Age and sex

[the old maxx50]

This is a multilevel commentary i guess it starts with me being 50 before i had sex , but now after seeing escorts for the last 7 yrs , i still would like to have more sex . But of course it is not all about just fucking i like it stepped up a bit ,, some fun , some exploring knew stuff , after all it still is knew to me .. Where as I can see that for many of you it is old hat , you may even begetting tiered of it .. Many definitely are seeing escorts just so they can have a change from the same person , your wife , or because they are not interested in sex at all the same way you are ..

Of course now i am seeing the same from the younger escorts .. some I have know for 6 yrs others i see are only in their late 20's , but have been doing this for 10 yrs , and they just are not that interested in sex like they once were personally or professionally . attitudes have changed , they not in to parting as much , they are off drugs and even out of touch wit the business. Also priorities have changes , now they think of having a family , setting down with one guy , if possible and the sex drive is not there with all of them any more ..

I know if it come down to how they behave with me , it has some ting to do wit the age difference , of course from my perspective i am OK with it lol . I don't see 25 , or 30 yrs age difference as barrier to having adult .. , although at 50 I looked younger and had more energy .. and i can see that when I get in to my sixties I may not feel up to it either and then they are only in their 30's..

I know it just me , i am more at easy with younger women then older .. I don't need to prove any thing to the younger ones I am older and that is accepted ..lol . I when i was young I all was was dealing with people that were 30 , 40 yr older then me ,, My parents were 30 ,and 40 when i was born , all the family and friends were also that much older then some one who had parents that were 19, and 20 , when they started a family .. So I always had a different comfort zone then many young people my age .. I was more comfortable with older people ,, and now that seem to be reversed where i am the elder and i am comfortable with younger people ..

As for the escorts .. some just want some hot young guys .. there age , so they can enjoy sex and have it not so much like work or a chore , I don't blame them . It is not fun having sex with most of us old guys , maybe if we make it worth while and you can go have fun with the money.
So I hate to see these young sexy girls not enjoying sex and having a full filled sex life when they are still in the prime of their life .. Some thing i would of love to of had when i was younger rather then start when I was all most too old to enjoy.

Where as they don't like it any more , for many reason .Some have just lost there sex drive and have very little .if any enjoyment from sex or even being with some one ,in my case i am not even a stranger to them , but no attraction .. And others are looking for that some one that will sweep them off their feet and take then to a better life , but a little concerned that being an escort all these yrs will make that hard to find .. Yes it seem that even the in lightened men here , few would consider dating let a lone partner with girl that worked in the sex trade .. But it goes both ways , where few of the girls that have worked as escorts would date or want a parted that had see escorts .. They think they will cheat on them .( prob right if they exhibit the same habits as the women that these men were trying to find re leaf from )

Age and sex .. what is the secret to having that full filled sex life when you want it and having a partner that love what you love and wants it just as much ,

I know there are many escorts that have older clients , some in their 80's , and there are some older escorts working also .. So yes we all n-know people want sex , Many old couple still enjoy some sort of sex life .. and many more don;t .. For some it it just that long friendship that is enough and a hug and a kiss .. , Others are going after the younger girls and guys at 80 LOL

Then there are those girls that like older clients . , maybe up to 55 , 60 , They are not to demanding in the sex area , and just want to spend sometime with a sexy girl .. and usually they become regulars , and friends , They fill an need , for one companionship and the other money.

 

[the old maxx50]

I have to add , That i have been a lot happier in the last 7 yr , because i have sex , all though it has tended to occupy way to much of my thoughts .in the last 7 yrs also .. It would be nice to have some regular friend that love sex as much . It is nice to have a few regulars that kind of call me lol, for a change , but I need to stop watching porn and taking care of it my self .. . It is cheaper though.

 

[the old maxx50]

I won't go down the list of friends i have with no benefits , That i pay for this and pay for that ..

Some have said that relationships cost you money too , and i have to agree .. seeing escorts just for sex is less expensive then having friends , That don't want to have sex with you ..lol With friends there have to be some sexual attraction to make that happen .. That what i assume

 

[lenny]

I am currently investigating my sexuality both physically and psychologically, it is a lot of fun,
and even my wife can tell I am happy...although she knows not why..

Ruindheart

LOL...go for it, my friend.

 

[sevenofnine]

most doctors will tell you sex is normal a normal part of life,
a tv doc said if your not horny then well some thing is wrong.

i don't really know but i would said there is a great deal of variation in the human condition,
and at times in life its more important than others.
and i think also that you can get screwed up or screw your self up, with alot of strange ideas in your head, cultural religious or just bad experiance and you dwell on them or take them to heart and well something that is nothing turns into a big deal

i kindof think when your younger sex is more physical its a hunger,
the older you get sex is more emotional,
just my own impression of my life,

doesn't surprise me escorts get bored with sex if you look at the numbers,
im not sure they get bored with sex maybe they get bored with guys, and a good vibrator will do, less drama or hassles then a guy.

me im kind of think im done, when me and the lady i see can't fiqure it out any more, im done. not paying another women money for her company.
i see her and i enjoy it, but i don't know i could write about this forever and maybe make alot of sense or none.
there is something about paying a women to be with you as opposed to the two of you just doing it because.
we shall see, the test will come when i go six months with out. and see,

sex is enjoyable very enjoyable
but there well is other things in life as well
charecter honor, respect.

and im speaking for my self ok,
im married im happyly married with kids its all good, but i see an escort,
you should do what you got to do.

but me don't know but like i said i hope im done when me and the lady i see are done with.

 

[sevenofnine]

i think all the egg heads would agree that sex is a normal part of life and a healthy part of life

but i think it also depends how you approach sex. how you treat your partner or view your partner
and i think even in this it applys.
even though we pay the girls in some cases lots of money
what do we think of her as a women or just some toy we purchased for awhile.

and i think this changes with age and maturity, or just hormones.
like i said the older i get its nicer to have a regular companion who is just as much a friend as a lady i pay,
when i see her i look forward to both our friendship as well as the physical side of this

i don't think if i was in this hobby alot younger i would have valued the emotional side of this.