Advice on lasting long

[TOMMYG]

I have had the same problem, and I still do but now I can last the whole hour if I want to.

This is an absolute must. You must find a hot and empathetic provider and tell her your problem. She will have great intuition and will recognize when you are close and she will stop without you needing telling her. It takes practice, the more you see her the better she gets. I recommend Chanel Fox. She is amazing.

You have to relax and not think about or stress about busting early. The more you think about it the more stressful you will get. The more you stress about it the sooner you will bust. Just relax and enjoy the moment and give her cues when you are close. This is a two person sport and you need a good cooperative empathetic partner.

Get lots of practice with the same provider if possible till you get better and better. Once you get better at it you will able to see others and last as long as you want.

My regular always laughs at me for having perfect timing every time because I always bust at the 55 minute mark without even looking at the clock. Once a while I still have accidents early. Hope that helps.

 

[thorthedemigod69]

I have had the same problem, and I still do but now I can last the whole hour if I want to.

This is an absolute must. You must find a hot and empathetic provider and tell her your problem. She will have great intuition and will recognize when you are close and she will stop without you needing telling her. It takes practice, the more you see her the better she gets. I recommend Chanel Fox. She is amazing.

You have to relax and not think about or stress about busting early. The more you think about it the more stressful you will get. The more you stress about it the sooner you will bust. Just relax and enjoy the moment and give her cues when you are close. This is a two person sport and you need a good cooperative empathetic partner.

Get lots of practice with the same provider if possible till you get better and better. Once you get better at it you will able to see others and last as long as you want.

My regular always laughs at me for having perfect timing every time because I always bust at the 55 minute mark without even looking at the clock. Once a while I still have accidents early. Hope that helps.

This is true, I was with Ammbar @PDC and I told her to go slow because I didn’t wanna cum soon and she rode me CG very slowly without making me go soft, One of the best experiences I had.
She is very chill and non judgmental, OP definitely give her a try, talk to her before starting anything and she will take care of you.

 

[KAM369]

This is true, I was with Ammbar @PDC and I told her to go slow because I didn’t wanna cum soon and she rode me CG very slowly without making me go soft, One of the best experiences I had.
She is very chill and non judgmental, OP definitely give her a try, talk to her before starting anything and she will take care of you.

What is PDC? This is a Victoria thread if you're in Vancouver

 

[thorthedemigod69]

What is PDC? This is a Victoria thread if you're in Vancouver

My bad did not realize that.

 

[Janejigar1234]

I can give you some tips. I used to last about 3-10 mins when I was in my teens. But, now I’m in my early 30s and I the longest I lasted is 2hrs (excluding foreplay). So, don’t worry, it is def possible to improve it.

You might be busting too fast because you are a healthy horny dude with a oversensitive banana. I think these 3 things really helped:

1. Masterbate: stroke yourself in different angles, intensity, and speed and practice edging. You can practice edging by letting go of your grip on your banana before you cum and stop entirely for a bit. And then repeat.
2. Have more sex: now, you’re going to practice edging, but with an actual person. When you are fucking and your about to cum, here are some things you can do to practice real life edging.
i) stop entirely and pull out and make out or finger her until you calm down
ii) switch position, speed, pacing, deepness. You can also switch angles when you’re about to bust.
iii) think about something completely unrelated
And one good tip on edging is: sometimes the girl might be confused why you’re stopping or slowing down and it makes you feel anxious, say something in the lines of you look so good you’re making me wanna cum now but I don’t want this to stop.
3. Workout: especially legs!!! Do heavy weights, and I’d say squats and hip thrusts really increased my stamina. I also do kegal exercises and now my banana can just move on its own. Sometimes after I insert, I do kegal exercise inside her and she goes crazy and wet herself.

Question for you:
Do you cum that fast even when you masterbate? Or is it only when you’re having sex?

No when i masturbate , i last longer like even an hour or two can go masturbating

 

[Jenna PDC]

What is PDC? This is a Victoria thread if you're in Vancouver

Hi! PDC is Pink Diamond Collective- we are all independent providers no agency. We work within the collective- we have a reputation as being safe discrete providers. As independents you're speaking to us directly no phone handler. I'll attach the website link that shows who is in the collective

http://pinkdiamond604.ca/

 

[Dannycali]

From my experience, few things work for me..
1. Jerk off before you go to Sp like 45 minutes before..
2 certain position like standing at the corner of the bed while having her in bed and bending your knees out helps..
3. You can enjoy more foreplay and less of action too..

 

[Fire And Ice]

The best advice I can give is - Durex Performax condoms. I too would get the urge to shoot my load way earlier than I wanted. I'd slow the pace, think nasty thought, change positions, whatever, but once I got the urge to cum, it was game over. Durex Performax have a numbing agent inside the condom that is just enough numbness to take the edge off and give you the power to keep pumping like a champ. Highly recommended.

 

[Bunghole1]

Get a standing bj and focus on what she is seeing. That should help you out.



The real trick is turning your sessions into a game of how far you can last by spreading your thoughts beyond your instant thoughts. Instead of getting lost on your worries of finishing fast focus on the session as a whole. Instead of mentally racing to the finish line right away start with a nice build up of foreplay. Learn to relax, become one with time and enjoy the full journey without all the extra mental pressures.
If your session goes straight to the last inning at the start you are moving to fast. I have a hard time releasing quick because I focus on building up a big
crescendo finish by exploring and enjoying all the different experiences instead of putting all my mental thoughts into one moment. All the sensations in my session add to the big final count down. If I feel close to finishing I slow down the tempo or change it up. Unless you have multiple shots on goal you will be left feeling shafted if you finish quick. Take the sensory overload hype out of the experience and save the memories for later. It might not happen right away but slowly by slowly you will see a a big difference. Become one with your cock and one with the clock.

 

[NEWISHADVENTURE]

we all have been there. A wise man once told me it's like a horse race whoever cums first wins