questions from a first timer

[degasvegas]

Hey everyone, been on the site for a while now, but this is my first post.

I'm going to be visiting Calgary in a couple weeks, and its going to be a damn lonely time. I'm just a single guy in my mid 20's. Is there any kind of etiquitte that I need to know before calling up one of the many lovely ladies? Do they prefer a guy trim? What about body type? I'm not an ugly bastard, but the last thing I want is to open the door and have her running for the hills lol.

 

[Evolve]

Hey everyone, been on the site for a while now, but this is my first post.

I'm going to be visiting Calgary in a couple weeks, and its going to be a damn lonely time. I'm just a single guy in my mid 20's. Is there any kind of etiquitte that I need to know before calling up one of the many lovely ladies? Do they prefer a guy trim? What about body type? I'm not an ugly bastard, but the last thing I want is to open the door and have her running for the hills lol.

I think you'll find most girls want:
cash
consideration
a clean body
fresh breath
sobriety

Not necessarily in that order.

Generally, appearance doesn't matter. Unless she is brand new to the business she has probably already been with many guys who are worse looking than you. So, unless you look like you are swimming with disease or something, don't worry about it.
This isn't a girlfriend we are talking about. Ultimately, it's a business transaction, and good looks aren't going to get you much.

Just to prepare you, in case it happens: There are some ladies who are not comfortable with guys under 30 due to immaturity/attitude issues. The fact that you are asking questions would be an indicator that you probably don't have those problems. Still, if you are refused due to your age, don't take it personally, just find someone else.
In fact, "don't take it personally" should probably be the motto of this hobby.

Almost forgot: Different ladies have different rules. Respect her boundaries!

 

[lenny]

I'm not an ugly bastard, but the last thing I want is to open the door and have her running for the hills lol.

Don't worry. Feel free to show up in your scariest halloween mask.

 

[sevenofnine]

what they said
but plan ahead, do research.
some ladies require references now. so get all your ducks in a line. if you need to.

i don't know how many days your in town, but some ladies are busy, so contact them early if you can plan it out.

the only thing about your age. there are one or two, very popular sp's in calgary. who have kids your age or are old enough to have kids your age.

they will pretty much shut the door. on any one who appears to be a young twentysomthing. so make sure you tell them your age.

 

[namssa]

A lot of the "quality" girls will require references in Calgary, so be forwarned of that. Some girls don't but they tend not be the top end girls for the most part. They want a girl that you have already seen to vouch for you, that you are not LE, and that you are not some kind of sick pervert or something of that vein. Be prepared.

dave

 

[oldnwrinkled1]

Reference with "quality girl" may be a problem....

He already said he is a first timer

He will be visiting Calgary....means he is from outta town....

I guess.....no references.

what now?

 

[sevenofnine]

what now no references,
at some point you might have to see a lady just for the sake of getting a reference.

or perhaps an agency,
or if you have seen some one in van, ask her, for a ref.

 

[namssa]

In lieu of a reference, quite a few girls will take your work/employment information as well as phone information. Personally, no SP will be getting that information from me, too much potential for personal/work damage if the girl has an issue for some reason. Some girls, no problems whatsoever, others are more "on the edge" and the potential for catastrophic damage is very real.

If you go to an agency you do not need a reference. The Calgary VIP, or HOTEASE in Calgary, they both have some very good girls working there. They do not require a reference and you may be able to use them as a one. Ask before the session, and be nice during the session so that you get a reference. Once you have seen a girl, and can use her as a reference, you are....on your way.


As for the "great sex" part in the post above, not every girl will give you great sex, so make sure you do your research wisely. There are many factors that can make or break a session, just stack the odds in your favour.

dave

 

[ianian]

here,s your reference

Skye Jones is going to calgary for a week or so on Teus. Tell her Ian is a reference. check craig's list in Toronto right now New Calagary no, coming. she'll treat you right kid, treat her well she WILL reciprocate.rive clean and fresh NOT TOO MUCH colonge can make them gag, if around the lower area. You want to gte kissed, mints a must. have fun out there but always remeber to play safe Oh yeah PICTUERS ARE ALWAYS FRESH