Escorts are ladies, treat them so

[Lite m up]

This mostly goes out to the piece of shit that wrecked my visit with one of the sweetest kindest most beautiful lady I've met at an agency. Ive heard some guys that go to see our ladies need to show some fricken respect..trust me guy I hope you read this you know who you are.. Carma's a bitch!! She being a total sweetheart and truly enjoys our time didn't cancel on me. But I could sense and tell that she wasn't enjoying it as the guy last night borderline assaulted her.
Truly wrecked my visit as I felt bad and stopped.ya that's right guys..I paid for a hour didn't finish and would never asked for a discount or money back.Would any of you?? Probably not.
Any one that does anything less than a hr you matters well stay home and pull on it!!
We all forget what these ladies do for ALL of us! Do you guys not care to have a actual connection with them..do you not care that they actually enjoy the visit?
I'm no top 100 hottest guy by anymeans but I treat her like she's my first every time.
Make them laugh make them feel safe!
make them comfortable..3 golden rule..
I don't know about you but I'd rather have her actually cum instead of fake mouns hoping you'll be done quick.
Why push the boundaries!!! For what reason do you see a SP? Cause you want to feel skin against yours.you all bitch about what this costs what that cost..
Must we forget that without these lovely ladies the alternative isn't as great.
This isn't directed to a vast majority of us.but there's alot..we use this board to find out the good from bad.well there's some of us that a wrecking it for others too.A beautiful lady that is sharing herself with us and now has had a horrible experience that could wreck it for the rest of us..it's 2022 boys shits not cheap.
Pay the high dollar if you want the true gfe with a beautiful lady or save you cash and head down to rockbay.

 

[TOMMYG]

This mostly goes out to the piece of shit that wrecked my visit with one of the sweetest kindest most beautiful lady I've met at an agency. Ive heard some guys that go to see our ladies need to show some fricken respect..trust me guy I hope you read this you know who you are.. Carma's a bitch!! She being a total sweetheart and truly enjoys our time didn't cancel on me. But I could sense and tell that she wasn't enjoying it as the guy last night borderline assaulted her.
Truly wrecked my visit as I felt bad and stopped.ya that's right guys..I paid for a hour didn't finish and would never asked for a discount or money back.Would any of you?? Probably not.
Any one that does anything less than a hr you matters well stay home and pull on it!!
We all forget what these ladies do for ALL of us! Do you guys not care to have a actual connection with them..do you not care that they actually enjoy the visit?
I'm no top 100 hottest guy by anymeans but I treat her like she's my first every time.
Make them laugh make them feel safe!
make them comfortable..3 golden rule..
I don't know about you but I'd rather have her actually cum instead of fake mouns hoping you'll be done quick.
Why push the boundaries!!! For what reason do you see a SP? Cause you want to feel skin against yours.you all bitch about what this costs what that cost..
Must we forget that without these lovely ladies the alternative isn't as great.
This isn't directed to a vast majority of us.but there's alot..we use this board to find out the good from bad.well there's some of us that a wrecking it for others too.A beautiful lady that is sharing herself with us and now has had a horrible experience that could wreck it for the rest of us..it's 2022 boys shits not cheap.
Pay the high dollar if you want the true gfe with a beautiful lady or save you cash and head down to rockbay.

They should have a review section for SPs so they know who the bad actors are and also who the goods ones are. This will change client bahaviour and makes everything more fun for both. AirBNB does this so why not SPs? If they can't do it here they should make a forum just for them to weed out bad clients.

 

[Bridge]

They should have a review section for SPs so they know who the bad actors are and also who the goods ones are. This will change client bahaviour and makes everything more fun for both. AirBNB does this so why not SPs? If they can't do it here they should make a forum just for them to weed out bad clients.

I definitely agree with you, although there is probably an informal network operating already

 

[Fiona]

They should have a review section for SPs so they know who the bad actors are and also who the goods ones are. This will change client bahaviour and makes everything more fun for both. AirBNB does this so why not SPs? If they can't do it here they should make a forum just for them to weed out bad clients.

We do , and nothing can be truly safe to post bad dates on as many girls share private info posted there with close clients & partners etc & it becomes even more dangerous. No easy answer .
Men need to be better humans & sex workers need to have strength & support to feel confident to get that man out of your life/incall as fast and safely as possible . Monsters are lurking everywhere, you wouldn’t believe the behaviour of even well liked Perb members. It’s a dangerous business, always has been , always will be .

