Addicted to this hobby, how to stop
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I'm kinda in the same boat as the TS, except I'm not a student and work full time but even so, spending a 200-300 every month on this hobby isnt exactly the best way to spend my money (but it's usually the most fun lol). I find myself browsing through perb/ers/bp every so often and can't seem to stop, especially when I created a small list of SPs I still want to see lol.
To the OP
Log out from here and don't come back is the first step.
This is like the pooner's candy store. Know you can't afford the ladies here and try to meet a GF.
Log out from here and don't come back is the first step.
This is like the pooner's candy store. Know you can't afford the ladies here and try to meet a GF.
Uhh that sounds worse than jail!
Yeah Tourist, what college are you talking about? I can't seem to find those in my town
Just start masturbating a couple of times a day. your dick will be too tired to visit any SPs and you'll start saving money. it works for a while anyway...
I've been trying to avoid getting into the hobby and the trick was working for a while (started lurking the forums a year ago)... but now the urge is too strong to explore and try some new vag so YMMV! haha!
I've been trying to avoid getting into the hobby and the trick was working for a while (started lurking the forums a year ago)... but now the urge is too strong to explore and try some new vag so YMMV! haha!
That was my first strategy, still kinda is. I always try to masturbate to forget about SPs but they always come back to my mind after, or even during!
If you can't or don't want to completely stop, do the next best thing. Set yourself and budget and work within it. That way you can reward yourself if you worked hard and did well on a test or received a high mark for the class. After all, we all need some kind of reward when we do well.
If you're only concern is that you can't afford it, get a job.
I'm addicted too. I fail to see the problem in that since it isn't killing me financially. To me, it's no worse than being "addicted" to say skiing, and I spend a lot more on that than I do escorts or MPs. And then there's the diving... Hobbying doesn't even come close to the amount I spend on dive travel...
Alternately, you could ask the folks for an increase in your allowance. I'm sure they'd be ok with that.
Your Dad is probably on here anyway. Hell, your Mom might be too for that matter.
I'm addicted too. I fail to see the problem in that since it isn't killing me financially. To me, it's no worse than being "addicted" to say skiing, and I spend a lot more on that than I do escorts or MPs. And then there's the diving... Hobbying doesn't even come close to the amount I spend on dive travel...
Alternately, you could ask the folks for an increase in your allowance. I'm sure they'd be ok with that.
Your Dad is probably on here anyway. Hell, your Mom might be too for that matter.
Make a rule for yourself - rub one out before you call to make an appointment. Maybe allow yourself to poon once a month instead of quitting cold turkey?
i think i,m hitting around the 1000 number now or more.
i,m getting old and can still get it up just fine , i,m not dryed up because of some old menopause wife that will not fuk me.
i cant wait for my next , i dream about maybe a black chick , or 2 asain chicks , or or or , i wake up with a hardon.
i,m a sex addict and love it. And have zero plans to quit.... ouch! what a awful thought.
i,m getting old and can still get it up just fine , i,m not dryed up because of some old menopause wife that will not fuk me.
i cant wait for my next , i dream about maybe a black chick , or 2 asain chicks , or or or , i wake up with a hardon.
i,m a sex addict and love it. And have zero plans to quit.... ouch! what a awful thought.
Oh I can afford SPs no problem. Coming from a pretty wealthy family, my allowance is enough to feed me 3-4 SPs in a month.If you're only concern is that you can't afford it, get a job.
I'm addicted too. I fail to see the problem in that since it isn't killing me financially. To me, it's no worse than being "addicted" to say skiing, and I spend a lot more on that than I do escorts or MPs. And then there's the diving... Hobbying doesn't even come close to the amount I spend on dive travel...
Alternately, you could ask the folks for an increase in your allowance. I'm sure they'd be ok with that.
Your Dad is probably on here anyway. Hell, your Mom might be too for that matter.
It's not the money problem, it never was. It's just that I always have second thoughts (after meeting with an SP) about how I could've spent my money instead of spending it on girls.
I really want to start saving up money but it's really hard for me since SPs are one of my top weaknesses! :fear:
let it run its course
enjoy it for awhile then the desire won't be so strong and you can change your behaviour
or maybe not you might have to wait till your sixty or so before you loose some desire.
you could try a real girl friend,
enjoy it for awhile then the desire won't be so strong and you can change your behaviour
or maybe not you might have to wait till your sixty or so before you loose some desire.
you could try a real girl friend,
Again... get a job. You say it isn't the money, but then you go in to say you can't save money because you spend it on escorts. So, get a job like a normal person, and you will have money to do both.
The other advantage of getting a job is that you will learn to value your money. If you actually have to work for it, you might decide that spending it on the ladies isn't the best idea.
As an aside, apart from getting a job, why don't you try getting a real girlfriend? I have always felt that young guys shouldn't be in this hobby. It has the potential to completely warp your idea of what a real relationship is supposed to be like. I have two sons about your age and I'd beat them within an inch of their lives if I found out that they were mongering. Not because it's a bad thing, but because it could become very difficult to learn how to relate to "real" women in a "real" relationship.
By the way, are your folks open to adopting? I am house-broken and don't smoke. I'd like an allowance too.
you could always move up to prince george or something, the selection will be so bad that you won't want to poon anymore
