Newbie help..

[shivka]

Guys,

I'm a brown guy (don't judge, I'm not a stereotypical brown guy) in my mid-30s looking to get into the scene. I had reasonable experience back home but never had any here. I see some escorts advertise "No East-Indian men," though I'm not technically from India (I would look like one, though). I'm not sure how I would be perceived. I tried texting a few people from LL and another site, introducing myself. I got replies from scammers asking for a deposit, and some did not even reply. I say scammers because I have experience with how these scammers behave, and the persons who did not reply were real escorts (based on reviews here).

I'm not into Asians, meaning I like them, and I had multiple "the best experiences" in Southeast Asian countries. And another big reason is I feel Asians have a subtle discrimination towards brown people. This is based on many pedicure sessions I had over the couple of years at many different places (I have kind of a phobia when cutting my own nails, so I do pedi/mani sessions frequently). I feel like the effort is missing compared to what the reviews say. I know I should not compare pedicure to FS, but I'm afraid it would be the same. Could someone help me with where to start? (It's pretty costly to take a flight for 20 hrs to get laid... lol... and that's what I have been doing for the last couple of years.)

TIA

 

[Fiona]

Guys,

I'm a brown guy (don't judge, I'm not a stereotypical brown guy) in my mid-30s looking to get into the scene. I had reasonable experience back home but never had any here. I see some escorts advertise "No East-Indian men," though I'm not technically from India (I would look like one, though). I'm not sure how I would be perceived. I tried texting a few people from LL and another site, introducing myself. I got replies from scammers asking for a deposit, and some did not even reply. I say scammers because I have experience with how these scammers behave, and the persons who did not reply were real escorts (based on reviews here).

I'm not into Asians, meaning I like them, and I had multiple "the best experiences" in Southeast Asian countries. And another big reason is I feel Asians have a subtle discrimination towards brown people. This is based on many pedicure sessions I had over the couple of years at many different places (I have kind of a phobia when cutting my own nails, so I do pedi/mani sessions frequently). I feel like the effort is missing compared to what the reviews say. I know I should not compare pedicure to FS, but I'm afraid it would be the same. Could someone help me with where to start? (It's pretty costly to take a flight for 20 hrs to get laid... lol... and that's what I have been doing for the last couple of years.)

TIA

There’s many ladies on the island that see all cultures. And advertise here & on LL , there’s many reviews ,I’m missing the problem ?
Have you looked at websites and booked anyone properly ?

 

[Destiny.Bliss]

Many of us enjoy the company of all races, look at ads here, check out the websites, and confirm we are legit, and you should have no problem seeing a variety of beautiful women, both Indy or at an agency.

If you see an ad with no Indian men, ignore it and move on. To a local woman who is practicing racism or had a traumatic experience, it doesn't matter where you were born. If the ad simply asks for ethnicity, don't assume it's to avoid certain races. We are inviting men who could be potentially dangerous into our spaces, and simply getting a visual of a physical description can help us feel a bit more at ease and helps us envision the vibe as it's a bit different seeing a 24 year old Indian guy vs a 55 year old white guy... so maybe we pick our outfit or the music based on what we think that demographic prefers.

Age and race aren't usually factors when we are considering if we want to see someone or not. Kindness, respect, and following the booking protocol listed are usually the top 3. Are you sending a thoughtful intro text with the provider's requested information or sending "hi" or "you available"? Are you putting in the 15 minutes of research it takes to tell if someone is real or a scam? Stuff like that.

 

[TauntingTee]

What exactly are you looking for help wise?
If you see someone you like and their ad looks legit, come to perb and see if there are reviews to verify if they are real would be a good start
When you see what you like and you want to book something introduce yourself
“Hi I’m John 37 and I’m wondering if you have availability between 1-4 pm today”?
“You available” or just messages that go back and forth wastes everybody’s time.
Be clear and read their ad. Show up at the agreed time and pay the fee, have fun. It really is that simple

 

[LovesThePussy]

While many ads are scams, I've found the best place to actually go and get laid are the various spas advertised. Sometimes the girls may not be the one in the pic, and of course you can decide to change your mind if they have lied, but sometimes you can go in and ask to see the girls and choose the one you like. Also, since you mentioned your less interested in Asian girls, sometimes the spas have other girls, check the ads.

 

[shivka]

There’s many ladies on the island that see all cultures. And advertise here & on LL , there’s many reviews ,I’m missing the problem ?
Have you looked at websites and booked anyone properly ?