 

[happymoments]

We do , and nothing can be truly safe to post bad dates on as many girls share private info posted there with close clients & partners etc & it becomes even more dangerous. No easy answer .
Men need to be better humans & sex workers need to have strength & support to feel confident to get that man out of your life/incall as fast and safely as possible . Monsters are lurking everywhere, you wouldn’t believe the behaviour of even well liked Perb members. It’s a dangerous business, always has been , always will be .

That's sad to hear but I did read about how Paid members have access to their own forum and support here on PERB so i'm glad its available for you all. I understand it is costly and the dangers but as OP mentions, its sad how some pple treat others but unfortunately just like a quote from Game of Thrones, Death will always win, but it doesnt mean we stop trying. Endless battles but just like unemployment and class of people, some really are just sub human scum level and we can only hope the ladies dont fall victim to these class of people, including the well liked Perb Members who are gas lighting ...

Stay safe and OP's right, 3 golden rules, of Making her feel safe, comfortable and laughing also apply to a real relationship, maybe that's why some of the guys need to partake in these adventures bcuz they forgotten those golden teachings

 

[EliseAndrews]

We absolutely do have an SP only board where we can share info. PEERS has bad date info they regularly make available, plus within agencies, consortiums and friends in the business we all share info about bad dates.

I have never in my career heard of any sp's who share this info with the gentlemen in question, like not even once!... but I guess it takes all kinds!

In ten years in and out of this industry, I have only ever had 1 bad date. That was very early in my career as an escort.

With strict screening processes, a deposit requirement, reference checking with other sp"s and firm security measures in place, I feel extremely confident meeting my gentlemen for intimate rendezvous'.

99.99% of all my dates have been absolutely wonderful! That .01% I encountered certainly is not the majority.

Tbere is always danger, but with the sharing of bad date info, strict screening, reference checks from other sp's and security measures etc. It is very possible to keep the monsters at bay.

 

[Bridge]

Even with screening some assholes tend to slip through the cracks. Nearly got r*ped just last week by a client who didn’t like hearing the word no. And people tell me my rates are too high…

So sorry to hear that. Hopefully the information about that client is spread around although that may be small comfort for you.

 

[altay]

Escorts are ladies, treat them nice
CLIENTS ARE gentlemen, treat them nice.
Treat each other nice, it is service for money, and business, but some human connection or lots of connection is a great plus in this biz
Yes , it is nice when business is organized into nice settings, but that's why, there is appropriate fee for that. There is under the bridge service, I am sure, for a much smaller fee. And there is a 5k an hr level, when escorts have PhD degrees, look star level etc there is biz at each level, and there is a fee, and yes, demand brings proposals and vice versa. I don't understand irrational excitement of the OP.
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[Lite m up]

Escorts are ladies, treat them nice
CLIENTS ARE gentlemen, treat them nice.
Treat each other nice, it is service for money, and business, but some human connection or lots of connection is a great plus in this biz
Yes , it is nice when business is organized into nice settings, but that's why, there is appropriate fee for that. There is under the bridge service, I am sure, for a much smaller fee. And there is a 5k an hr level, when escorts have PhD degrees, look star level etc there is biz at each level, and there is a fee, and yes, demand brings proposals and vice versa. I don't understand irrational excitement of the OP.
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Yup, I'm sure you are a gentleman..but I don't really know you. It was directed to the one's who aren't.
Just as you've seen ladies and they didn't provide the service you wanted.. well maybe!! She was just visited by this such person. It's a risky business they're in... I really don't get you? Just cause you've paid them your expecting them to

