“That’s it I’m coming back”

[musclebro]

I noticed no one mentioned one thing that makes me come back. Maybe everyone else felt it was too crass to mention.

For me, not being a wealthy person, value for money is important. I hope I can explain what I mean in a manner that doesn't cause me to be dumped on ;-(

If I see a lower priced SP, my expectations are also lower, either in terms of how attractive she is to me and/or the level of service she provides me. And if the SP is is more expensive, I expect that I will find her more attractive and/or the level of service better. If I visit a SP that meets or exceeds my expectations based on the fees that she charges, I am more likely to see her again. Of course this is not the only reason I will see a SP again. Other good reasons have already been mentioned earlier in this thread.

JD

This is very very accurate. I do pretty well financially (not crazy rich or anything) but value for money is important to me.
I also factor in their rates when giving reviews. Anything over the $400-500+ an hour range I am expecting alot more in terms of looks, service. and attitude.

However, as someone who has dabbled in quite a few girls who are in the $500+ an hour range, I can absolutely say that high rates does NOT correlate to high end looks or high end service, or high end attitude. I think alot of the woman charging high rates are just doing it because then they can be lower volume, and it has no correlation to how attractive they are, or how good their service or reputation is. or they are charging higher rates because they have been in the industry for longer, which doesnt make much sense to me to be honest.

Its not even just valuing money, its also valuing time. if im taking an hour plus out of my day to see a provider, and I leave unsatisied, feeling decieved, or ripped off, it really sucks.

 

[Equity Market investor]

I agree here. However, in lieu of your statement, today's high of cost of inflation has taken a large bite within the ladies all around expenses. Just like any other business. HOWEVER.... they are well aware that a decent amount of clients out there have no issues with those fee increases. Another-words...they can do it. But you're is assessment is accurate in that value nowadays --- and all that comes with it --- does matter. Attitude, personality, realism etc.

Unless, one who is " crazy rich " --- as you put it. For them It's a " free for all ". But for your everyday " normal " client, we all operate within a budget. Not everyone can afford to buy a detached home, Town-home or even a condo now here in Metro Van.

Welcome to our new crazy upside down world.

This is very very accurate. I do pretty well financially (not crazy rich or anything) but value for money is important to me.
I also factor in their rates when giving reviews. Anything over the $400-500+ an hour range I am expecting alot more in terms of looks, service. and attitude.

However, as someone who has dabbled in quite a few girls who are in the $500+ an hour range, I can absolutely say that high rates does NOT correlate to high end looks or high end service, or high end attitude. I think alot of the woman charging high rates are just doing it because then they can be lower volume, and it has no correlation to how attractive they are, or how good their service or reputation is. or they are charging higher rates because they have been in the industry for longer, which doesnt make much sense to me to be honest.

Its not even just valuing money, its also valuing time. if im taking an hour plus out of my day to see a provider, and I leave unsatisied, feeling decieved, or ripped off, it really sucks.

 

[Dick Ford]

If you still gotta pay her , the connection isnt real. hate to burst your bubble 😂

Just because you're not seeking connections, doesn't mean they don't happen. I have had the pleasure of knowing two different long-term regulars, and our connections were very real, from the first date, and the authenticity of those connections were what sustained our arrangements for many years. Money can only go so far.
That's my jam, though, and it's not for everyone -- doesn't mean it's bullshit, though.

 

[musclebro]

Just because you're not seeking connections, doesn't mean they don't happen. I have had the pleasure of knowing two different long-term regulars, and our connections were very real, from the first date, and the authenticity of those connections were what sustained our arrangements for many years. Money can only go so far.
That's my jam, though, and it's not for everyone -- doesn't mean it's bullshit, though.

I didnt say they dont happen. I do like when I get along with a provider, and have a good time with them besides the sex. other times Im just there to have sex. obviously its ideal if I get along with them well.

Ive had providers ask me to hangout and do stuff with them and they have said I dont need to pay them. I think we all know this happens quite often for some guys on here and in this hobby. thats why im saying "if you have to pay, its not a real connection" , like bro, if they were really into your "connection" you wouldnt be paying. you can trick yourself into believing it all you want, but its not a real connection if you still gotta pay lol.

and like bro, I guarantee almost all of these providers have guys they are having sex with on the side for free...

and in no way am I knocking guys who want providers whose personalities they click with, thats totally normal and healthy .

 

[Forum mod]

Stay on topic please or this will get closed down.