I have been mostly looking into ll. And thanks for tips on ads here didn't know abut them until I registered here few days ago. Thanks again

 

[shivka]

Many of us enjoy the company of all races, look at ads here, check out the websites, and confirm we are legit, and you should have no problem seeing a variety of beautiful women, both Indy or at an agency.

If you see an ad with no Indian men, ignore it and move on. To a local woman who is practicing racism or had a traumatic experience, it doesn't matter where you were born. If the ad simply asks for ethnicity, don't assume it's to avoid certain races. We are inviting men who could be potentially dangerous into our spaces, and simply getting a visual of a physical description can help us feel a bit more at ease and helps us envision the vibe as it's a bit different seeing a 24 year old Indian guy vs a 55 year old white guy... so maybe we pick our outfit or the music based on what we think that demographic prefers.

Age and race aren't usually factors when we are considering if we want to see someone or not. Kindness, respect, and following the booking protocol listed are usually the top 3. Are you sending a thoughtful intro text with the provider's requested information or sending "hi" or "you available"? Are you putting in the 15 minutes of research it takes to tell if someone is real or a scam? Stuff like that.

This makes sense.LL has too many ads with telegram accounts but now I'm sorta filtering those.

What exactly are you looking for help wise?
If you see someone you like and their ad looks legit, come to perb and see if there are reviews to verify if they are real would be a good start
When you see what you like and you want to book something introduce yourself
“Hi I’m John 37 and I’m wondering if you have availability between 1-4 pm today”?
“You available” or just messages that go back and forth wastes everybody’s time.
Be clear and read their ad. Show up at the agreed time and pay the fee, have fun. It really is that simple

Thanks , perb is helping me lately on reviews.

 

[shivka]

Many of us enjoy the company of all races, look at ads here, check out the websites, and confirm we are legit, and you should have no problem seeing a variety of beautiful women, both Indy or at an agency.

If you see an ad with no Indian men, ignore it and move on. To a local woman who is practicing racism or had a traumatic experience, it doesn't matter where you were born. If the ad simply asks for ethnicity, don't assume it's to avoid certain races. We are inviting men who could be potentially dangerous into our spaces, and simply getting a visual of a physical description can help us feel a bit more at ease and helps us envision the vibe as it's a bit different seeing a 24 year old Indian guy vs a 55 year old white guy... so maybe we pick our outfit or the music based on what we think that demographic prefers.

Age and race aren't usually factors when we are considering if we want to see someone or not. Kindness, respect, and following the booking protocol listed are usually the top 3. Are you sending a thoughtful intro text with the provider's requested information or sending "hi" or "you available"? Are you putting in the 15 minutes of research it takes to tell if someone is real or a scam? Stuff like that.

This makes lot of sense. LL has too many ads with telegram accounts but now I'm sorta filtering those. Im trying introduce myself when sending the message but I should get better 😌. Thank you

 

[TauntingTee]

This makes lot of sense. LL has too many ads with telegram accounts but now I'm sorta filtering those. Im trying introduce myself when sending the message but I should get better 😌. Thank you

Hi (providers name) I’m (your name, age) and I’m looking for (how ever long you want.. one hour massage or FS session) today. I’m available from (what ever time you are Available) are you free during this time ?

“Hi I’m John 37. I’m looking for a one hour massage today between 1-4 today. Are you available? “

If you give an introduction it goes a long way vs just saying hi u avail?

 

[Fiona]

And if her ads says 12-24 hrs notice required don’t ask for “last min “ after that happens a few times we stop responding , I do anyway, good luck !

 

[RobBC]

Hi (providers name) I’m (your name, age) and I’m looking for (how ever long you want.. one hour massage or FS session) today. I’m available from (what ever time you are Available) are you free during this time ?

“Hi I’m John 37. I’m looking for a one hour massage today between 1-4 today. Are you available? “

I like these, wondering what do you say when you're inquiring for more info rather than "I want to book right now"? Like often I'll see an ad, think "hmm, I'm intrigued and would like to know more about rates/services/etc". I usually do something like "Hi <name> I saw your ad on Leolist, wondering about if <some service> is allowed and what a donation might look like?"

With that I've gotten responses from "yes absolutely <some service> is allowed, and a donation for hh is <hh rate>, 45 <45 min rate>, hr <hour rate>, would you like to book something?" to "no, don't message me again", to "what time you want to come?" with no answer to my questions to no response at all.