Vanessa @ SU

[Ftfe]

Heres the thing - Ive met a few escorts in my day. Often when entering their workspace, I have noticed myself feeling analogous to an obstacle; just another pile of paperwork to be filed through and discarded as soon as obligations expire.

My time with Vanessa was nothing of the sort.

She expressed that others may find her hard to read and such was the case with me at first. Whats more, I even requested she come in a half hour early. I entered SU not quite sure what to expect. Vanessa greeted me with arresting eye contact. Due to my own social anxiety I immediately started to feel myself becoming the aformentioned paperwork.

I booked 2 hours with her. I was about to walk away, until I saw her demeanor falter when I asked where the shower was.

From that point on, I perceived her to grow immediately more comfortable.

Our session started with about 45 minutes of talking and getting to know each other. I wouldnt have wanted it any other way. I came to understand what the whole point of a "girlfriend" experience was.

I believe she felt that I didnt intend to use her, but to experience her. (Is my language too flowery? My apologies.)

To sum up, Vanessa treated me with the same gentleness, care and respect that all my serious girlfriends had shown me.

Without divulging too much, I have had some traumatic sexual encounters in my day. I made the point of saying that straight up. To Vanessa's absolute credit, she listened to me.

I felt cared for, respected, enjoyed and admired. I also felt like I could make her feel the same way. I cannot say I have experienced that feeling with such abandon with an escort.

For that reason alone, if you are looking for the sweetest woman to spend some time with, please do so with the utmost respect.

Vanessa is relatively new to the business (~2 months) but nurtures like a pro. Not to mention her exquisite mouth, her adorable freckles and how she straddled my hungry tongue like a motorcycle (a passion of hers - bikes, that is) are all indicative of how giving she is as a provider.

She made me feel safe, respected and loved. I truly hope those who decide to spend time with her treat her very well.
I would happily spend a 2 hour session just going for coffee and asking about the book she is writing.

Any questions? You may dm me

 

[SDK]

The fact that you twice stressed the need to treat the lady well, means you don't feel some clients treat SP's respectfully. You are right there. Some see them as a product they paid for and can treat as such; married professionals of every race are as much culprits as some trucker that walks in. This particular business, as opposed to say, therapeutic massage, will always attract degenerates like that, until the end of time. It is up to the girl to stop sessions with disrespectful clients - but then she may incur the wrath of the owner if the client complains. It's a tricky situation. Indies with good safety precautions have it best. One Caucasian lady at a massage studio once told me, "you take the good with the bad." It's a shame that she has to take the latter.

 

[Ftfe]

The fact that you twice stressed the need to treat the lady well, means you don't feel some clients treat SP's respectfully. You are right there. Some see them as a product they paid for and can treat as such; married professionals of every race are as much culprits as some trucker that walks in. This particular business, as opposed to say, therapeutic massage, will always attract degenerates like that, until the end of time. It is up to the girl to stop sessions with disrespectful clients - but then she may incur the wrath of the owner if the client complains. It's a tricky situation. Indies with good safety precautions have it best. One Caucasian lady at a massage studio once told me, "you take the good with the bad." It's a shame that she has to take the latter.

At the beginning of every session I will always take a shower and brush my teeth. More than a handful of providers have gone out of their way to explicitly thank me for what I thought was common courtesy. Still boggles my mind, but "boys will be boys" I guess

 

[SDK]

At the beginning of every session I will always take a shower and brush my teeth. More than a handful of providers have gone out of their way to explicitly thank me for what I thought was common courtesy. Still boggles my mind, but "boys will be boys" I guess

I'm always clean and clean-shaven, even if I'm spending the whole day at home - which is often, as I work from home. It's second nature to me, like breathing. Unfortunately it's not like that for some people. A hot white girl at a massage studio in Edmonton told me she asked a client to take a good shower before the session, and walked in on him and he seemed to be soaping up. She said he was still stinky in some areas, since if you don't shower thoroughly every single day, stink gets in your "pores" (her words) and it's hard to get out. In Victoria I was never asked to shower by either agency girl or Indy, and a few times girls have told me how clean and well-groomed I was, even during evening sessions. In Edmonton, all studios have showers in every room and they always ask you to take a quick one before the session. It's not about "boys will be boys", it's about "some boys will be stinky", and I feel sorry for girls who have to service them.

 

[80watts]

I would contribute, you should wear fresh washed clothes too. If you are freshly showered but your clothes haven't been washed in days....

If asked if you want a shower, take a shower, concentrate on armpits, crotch and ass areas- well soaped then rinse; and mouthwash too.

Some ladies might prefer the smell of the soap they have provided.

Funny but most men that cheat on their wives, worry about lipstick, or emails or phone records, but usually its the smell..... It seems women smell things better than men...