Alternate kinks and fetishes?

dilbert1234

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Dec 27, 2006
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Hi everyone,

I've been a lurker here on the boards for quite some time without providing any contribution. My interests are not quite the same as the ones most often posted and reviewed here. I do need to say that this board has been extremely helpful though in finding out who not to bother asking. I'm that kind of guy to always believe that the picture posted on an ad must be real and that nobody would ever rip me off.

I'm posting though to see if there are others who enjoy my sorts of interests, to look for new ideas to explore. Finding a new beautiful woman to help me is always a bonus too.

My interests are more kink than fetish at times. I have seen a locally reviewed Domme a few times but am not sure if I was getting what I thought I wanted out of it. My fetish ultimately boils down to loving to put a woman on a pedestal. I find true beauty in the female form, in how a woman moves, talks, sits. How she dresses, wears her hair and makeup. To me women are as amazing in a dress as they are in in their "I'm not leaving the house today" clothes. I spend most of my day distracted and falling in love with every woman that goes by.

I don't get as much out of the pain and punishment of bdsm as I do out of the serve and worship. The watching and serving. I like smoking fetish, tease and denial, playing house servant, errand boy. I like buying panties, foot worship, I like watching. These sorts of things appeal to me because the woman involved knows, she controls. She enjoys being seen as beautiful for that time.

I don't get anything out of a f/s session. Great encounters often don't lead to me taking my clothes off. Not many people post about this sort of avenue of fetish here and I was wondering for those that have great sessions like this before, what they may suggest. I'm looking to definitely go deeper down this rabbit hole and am open to all suggestions in the bdsm world. Especially anything that helps me see beauty in a new way, an hour at a time!
 

PuntMeister

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Jul 13, 2003
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Hi everyone,

I've been a lurker here on the boards for quite some time without providing any contribution. My interests are not quite the same as the ones most often posted and reviewed here. I do need to say that this board has been extremely helpful though in finding out who not to bother asking. I'm that kind of guy to always believe that the picture posted on an ad must be real and that nobody would ever rip me off.

I'm posting though to see if there are others who enjoy my sorts of interests, to look for new ideas to explore. Finding a new beautiful woman to help me is always a bonus too.

My interests are more kink than fetish at times. I have seen a locally reviewed Domme a few times but am not sure if I was getting what I thought I wanted out of it. My fetish ultimately boils down to loving to put a woman on a pedestal. I find true beauty in the female form, in how a woman moves, talks, sits. How she dresses, wears her hair and makeup. To me women are as amazing in a dress as they are in in their "I'm not leaving the house today" clothes. I spend most of my day distracted and falling in love with every woman that goes by.

I don't get as much out of the pain and punishment of bdsm as I do out of the serve and worship. The watching and serving. I like smoking fetish, tease and denial, playing house servant, errand boy. I like buying panties, foot worship, I like watching. These sorts of things appeal to me because the woman involved knows, she controls. She enjoys being seen as beautiful for that time.

I don't get anything out of a f/s session. Great encounters often don't lead to me taking my clothes off. Not many people post about this sort of avenue of fetish here and I was wondering for those that have great sessions like this before, what they may suggest. I'm looking to definitely go deeper down this rabbit hole and am open to all suggestions in the bdsm world. Especially anything that helps me see beauty in a new way, an hour at a time!
Dilbert, there are lots of wonderful SP's that adore good servants and worshipers, and can craft sessions around this with ease. Yes, you have to be clear on your desires from the start. Don't expect them to mind read. You articulated it OK here. Just be sure to say what you want, not what you don't--that just confuses the issue, IMHO. One thing I hear from domme's all too regularly is something like "Oh ya, I used to have a slave / servant, but they became to clingy and needy, so I had to let them go". I think your fantasy is fine, but for whatever it is worth, enjoy it while having your own sense of identity and purpose in life. It will make you stronger and more sustainabe, and ultimately more interesting to those you choose to worship.

Good luck to you.

-Punt.
 
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