Asian women who dislike Asian men

[87112]

http://www.singleasianmale.com/?p=298

We all know Asian women really like White guys, black girls because of height, built whatever you can think of. But I truly dont get why some Asian women ( some I work with) will not have a conversation or be remotely nice to me because I too am Asian. I am talking about the American Born Chinese or ABC. I have worked for 12 years in the same place and have never meet one ABC women who I had a good relationship with.

I have had White, Black, Flipinos, SE Asians say hi to me in the hall but the goddess born here who are Chinese NO Way!!

Even my mom says ABC or CBC are more stuck up than others. I've dated Chinese but all of them were born in China without the altitude.

Comments?

 

[TheGuy]

Have you dated Hong Kong women? Now, there is some attitude.

Seriously.

I think this is very common for many cultures. I know women from Russian that will not date Russian men. I know South Asian women who will not date men from their culture.

This is a process of immigration and of rebelling against the past.

Don't take it personally. I am sure they don't intend it that way.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Maybe that asian girl refuse to talk with u cause she found out you bang sp

 

[MaxBoner]

They all have attitude till you put it in the shitter.

My experience hasn't been too much like that, although I certainly know the phenom of what you speak of. Consider this : perhaps it is your attitude. Asian men do get stereotyped into being effeminate or the typical gangster. They may see you as the former if you overly act as the courteous, polite nice guy. Try a more fuck em and leave em attitude and see if that changes anything.

My 2 cents.

 

[KYG]

It works both ways. There are a lot of asian men that don't date asian women as well.

 

[Urquell]

I doubt it's that simple. In my experience ( I deal with many people from many different cultures) the asian men who prefer non-asian women do so because of a sexual preference, usually for larger and better developed women. The women, on the other hand (from many different places) prefer men not of their own culture because of the attitudes the men have towards women.NA men tend to have a less chauvinistic attitude. Of course, there are always men available to exploit that tendency as well. They're generally scum.

 

[threepeat]

http://www.singleasianmale.com/?p=298

We all know Asian women really like White guys, black girls because of height, built whatever you can think of. But I truly dont get why some Asian women ( some I work with) will not have a conversation or be remotely nice to me because I too am Asian. I am talking about the American Born Chinese or ABC. I have worked for 12 years in the same place and have never meet one ABC women who I had a good relationship with.

I have had White, Black, Flipinos, SE Asians say hi to me in the hall but the goddess born here who are Chinese NO Way!!

Even my mom says ABC or CBC are more stuck up than others. I've dated Chinese but all of them were born in China without the altitude.

Comments?

If you are talking just as friends, I am Asian myself and I've gotten along great with pretty much every Asian (aka Oriental) woman I've ever met, and my highest romantic success rate has been with Asian women (although we are talking a pretty low bar lol) -- where they were born doesn't seem to make a difference. It's easy to talk about the chicken feet and the why-have-you-moved-out guilt complexes. Let me turn the question around for a sec though... do you find Asian women to be attractive? I've met only a handful for Asian girls in my life who I have found to be pretty. It almost seems... too close to home... Maybe Asian women feel the same way.

I know Italian women who won't date Italian men, so there might be some truth to what TheGuy said below. In my experience, the exception seems to be Indians, who tend to gravitate toward other Indians.

From a pooning standpoint, based on the SPs I've talked to it seems like the Asian guys like the white SPs, and there is a considerable market for Asian SPs from white guys. Guess we don't have the stats for Asian women pooners and white women pooners to know if it goes the other way.

 

[Urquell]

Well, most of them are effing gorgeous.They are usually well established socially and economically.Smart and well educated.So they can have their pick.They all know they are highly prized and sought after,so in the supply and demand market, they are at the top.The new arrivals seem to be quite confident as well.For the most part, they have gone past the shy and demure and submissive stereotype.Anyway Asian girls are in demand everywhere, just a fact.
I see plenty of great looking Asian girls paired up with Asian guys. As far as being North American born, I guess if they feel a guy is socially impaired by dint of the fact that he doesn't have home grown North American cool, that may be a factor.I have seen Asian Canadian girls mentioning that in TV interviews on the subject,but there are plenty of cool and successful Asian guys who are new arrivals. However I believe that it used to be common for ethnic groups to discriminate amongst themselves against new arrivals. Italians and other races have experienced it.
If it makes you feel any better, they don't like me that much either. I just put it down to being past my "sell by" date.
oh well.

