notgonna asks the question that requires an assessment of the intangibles.
Nicole is attractive and has a great voice (said the latter above). She started weight-training and so those who only saw her in Dunbar would be in for a treat: she is sleeker.
The massage was not erotic enough. This for me may have been a case of a clicking cerebrally and then having that realization: "Shit, I am naked and being massaged by someone I should be talking ethics and sexual politics with over drinks." (I realize this may not a lot of sense to many). Thus, I got rather self-conscious about the situation. Had the massage been more erotic I might have been able to make it past the situation. (Crap this is a bit confessional).
I apreciate that others may have decided against repeating for significantly different reasons.
Does this help notgonna? (Probably not; I should confine my typing to when I am drinking).
Stew