“Treat her well, guys”

FreeG

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So I’ve seen the above statement in reviews every now and then for like 10yrs now. It invariably comes at the end of a positive review and I’m assuming it’s always meant to plead to others to not be jerks so the companion will stick around and keep working.

i get the intent of it, I guess. But JFC,does anyone honestly think we should NOT be treating a companion well???
 

SolidSnake

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Don't forget "I'm not going into details", unless it's Smart Spa where the girls are never afforded the courtesy.
 
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SkinnyJohn

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The majority of posters and pooners are well mannered. But it's always the small minority who cross the boundaries and drive the escort out of business. It's nice to think we are all gentlemanly but in reality there are assholes in the biz.
 

Stamkos

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So I’ve seen the above statement in reviews every now and then for like 10yrs now. It invariably comes at the end of a positive review and I’m assuming it’s always meant to plead to others to not be jerks so the companion will stick around and keep working.

i get the intent of it, I guess. But JFC,does anyone honestly think we should NOT be treating a companion well???
Totally agree FreeG!! That comment has always irritated me. I like to think the majority of pooners are at the very least semi respectful and don’t need that comment repeated. For the assholes that are obviously out there that comment means nothing and makes no difference on how they treat women. So let’s give that comment a rest and just do the right fucking thing everytime.
 
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Personally it surprises me to see that statement in reviews, as I like to think I always treat women respectfully. However, the more I talk to my female friends about their intimate relationships with men, I understand why.

A lot of men are jerks and treat women poorly. Some of the stories my lady friends tell me make me want to apologize to them on behalf of all men. And it's some guys who I thought were good decent men, but when they're alone with women, they behave much different.
 

masterblaster

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A lady friend just had a bad date with a guy who definitely felt entitled to treat her badly. She got hurt.
Never assume everyone is a nice guy, or that they are the same in real life as their online persona.
If someone has the propensity to to do something harmful to a woman I have serious doubts that ending a review with “treat her well” will have any effect on such an individual. It’s just pissing in the wind.
 

westwoody

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Ya, lot's hate to see it. We get messages from men who want to have access to us but hate us and wish the worst for us every single day.
Why would it bother anyone with a clear conscience?

I was in a restaurant with a lady who turned her phone off. She missed a few texts from a guy who started off really nice, full of compliments. When she didn’t answer right away be sent more, ending with really disturbingly threatening texts. All in the space of maybe 45 minutes.
Then he posted here that she’s a bitch who doesn’t answer her phone.
 

sensualsixty

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The need to treat an SP well becomes a telling argument for decriminalizing consensual sex. I know a very popular SP who was raped, but refused to report it, because she was afraid of any involvement with the police. The downside of her decision is that the ^&*% is in a position to treat more SP's the same way since he is not in jail for his offence.
 

CantoPSElover

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So I’ve seen the above statement in reviews every now and then for like 10yrs now. It invariably comes at the end of a positive review and I’m assuming it’s always meant to plead to others to not be jerks so the companion will stick around and keep working.

i get the intent of it, I guess. But JFC,does anyone honestly think we should NOT be treating a companion well???
lol i recently said this in my review of layla. did i trigger this discussion?

I always just used it as a signing off for a review and as a reminder to fellow punters that the ladies are in fact people and not just a business transaction. Believe it or not some punters do bring in the whole "the customer is always right" bullshit and need to be reminded. Obviously the efficacy of such a statement is questionable, but to me its just a way of showing my respect. Didnt know it would bother anyone.
 

dickdoes

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I guess that it takes all kinds to make a world. My motto is that “I would rather make friends than enemies”. I just don’t understand the other side. I have to assume that low self esteem causes the bad action. Anyways, I try to respect everyone. And a nice smile with a warm wet pussy can be our reward.
 

carvesg

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Treating someone well and with
respect should be a prerequisite when someone is expecting to be serviced properly.

Decriminalize, decriminalize, decriminalize, it's the only way that sex workers will have the full protection of the laws and constitutional protection that we all have and that they should received in their work environment.

Some or quite a few pay their taxes and obey the laws , bylaws and rules of this land without getting the protection and services that any other citizen receive in Canada. I would not blame a sex worker who does not pay fully their taxes when receiving cash payments since they don't get full protection, coverage and services that regular citizens are getting or expect.
 

masterblaster

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It might be just me but a few words like “treat her well guys” says “this is a nice person”.
How this can upset someone is baffling to me. With all that is going on in the world a couple of positive words is harmless.
I believe it’s the needlessness of the statement that irks some people. Kind of like saying; be sure not to open your car door and jump out when you’re travelling 100 mph.
 
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