lol. My side business deals specifically with foreigners (mostly asian) arriving new to the country, as WHV holders, students and longterm visitors. Your description of the FOB asian resident is just about the exact opposite of probably about 85% of them, and I've dealt with hundreds and hundreds of them.They are smart and well educated. That's true.They're not in big demand.They're off the radar for most people. In fact, the guys are almost in negative demand. They're not confident on arrival, and tend to band together, sometimes not making any canadian friends in the whole time they're here. This is very common. Their cultural expectations make blending and engaging challenging, often because of language barriers. Don't mistake the home grown variety for the visitor. They're two very,very different animals (as a group, and admittedly a very broad generalization)

 

[Urquell]

Sorry, I misunderstood your context. My mistake.

FOB stands for Fresh Off the Boat. If in the last post you were referring to arriving Asian women not having the social ineptness problem, despite the language barriers, then I'll disagree with you there, but otherwise I retract my statement. I was not talking about Canadian born Asians. When talking about the differences between the two animals I was also not referring to language skills, but rather the cultural outlook.

 

[makuro]

CBC girls are definitely harder to date as an asian guy in vancouver. For some reason the majority (and not by all means ALL of them) seem to prefer the tall white guy, drives me nuts when I meet a CBC asian girl who I'm attracted to, not nuts (well at least not absolutely crazy anyway), and has a personality, that's more than just a bitch. What REALLY gets me all riled up is they end up complaining that their WHITE boyfriend isn't asian enough and doesn't know all the proper etiquette vie a vie la parents or anything like that.

But I have also found that this is a phenomenon for the most part centered around vancouver, and in other cities have no problems meet with or chatting with a CBC, or even.. *gasp* dating a CBC.

I wish I didn't love vancouver as much as I did, 'cause I'm probably gonna be single for the rest of my life here! (either that or find a CBC from another part of canada and import her into vancouver)

So take heart all you CBC's in vancouver... all you have to do is a) find one of the few nice CBCs that WILL date an asian guy, b) import your own from another part of canada or c) move from vancouver!

 

[wilde]

For some reason the majority (and not by all means ALL of them) seem to prefer the tall white guy, drives me nuts when I meet a CBC asian girl who I'm attracted to, not nuts (well at least not absolutely crazy anyway), and has a personality, that's more than just a bitch. What REALLY gets me all riled up is they end up complaining that their WHITE boyfriend isn't asian enough and doesn't know all the proper etiquette vie a vie la parents or anything like that.

Like man who compensate by buying a sports car, woman compensate too albeit a bit differently.

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[fatboy2]

Interesting comments and observations on this thread

I've heard Asian girls, both CBC&foreign-born say they prefer Caucasian guys cuz

1.The guy is more likely to have his own apt. by his early 20's

2. He knows how to do at least some chores like housework

3.He knows what an iron is

4.He's less likely to be chauvinistic

5.Most NB...he won't be the source of a Chinese mother-in-law

I'm just repeating the thoughts of Asian ladies on this.

 

[InTheBum]

http://www.singleasianmale.com/?p=298

We all know Asian women really like White guys, black girls because of height, built whatever you can think of. But I truly dont get why some Asian women ( some I work with) will not have a conversation or be remotely nice to me because I too am Asian. I am talking about the American Born Chinese or ABC. I have worked for 12 years in the same place and have never meet one ABC women who I had a good relationship with.

I have had White, Black, Flipinos, SE Asians say hi to me in the hall but the goddess born here who are Chinese NO Way!!

Even my mom says ABC or CBC are more stuck up than others. I've dated Chinese but all of them were born in China without the altitude.

Comments?

I think they want to get stuffed by a big cock, and they know it ain't gonna happen from an asian guy!

 

[barbarella]

women are women

 

[bossp1aya]

I am a tall white guy and I like asian women, so this works out great for me!

 

[BC_Boy]

I have CBC girlfriends who only date Asian guys. There are plenty of them out there so I guess it just depends on where you are located and what kind of social scene you hang out in.

I also have CBC girlfriends who like to rebel against their parents and refuse to date Asian guys.

It depends on each individual girl and you can't stereotype that all CBC girls refuse to date Asian guys.

Now...what's to be said about white girls who love Asian guys?

seems like a shitty way for a girl to reject a guy.