More sugarbabies showing up since school started?

[robi]

Has anybody found a bump in the number of girls posting on these sites since school started?

Just a couple of tips for guys looking at these sites.

- search by recently active. Some girls create accounts and leave after a few days
- avoid anybody who is looking for "virtual/online/not ready to meet" - some are actually really new, but a lot are just looking to sell pictures
- If they ask for money upfront or eTransfers, avoid them. I've done Uber trips for people to come to my area, but that's the limit.
- avoid "hooker language". Most of these girls will think you see escorts if you are talking about CIM, BBBJ, etc. Start off with how you'd speak to a regular girl you met on Bumble or Tinder.
- 20-28 is the sweet spot for sugar babies. Not to say there aren't some fun ladies you'll meet outside, but in my experience, older ones can be jaded, and younger ones are flakey (or worse, lying about their age)
- Try not to piss the ladies off, especially on Seeking. They can get your account banned if the moderator feels like it. Just ignore it and move on.

I have some leads if anybody wants them (I don't want to post publically as they're not escorts). This blog also has some good points: https://www.sugardaddysuccess.com/sugardaddy-tips-for-2020/

 

[angry anderson]

Oh to be young.

 

[robi]

Oh to be young.

Yes, I can still kind of remember being done Uni and realizing in August, NO I don't have to worry about picking classes or anything.

Also, another reason I stick to over-20s for sugar dating, too weird for me be going for dinner with someone who looks to me like a high school girl.

 

[YaletownFuckboi]

Makes sense there would be more when school starts.

Those are great tips for navigating sugar sites.

I would add to always do an unpaid short meet and great (just quick coffee) before starting any sort of arrangements. only girls who turn this down are usually the escorts or girls lying about their appearance/age. but keep it short (like 10-20 minutes)

Id almost lower the sweet spot age-wise , they start getting jaded around 25-26 usually, ive had some good 18-19 year old ones but they are a bit more flakey, dont expect them to be available for plans on a friday / saturday or any "party" night of the week .

Love me some sugar babies

 

[robi]

Makes sense there would be more when school starts.

Those are great tips for navigating sugar sites.

I would add to always do an unpaid short meet and great (just quick coffee) before starting any sort of arrangements. only girls who turn this down are usually the escorts or girls lying about their appearance/age. but keep it short (like 10-20 minutes)

Id almost lower the sweet spot age-wise , they start getting jaded around 25-26 usually, ive had some good 18-19 year old ones but they are a bit more flakey, dont expect them to be available for plans on a friday / saturday or any "party" night of the week .

Love me some sugar babies

Yes, the meet and greet is definitely important to weed out the timewasters. I don't mind meeting them somewhere that's closer to them too.

Because sometimes they're reluctant to just meet up for coffee, I usually say I'm up for more if things go well, implying they could leave with more than just a free coffee if they want to. Is that what you do usually too?

There definitely are some jaded 26-year-olds, I try and avoid the ones who seem a bit too full of themselves or have too many filtered photos posing like they're expecting to be dating Drake any day now

 

[maniacalone]

Makes sense there would be more when school starts.

Those are great tips for navigating sugar sites.

I would add to always do an unpaid short meet and great (just quick coffee) before starting any sort of arrangements. only girls who turn this down are usually the escorts or girls lying about their appearance/age. but keep it short (like 10-20 minutes)

Id almost lower the sweet spot age-wise , they start getting jaded around 25-26 usually, ive had some good 18-19 year old ones but they are a bit more flakey, dont expect them to be available for plans on a friday / saturday or any "party" night of the week .

Love me some sugar babies

Surging number of new escort ads on Leolist and Tryst too. Leading economic indicator?

 

[GeeBeeP]

Has anybody found a bump in the number of girls posting on these sites since school started?

Just a couple of tips for guys looking at these sites.

- search by recently active. Some girls create accounts and leave after a few days
- avoid anybody who is looking for "virtual/online/not ready to meet" - some are actually really new, but a lot are just looking to sell pictures
- If they ask for money upfront or eTransfers, avoid them. I've done Uber trips for people to come to my area, but that's the limit.
- avoid "hooker language". Most of these girls will think you see escorts if you are talking about CIM, BBBJ, etc. Start off with how you'd speak to a regular girl you met on Bumble or Tinder.
- 20-28 is the sweet spot for sugar babies. Not to say there aren't some fun ladies you'll meet outside, but in my experience, older ones can be jaded, and younger ones are flakey (or worse, lying about their age)
- Try not to piss the ladies off, especially on Seeking. They can get your account banned if the moderator feels like it. Just ignore it and move on.

