Question

[stonehands11]

You know I want to try this but there's something that gnaws at me every time I think about it.

Call it a donation, a massage with a happy ending, time spent with an attractive woman, whatever. Call it anything but what it really is.

My question to you all is "how do you get past paying for this?"

As attractive as these woman are, and as good at what they do as they all are, I just can't see myself dropping $500 for the privilege of spending an hour with them to experience what they do.

Now don't get me wrong. I'm not standing on a soapbox looking down at you all. I've had some conversations with these girls and, basically, they're about everything I'm looking for in a sexual partner, including the really kinky stuff.

But to pay $500 for it?

I say that on the outside looking in, of course, so can you folks give me your opinions and your thoughts on when you had to decide whether or not to drop $300-$500 for an hour of fun or to save for a new car??

To me $500 buys a lot of long-term things. Hell that's 1/3 the price of a brand new HDTV! A new iPod; new carpeting; new tires; new whatever.

Yes, I know it's your money and you're free to do with it what you want. You could be pissing it away at the River Cree or pissing it away after a night at the bar. But why do you choose to spend it this way?

Thanks for reading.

 

[praxis]

Who drops $$$$$

for an hour of service??? I certainly don't. . .

Here's a better question: What car could you have bought with all the money you've spent in this hobby?

For me, I probably could've bought this car:

but then again. . .

 

[wolverine]

 

[Vodka_Man]

The answer is easy

I know it can be an expensive hobby but fortunately I make enough money that I can still buy pretty much everything else I want and still have fun with this hobby. I only started this hobby about a year ago when I finally came to the realization that sometimes I just want to meet a hot experienced girl for sex without having to go through the dating ritual. If it means it costs some money, then so be it. They are providing me a service I enjoy when I need it and so why shouldn’t they be paid. I get paid for the engineering services I provide to my employer and the girls I see get paid for the companionship and talent they provide me.

I know I would never get the chance to meet such hot girls like these otherwise. I am not getting any younger and I have truly met some wonderful girls in this hobby and have no regrets at all. I know when I am 70 years old and look back at my life; I am not going to say you know I should have bought more expensive cars or TV’s. Things are just things, they are not really important. I guarantee you I will look back at my life and say you know, I wish I had had more sex and met more girls.

 

[littlejonny]

My advice, Stonehands, is that if you feel this way, then stay out of the hobby. It's actually quite addictive once you get into it. If you can't afford it, then don't start.

 

[Annalise Lane]

We get paid to leave not for the sex.

We get paid to keep our mouths shut about your activities.

We get paid to give fantasy to men who have SO that are not into some of the things they dream about.

We get paid to be a date, on long business trips when eating alone has lost it's luster.

We get paid because ............................... you fill in the rest.

And thank you to all who play in this hobby !!

 

[S.G. Gibson]

I don't understand your question exactly. Are you questioning:

Is it worth it? To me it has been. I've had a lot of fun experiences and learned some stuff about myself and other people along the way. I will never wonder what it would have been like to have a racier sex life. I guess that's the main reason I got into doing this after a lot of deliberation. I wondered what it would be like to be with lots of attractive women and do some things I may not have otherwise had the opportunity to do. I guess that is why I don't visit mps as much as I did when I started a few years ago. I've done most of the things I wanted to. I didn't get into this as a substitute for companionship and I don't want it to be a regular part of my life, but once in a while is ok to me.

Should a person pay for sex? I suppose ideally no, but life is not ideal in a lot of ways. A more practical way to look at it is can two people exchange money for sex and retain their dignity? I think the answer is yes but it takes a lot of maturity and respect for other people.

Don't you have better things to spend your money on? I would have no problem finding other places to spend money or hopefully save more of it. I wish there was some formula that told you what was a reasonable amount to spend at mps but there isn't. I try not to get carried away so one day I don't regret how much I did spend.

I'm sure there are some guys who can spend tens of thousands of dollars per year at mps without risking their financial security or sacrificing on other needs and wants, but I think those fellows are few and far between. The rest of us (even those making six figure salaries) are giving up something to do this even if it so far off in the future we don't realize it. You have to set your spending and savings priorities to what you can live with. This is no different.

 

[praxis]

I think SG explained it well. . .

I don`t understand your question exactly. Are you questioning:

Is it worth it? To me it has been. I`ve had a lot of fun experiences and learned some stuff about myself and other people along the way. I will never wonder what it would have been like to have a racier sex life. I guess that`s the main reason I got into doing this after a lot of deliberation. I wondered what it would be like to be with lots of attractive women and do some things I may not have otherwise had the opportunity to do. I guess that is why I don`t visit mps as much as I did when I started a few years ago. I`ve done most of the things I wanted to. I didn`t get into this as a substitute for companionship and I don`t want it to be a regular part of my life, but once in a while is ok to me.

Should a person pay for sex? I suppose ideally no, but life is not ideal in a lot of ways. A more practical way to look at it is can two people exchange money for sex and retain their dignity? I think the answer is yes but it takes a lot of maturity and respect for other people.

Don`t you have better things to spend your money on? I would have no problem finding other places to spend money or hopefully save more of it. I wish there was some formula that told you what was a reasonable amount to spend at mps but there isn`t. I try not to get carried away so one day I don`t regret how much I did spend.

I`m sure there are some guys who can spend tens of thousands of dollars per year at mps without risking their financial security or sacrificing on other needs and wants, but I think those fellows are few and far between. The rest of us (even those making six figure salaries) are giving up something to do this even if it so far off in the future we don`t realize it. You have to set your spending and savings priorities to what you can live with. This is no different.

Prime example is SexyBoy, as he claims in his post:

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=81248&page=2&highlight=300K

The point is that each person is unique in what they earn, what they can afford to spend in this hobby and what they can sacrifice in lieu of the money spent . . . only the individual can decide for himself where that "line" would be.

 

[tomie]

All depends

StoneHands,

It all depends, what is someone's belief about this hobby, the people who visit these palors, have so many countless reasons, which you might not understand, or faced.
This thing has been done since many centuries, in the form of Courtseans, in the past they would serve the rich ones only, now they can serve someone poor as well, who can save upto thier fee.
It is way better to visit mps rather 118 Ave. as so many people do.
Also it depends what you are also selling yourself for?
It is a shortcut, safe, easy, way to get fulfilled desire in better manner and with better person,
You might look for a date in a bar or club, which might not be safe at all.
Atleast mostly people know that these girls are clean and safe, and beautiful.

the general questions review board is full of discussions like this. visit them please. thanks

 

[popworm74]

I think as long as you think what you do is worth to do, just do it. You do not have to ask someone else. Different people has different opition. You will not have the right anwser. If you do not like it, just quit it and never do it again. It is so simple.

 

[praxis]

Sticks and stones. . .