Escorts are ladies, treat them nice
CLIENTS ARE gentlemen, treat them nice.
Treat each other nice, it is service for money, and business, but some human connection or lots of connection is a great plus in this biz
Yes , it is nice when business is organized into nice settings, but that's why, there is appropriate fee for that. There is under the bridge service, I am sure, for a much smaller fee. And there is a 5k an hr level, when escorts have PhD degrees, look star level etc there is biz at each level, and there is a fee, and yes, demand brings proposals and vice versa. I don't understand irrational excitement of the OP.
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So you think just cause you threw some money at a lady she obligated to provide what ever you want. You wonder why ?? It's cause there is a large group of guys not being respectful.. then you walk in next and don't get the service you want and they have to pay for it..guy walks in for a 30 min pushes the restrictions and actually offend her.. what is he to expect in a 30 min visit?!!
Her to be oh thank you your so greysous.. here let me paw all over you like she actually owes you something..she doesn't.. your never going to get much if your mentality is you owe me service cause I paid you! How many sp can you say actually like seeing you on a regular basis.
The post was mostly directed to the guy that isn't a gentleman and the others that aren't.
That if you want a corresponding visit then put some effort into it. Just cause the agencies place what you get for said dollar.. it's still ymmv and they don't owe you shit.. your donation is for the room and the lady. If she provides than it's cause she let's you not cause she owes you...

 

[leidseplein]

They should have a review section for SPs so they know who the bad actors are and also who the goods ones are. This will change client bahaviour and makes everything more fun for both. AirBNB does this so why not SPs? If they can't do it here they should make a forum just for them to weed out bad clients.

Second this, we do need a review platform that goes both ways.

 

[altay]

Yup, I'm sure you are a gentleman..but I don't really know you. It was directed to the one's who aren't.
Just as you've seen ladies and they didn't provide the service you wanted.. well maybe!! She was just visited by this such person. It's a risky business they're in... I really don't get you? Just cause you've paid them your expecting them to


So you think just cause you threw some money at a lady she obligated to provide what ever you want. You wonder why ?? It's cause there is a large group of guys not being respectful.. then you walk in next and don't get the service you want and they have to pay for it..guy walks in for a 30 min pushes the restrictions and actually offend her.. what is he to expect in a 30 min visit?!!
Her to be oh thank you your so greysous.. here let me paw all over you like she actually owes you something..she doesn't.. your never going to get much if your mentality is you owe me service cause I paid you! How many sp can you say actually like seeing you on a regular basis.
The post was mostly directed to the guy that isn't a gentleman and the others that aren't.
That if you want a corresponding visit then put some effort into it. Just cause the agencies place what you get for said dollar.. it's still ymmv and they don't owe you shit.. your donation is for the room and the lady. If she provides than it's cause she let's you not cause she owes you...

nobody owes nobody, it is a money-service road, which may be more exciting if both parties respect or even like each other done deal. You may, of course, even romanticize this as you are. Your choice or maybe even experience. Some don't romanticize and take a practical approach of a client and a SP relationship. Some push the boundaries for whatever reason, which breaches the contract, essentially. I just saw a bit of a knee bending approach in your OP and how deeply thankful we should all be to SPs and agencies to the degree of rear end kissing... maybe I am wrong and misinterpreting your screaming deep appreciation. Yes I recognize the effort of some SPs and specific agencies, I don't expect them to kiss my ass, but I am not doing it either. Mutual respect and benefit. Done discussion for me.

 

[altay]

Second this, we do need a review platform that goes both ways.

It will be interesting, for sure, but how it will end is: this biz will start loozing clients, cos there is no a single client-service provider biz that has such a thing you are proposing, do you have dentists or hair saloons or vehicle repair services reviewing their clients in public? Nope, they don't.. so here is the answer for you. And I am confident my reviews will be good, not coz I am very modestly unmodest narciss, which I am of coz ; I am just telling you how practical this approach is and where it will end.

But, for the clients what can you rate? Clean yes no. Respectful yes no. Gentle yes no. Sensual yes no. And then for the SPs you will end up with same of the above and commenting on how fresh or not fresh or how cute or not cute or how enthusiastic or not is quite subjective...

But then many clients would want an option to turn away if they don't like how the lady looks based on reality versus photoshoped or other photographer tricks applied when taking the photos.... besides, you never see the face before, so you often risk with blind booking, so blind prebooking will become quite an issue for the agencies which like photographer tricks, but yet, want to rate the client. So all of the above won't work.... in the end.

