Role Play and Payback

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Ok, I'll admit, I've been lurking for a bit. Having read a number of posts I have to congratulate all those wonderful souls whom tuly admit to being swayed by the disordinary. Not that anybody is asking for my approval, but I have to say that I've alway believed that whatever floats your boat, no matter what, is imperative to pursue (of course only play between consenting and able adults). I do believe that the farther we stray from our true selves, the more perverted society becomes. Perversion in the sense being the disconnection from basic human emotion and empathies.
That being said, I have to say that the idea of being dominated by some of these girls is appealing. However, dominating some of these girls would be appealing as well. Obviously not going to flow well with the dominants.
As a game....I would love to have a duo (women) and have one girl dictate the action. In a timely fashion, I would let the other girl dictate the action to the original (perhaps ususpecting) girl. Nothing opens the imagination like feeling the power over another. Especially after being the submissinve. To then have that reversed upon you would be exciting....

I applaud all of you. I have read more honesty in these posts than anywhere else. You, all of you, rock!

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My experience has always been either the top or bottom throughout. To be able to switch during scene, you would need to negotiate that with your partner beforehand. To me, that would ruin the spontaneity that I like. Whether I'm topping or bottoming, I don't like having a script.

I would think it would be hard to change the mindset from sub to dom or vice versa during a scene. When I get into sub mode, I start to get lazy and greedy. I'm passive in taking in all the sensations that I'm being subjected to and don't want my dom to stop the things that are making me feel good. That's not to say, though, that the idea of switching during a d/s has never crossed my mind. I haven't played with anybody that has actually wanted to do it.

When I go to events like rope and gropes, it's a little different. Often I will take turns tying up whoever I'm playing with or trying new toys on each other. There's really no d/s involved.

 

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Light Wrestling = Spontaneous Switching

My experience has always been either the top or bottom throughout. To be able to switch during scene, you would need to negotiate that with your partner beforehand. To me, that would ruin the spontaneity that I like. Whether I'm topping or bottoming, I don't like having a script.

I would think it would be hard to change the mindset from sub to dom or vice versa during a scene. When I get into sub mode, I start to get lazy and greedy. I'm passive in taking in all the sensations that I'm being subjected to and don't want my dom to stop the things that are making me feel good. That's not to say, though, that the idea of switching during a d/s has never crossed my mind. I haven't played with anybody that has actually wanted to do it.

When I go to events like rope and gropes, it's a little different. Often I will take turns tying up whoever I'm playing with or trying new toys on each other. There's really no d/s involved.

Years ago I used to laugh
World Weekly News would cast stories
About preachers in the deep south spontaneously combusting
And Elvis sightings with a fiery southern cross in the sky

Such was my belief about switching during a session
The twain shall never meet
Yet one glorious eve, a well publicized domme
Treated me to a wrestling fetish adventure

At first, my strong wrists held hers, and pushed her - back on bed
Stilletto's in the air. Nylons swaying round and round, finding no purchase
Breasts heaving beneath Vicci's secret pushup. The Poet on top.
But then, slowly, like a Beautiful Brazilian Jiu Jitsu move,
my hips were turned and the next thing I knew, I was rolled to the bottom.

Pinch in the mid-drift, squeezed nipple, hair pulled up, balls squeezed down.
Before long the Poet was scissored. Neck enslaved in glorious thighs with face reddening as garter snaps ground into my cheeks.

The tunrabout delicious, I succumbed physically and verbally to dominance,
Captured and controlled, my life breath relinquished to the master. Nothing but a compliant sex toy now. Teased and used, our blood surging in the physicallity of duel. Submissiveness borne of dominance. I am beaten.