar pricing breaks on times of 90 min or 2 hours that weren't just the full 30 minute price or 1 hour price tacked on to the original 1 hour price... like an hour for 350 and then 90 minutes for 450 or 500 would be great and seems reasonable enough. I think it comes down to how the girls pay the agency for the booking and pay for use of the suite.
I used to visit some shops that always had a digital clock next to the bed that was set at least 10 minutes fast... Showing up for a 1 hour appointment at 7:00, having a quick greeting and taking a 5 minute shower then heading to the room to see the clock reading somethign like 7:25...then getting the warning that time's almost up at 7:50 brings the effective pooning time from almost an hour down to only 25 minutes That was frustrating because nothing kills the vibe like whining about time before you even get started. I eventually started doing things like starting a timer on my phone once I got buzzed into the building, or making a coment mentioning the time when I arrive. Eventually I just stopped taking chances on shops that do stuff like this. I suppose it can happen at any agency though, mabye I've just been lucky lately.
I used to visit some shops that always had a digital clock next to the bed that was set at least 10 minutes fast... Showing up for a 1 hour appointment at 7:00, having a quick greeting and taking a 5 minute shower then heading to the room to see the clock reading somethign like 7:25...then getting the warning that time's almost up at 7:50 brings the effective pooning time from almost an hour down to only 25 minutes That was frustrating because nothing kills the vibe like whining about time before you even get started. I eventually started doing things like starting a timer on my phone once I got buzzed into the building, or making a coment mentioning the time when I arrive. Eventually I just stopped taking chances on shops that do stuff like this. I suppose it can happen at any agency though, mabye I've just been lucky lately.
You're paying for her time, even including talking and counting money. Counting money couldn't take more than 20 seconds and talking is a pretty normal thing to do with someone you are about to get naked with. If you let this bother you so much it will show and make them want to spend even less quality time with you
If you're paying for something like a dinner date, then talking is part of the deal. If you're paying for "FS", then you're not really paying for the talking. Someone who charges 30 minutes for FS and spends 10 mins talking is a scammer.
I think @RadioOperator90 hasn’t experienced enough awkwardly silent sessions, or has too much going on in his life and seeks blissful peace.
Sir, there are a decent amount of personalities that are not fun or engaging to interact with. Conversation is work, as it making sure we get a clear picture of what you’re looking for and then providing that. Conversation to some degree is needed. You don’t need to tarnish SP character by calling a different form of connection scamming when you deeply crave silent satisfaction. Just say you want less talking and more quiet attention at the beginning of the session. Set a two minute alarm yourself IF you’ll get dressed and be out on time. It’s not rude. It’s assertive.
Sir, there are a decent amount of personalities that are not fun or engaging to interact with. Conversation is work, as it making sure we get a clear picture of what you’re looking for and then providing that. Conversation to some degree is needed. You don’t need to tarnish SP character by calling a different form of connection scamming when you deeply crave silent satisfaction. Just say you want less talking and more quiet attention at the beginning of the session. Set a two minute alarm yourself IF you’ll get dressed and be out on time. It’s not rude. It’s assertive.
Talking is fine....as long as its not coming out of the time that you paid for. That's how massages work too. I've seen masseuses who talk before and after the session. They don't cut out the massage time and replace it with talking.
Perhaps that’s just it. You know we can multitask right? That’s a whole niche you’re knocking because you don’t value the conversation… Sorry, not sorry, but we cater to many different types of people. Some people like it. 🤷🏼♀️ We have to be chameleons and routinely check in.
Regardless, you now know why multiple SP’s may begin to wrap up at the 5-10 minute mark. We aren’t stealing your time. Some may, as in every industry, but there’s logical reasons why talking is necessary and/or desired. It’s fine if you want a bare bones check-in or to have fun ASAP (many do). A simple two minute convo while you’re hopping into and out of the shower is all that’s needed. Please use your voice at the beginning of your future sessions so you aren’t feeling resentment and needing to use it for this. You pay us to cater an experience.
Keep in mind: The more succinctly you can describe what you want and shorten the conversation, the less we have to probe. Teehee 🤭 And some men love hearing us talk or being given orders for the entire session. Different strokes for different folks.
Regardless, you now know why multiple SP’s may begin to wrap up at the 5-10 minute mark. We aren’t stealing your time. Some may, as in every industry, but there’s logical reasons why talking is necessary and/or desired. It’s fine if you want a bare bones check-in or to have fun ASAP (many do). A simple two minute convo while you’re hopping into and out of the shower is all that’s needed. Please use your voice at the beginning of your future sessions so you aren’t feeling resentment and needing to use it for this. You pay us to cater an experience.
Keep in mind: The more succinctly you can describe what you want and shorten the conversation, the less we have to probe. Teehee 🤭 And some men love hearing us talk or being given orders for the entire session. Different strokes for different folks.
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The conversations here are missing the mark. The issue is when there is a CLEAR and abrupt end to the session well before the time that was agreed upon has been reached. Arguing about time to get in the elevator, talking, counting money that is all noise. The issue is when you are on the table and expecting to have a decent session and its ended well in advance of the expectation.
Well stated @masterpoonhunter. I did not see your reply above. This thread did digress from abrupt endings to how much conversation is appropriate, entirely different issues, though they were strung together. My entire point was stating why some SP’s will start wrapping up at the 20 minute mark, especially with a chatty Kathy.
Never use the SP’s that you believe are doing that again and “post the contacts so others can spent their time and money elsewhere with a reputable SP”. Maybe there should be a time waster thread specifically for that (if there isn’t one already). There might be more accountability and direct impact within the industry.
Never use the SP’s that you believe are doing that again and “post the contacts so others can spent their time and money elsewhere with a reputable SP”. Maybe there should be a time waster thread specifically for that (if there isn’t one already). There might be more accountability and direct impact within the industry.
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