I have some leads if anybody wants them (I don't want to post publically as they're not escorts). This blog also has some good points: https://www.sugardaddysuccess.com/sugardaddy-tips-for-2020/

All good tips.

I’ll go further about getting banned on Seeking. Any mention of $$ can get a girl banned instantly, or very quickly. I’ve been in a conversation twice where girls have told me a number and the conversation disappeared within minutes, along with their profiles. Girls who’ve been on a while and read the rules know not to do this.

I’ve found my age sweet spot for success to be late 20’s - early 30’s, if you’re hoping for a longer term thing and want some actual conversation / pillow talk. Find the right fit woman of this age and the sex can be great, she’s mature and knows how this all works, and wants something stable.

Not to say that I don’t dip my toe into the uni age bracket but the flakes and scammers live in this group as well, looking for horny older guys to fleece. Definitely more leg work involved with younger SB’s.

 

[Once you go black]

while I have been noticing alot of new ads on leolist, I dunno if many of them are real, alot of "outcall only". havent noticed too many new ones on tryst. Could be wrong tho.
The amount of sugar babies in vancouver seems pretty constant over the last few years if not steadily rising, I think its becoming more and more popular amongst younger girls, im sure the economics plays a role too, but its also heavily promoted by popular female influencers.

Historically Vancouver has been the sugar baby / sugar daddy capital of N America for several yrs now . That’s not to say we have more than New York or L.A , but per capita , for our population, we have the highest percentage of our population sugar babying .

There were some serious plans to do a reality show in Vancouver called Sugar Babies around 2012-2014 ish but it fell through due to fear it was too risky for a show at the time .

 

[Deltaguy]

Finding decent sugar babies in this city is so hit and miss. Had to give up on SA due to pretty much everyone being nothing like their photos. Any other recommendations on where do find one?

 

[robi]

Finding decent sugar babies in this city is so hit and miss. Had to give up on SA due to pretty much everyone being nothing like their photos. Any other recommendations on where do find one?

Personally, I avoid profiles that have only face or close-in photos. Prefer ones that are full-body.

Two sites: Secret Benefits has a video verification. A lot of times the girls look a lot different in their videos than in their filtered photos. Also, you get to hear their voice.
SugardaddyMeet is another site that's like Seeking. They're smaller, but they seem to be a bit looser on moderation too.
The nice thing is all of these are free to join and look at and compare pictures; it only costs when you want to start messaging.

I usually try to get their contact info as soon as it seems like they're serious and move things to Snap. It's easier to trade pictures there.

Instagram seems to be a way too, haven't used it myself though

You'd be surprised to find out how many girls are willing to meet for money on Instagram. Just hit them up asking if they'd be interested in a sugar daddy and you'll get a response about half of the time. I'm talking about girls with 1 k followers though nothing too crazy haha.

>>So what's a good opening Iine?

I honestly just ask if they are looking for a sugar daddy. You'd be surprised at how many girls will say yes. I get a decent amount of responses and that's with a burner account that has no pictures on it. Can't imagine the responses I'd get if I would post actually pictures of myself at lavish places and traveling.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/sho...edia-hookups&p=6281046&viewfull=1#post6281046

 

[rottweiler]

very good info.

I agree with the instagram part, its shocking how many girls are down if you just ask haha. Ive got a burner IG to proposition them for sugaring. high success rate.
also have my personal instagram were I flex alot of lifestyle, it is funny cause flexing money works better than being a good looking guy with muscles, however you should always strive for both, on my personal IG im alot more subtle, usually dont straight up ask them, sometimes imply it with lines like "I wanna spoil you" but be careful with that one you dont want to get exposed haha, always dm in vanish mode. with some girls you can find their snapchat using their IG name which works well also.
also works well on dating apps, especially hinge.
have also had success propositioning a few local onlyfans girls, you just gotta smart about it because OF flags messages asking to meet up etc.

Your parents must be so proud.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Your parents must be so proud.

Whether or not his parents are proud, I'm proud of him. He is carrying on the highly respectable tradition of the HUNT. Us bonafide old guys also partake but this lad is energetic about it!!

 

[rottweiler]

Whether or not his parents are proud, I'm proud of him. He is carrying on the highly respectable tradition of the HUNT. Us bonafide old guys also partake but this lad is energetic about it!!

"Highly respectable". Uh-huh.

 

[rottweiler]

Nothing respectable about treating women like prey, but hey, if that makes you proud....

 

[reader69]

Nothing respectable about treating women like prey, but hey, if that makes you proud....

It’s not a prey if it’s mutual

 

[Forum mod]

Ok, well once again, sugar baby talk is off the rails. This is an escort review board.