Coz this type of service is not fully advertised and open what is proposed to the client, so client faces many unknowns when booking first time, this is not taken into consideration at all... how cute, how beautiful, how physically attractive, will she be enthusiastic with you specifically, will you like her physically, personality fit etc.... yes , for the money paid you expect, clean, friendly, respectful, safe.... that's it, same for the SP, they expect you to be clean, safe, respectful, the rest is unknown for them... but since they are in the service industry, they never expected to know who the new client is and how the looks are.... given the nature of this industry, clients have to deal with the same first encounter unknowns.... and some get quite frustrated with photographer tricks, often frank lack of any effort etc. The nature of this biz, hard to find a good match

 

[Lite m up]

It will be interesting, for sure, but how it will end is: this biz will start loozing clients, cos there is no a single client-service provider biz that has such a thing you are proposing, do you have dentists or hair saloons or vehicle repair services reviewing their clients in public? Nope, they don't.. so here is the answer for you. And I am confident my reviews will be good, not coz I am very modestly unmodest narciss, which I am of coz ; I am just telling you how practical this approach is and where it will end.

Clearly I stuck a nerve with you..that's right It might just that..as why I was saying the alternative isn't good. We get it your well off and like to see ever lady out there. Giving your experience and if she worthy of your time and money.what the hell are you talking about detists and mechanics for.they don't do what your asking your service provider to do..ya we get it your like fine wine.but the guy that's like beer may not get the attention that he wanted .maybe after she had to choke down your sour grapes just isn't into belting down a beer.once again just cause you throw some cash down doesn't initial you to be owed nothing more than what she's feeling.
I don't think you could do what they do on a daily.
And provide the service you so demand..
. the ones that take some of my word to point Well they'll start to have a great time with a lady.
Your reviews most don't read anymore as it's just bla bla bla she wasn't this and didn'tdo that. Oh ya right you paid her she should treat you like some king of something. Sure king of pompous...sure some like you and show you so.some don't care if they see you again too.
All are excited to see me again and every visit gets better than the last..
The original post started that yes they are ladies treat them so..obviously your having a hard time wrapping your head around that.

 

[altay]

Clearly I stuck a nerve with you..that's right It might just that..as why I was saying the alternative isn't good. We get it your well off and like to see ever lady out there. Giving your experience and if she worthy of your time and money.what the hell are you talking about detists and mechanics for.they don't do what your asking your service provider to do..ya we get it your like fine wine.but the guy that's like beer may not get the attention that he wanted .maybe after she had to choke down your sour grapes just isn't into belting down a beer.once again just cause you throw some cash down doesn't initial you to be owed nothing more than what she's feeling.
I don't think you could do what they do on a daily.
And provide the service you so demand..
. the ones that take some of my word to point Well they'll start to have a great time with a lady.
Your reviews most don't read anymore as it's just bla bla bla she wasn't this and didn'tdo that. Oh ya right you paid her she should treat you like some king of something. Sure king of pompous...sure some like you and show you so.some don't care if they see you again too.
All are excited to see me again and every visit gets better than the last..
The original post started that yes they are ladies treat them so..obviously your having a hard time wrapping your head around that.

Whatever man. You are not recognizing the other side of the medal. Yet I agree with treating ladies nice etc. Good luck with self humiliation and rear end nosing. Next time just throw cash in mail and send it to SPs, just because they exist, that would be the best final move for you.
I was trying to tell you that client-SP relationship is based on money and quite a specific service provided for the money. Not SP looking at me for money or being in the same room for money, and me being grateful for just that, unless this is what you are after. Not treating me like a king etc, unless we treat each other as king-queen.

This is a contract based relationship, where client and SP are expected to be clean, safe, respectful to each other and client is paying and SP is expected to be age and look as advertised, not 5 years older and looking 10 years older, SP is expected of being cute by most men of this planet standards if this is what SP is claiming, i.e. being cute etc.

You are implying a GF-BF relationship where SP owes you nothing yet you are paying for everything. Nope, it is a service biz based on the above contract conditions, yes, you may have a vibe, click and even love, but that's beyond the initial contract.

Anyways, I am done with delivering my points to you. Not even reading this post of yours, ignoring you from now on.

 

[Lite m up]

Whatever man. You are not recognizing the other side of the medal. Yet I agree with treating ladies nice etc. Good luck with self humiliation and rear end nosing. Next time just throw cash in mail and send it to SPs, just because they exist, that would be the best final move for you. I am done with delivering my points to you. Not even reading this post of yours, ignoring you from now on.

Perfect 👍
Stay off my posts your thoughts mean nothing.
Mechanics screw over everyone btw and no kisses either. Get so.e skills fix it yourself haha

 

[Forum mod]

That's about enough of this. Be nice to providers. There are several resources for ladies to share info about bad dates. Thread closed.