Ever fall in love with a SP?
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Yes, I have fallen in love with SP's. In fact I have done it about 150 times ever since I started. This is how it works, I enter the incall, and most of the time, I fall in love with them. After 60 minutes, I am out of there and leave the love part as soon as the door closes behind me. Only lovely memories of seeing some of the most gorgeous women stay....... till I am with the next one a few days/weeks/month later.
Over the years, I have been able to connect with a few of them and hence I repeated them a lot. Am I attracted to them? Of course. But then I get attracted to every nice looking girl I see everyday.
May be I am old enough to understand how love works. I know the difference between being attracted to and being in love. Love takes a long time to develop and that's probably how it should be. Besides what is the point of me being in love with one of them if it is not reciprocated? I am paying someone to spend an hour with me so it is a business transaction. You respect them as a fellow human, respect their privacy and boundaries and move on.
Over the years, I have been able to connect with a few of them and hence I repeated them a lot. Am I attracted to them? Of course. But then I get attracted to every nice looking girl I see everyday.
May be I am old enough to understand how love works. I know the difference between being attracted to and being in love. Love takes a long time to develop and that's probably how it should be. Besides what is the point of me being in love with one of them if it is not reciprocated? I am paying someone to spend an hour with me so it is a business transaction. You respect them as a fellow human, respect their privacy and boundaries and move on.
I fell in love and still love a certain Filipina , if you know me you know who.
I know she’ll never be mine for many reasons but she knows I’m available 24/7 for her and that I’ll always be family to her.
She’s switching gears in life and I’ll support whatever she decides to do
I know she’ll never be mine for many reasons but she knows I’m available 24/7 for her and that I’ll always be family to her.
She’s switching gears in life and I’ll support whatever she decides to do
I loved this native one who used to work at that big condo surrey central tower
I tried to get her to hang out off the clock both she wasn’t having it , she said she quit and
Is a flagger , another cool girl who I wasn’t in love but I could see having a relationship , she was actually
Real she was genuine which is rare in this profession , most sps have a personality disorder like narcissism
But this one had a pure heart , she even let me stay over the whole night even though I only paid for an hour
I could have made her my gf I think but the idea never came to my mind because I always fall for the bad ones , stupid me
I tried to get her to hang out off the clock both she wasn’t having it , she said she quit and
Is a flagger , another cool girl who I wasn’t in love but I could see having a relationship , she was actually
Real she was genuine which is rare in this profession , most sps have a personality disorder like narcissism
But this one had a pure heart , she even let me stay over the whole night even though I only paid for an hour
I could have made her my gf I think but the idea never came to my mind because I always fall for the bad ones , stupid me
In reality, perbs have higher chance of falling to an sp as they are getting something they can't get outside of this hobby. It's an escape from void and lack of affection. But this could lead to catastrophic obsessesion. One guy will start seeing an sp more often, then start buying gifts. Eventually, guy will start stalking her. I've heard a quite bit of stories from different SPs. SP doesn't owe any guys anything when they decided to give them gifts. Some people think they are ENTITLED of something because you are giving them gifts or being TOO NICE.
Very well said Rockstar. It’s a business and if you are being too sensitive or emotional, you will end up being bankrupt.
Bro.... :Cry:
Hopeless romantics, falling in love with SPs, giving your heart, soul, & everything...
I admit. I'm a hopeless romantic.
I fell in love with some SPs. But at the end, I understand love is not a possession. You cannot have a person even if a couple is married. One cannot find love, love comes and find you. So in terms of how much money you have, you cannot buy love. Even if you can buy it, it might not even be reciprocated.
Most SPs i saw actually understand this. Customers should always remain customers. The moment you first meet an SP as a customer, the odds are you're mostly doomed to have any kind of relationship with her, aside from the very little that can be ongoing friends. Think of the 99 guys the SP sees to that 1 she might be interested in. Even that 1 is still labeled as a customer, which means she might not even pursue it because of it. Most people rather meet their significant other through normal events and gatherings.
This leads me to the point. One shouldn't be in this line of work and hobby to look for love. You will get burned so many times before you can actually realize what you're looking for might not even be there.
As a pooner, I've chat with SPs outside of their work and I went out a few times with one.
I've got some SPs to say things that only lovers would say during our sessions. I'm satisfied with that even if it's play pretend, because the chance of it actually becomes real is slim.
I fell in love with some SPs. But at the end, I understand love is not a possession. You cannot have a person even if a couple is married. One cannot find love, love comes and find you. So in terms of how much money you have, you cannot buy love. Even if you can buy it, it might not even be reciprocated.
Most SPs i saw actually understand this. Customers should always remain customers. The moment you first meet an SP as a customer, the odds are you're mostly doomed to have any kind of relationship with her, aside from the very little that can be ongoing friends. Think of the 99 guys the SP sees to that 1 she might be interested in. Even that 1 is still labeled as a customer, which means she might not even pursue it because of it. Most people rather meet their significant other through normal events and gatherings.
This leads me to the point. One shouldn't be in this line of work and hobby to look for love. You will get burned so many times before you can actually realize what you're looking for might not even be there.
As a pooner, I've chat with SPs outside of their work and I went out a few times with one.
I've got some SPs to say things that only lovers would say during our sessions. I'm satisfied with that even if it's play pretend, because the chance of it actually becomes real is slim.
For sure did
I won’t mention her name and also she has retired
She was a sweetie I visited her many many times
We even hanged out at her actual place for drinks many times and had fun after and I didn’t have to pay for the deed at all
But we both realize that it wasn’t meant to be because of her work
So we just went out separate ways
It was kind of sad but what can you do
I wish her all the best
I won’t mention her name and also she has retired
She was a sweetie I visited her many many times
We even hanged out at her actual place for drinks many times and had fun after and I didn’t have to pay for the deed at all
But we both realize that it wasn’t meant to be because of her work
So we just went out separate ways
It was kind of sad but what can you do
I wish her all the best
Yes, about five or six years ago....I got a little bit too attached to an SP. She saw it....and told me she couldn't see my anymore. She did me a big favour. We're still friends, but I don't see her very much socially. She was 33 at the time, I was 69. LOL.
What value do you add to their life though?
It's easy to pay a woman some sheckles for good old loving. Do you think your pussy is super special and above other women that it warrants devotion?
Im genuinely curious
Also how were you concerned about their happiness specifically? What did you do concretely that demonstrated concern for their happiness besides having sex after receiving payment?
Do you think it makes someone really happy pulling out cash from the ATM & watching their bank balance draw down in order to spend time?
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I confess to falling in love with a few SP's although I always know that it ends once you walk out the door. When someone shows you exceptional kindness and affection over a couple of hours and several visits it can't help but resonate with you. I'm not naive but a bit of a romantic. I've never tried to contact anyone socially and probably never will.
Most Escorts are totally normal people. They get married all the time, and that doesn't necessarily mean leaving the industry. The same can be said for all sorts of adult professions, such as porn for example. SPs are real people and have real feelings. Yes, they fall in love with people.. sometimes its a client, and sometimes its not. Anything is possible, but just like any sort of dating, definitely not a sure thing.
There are a few AF girls that have ended up with a ring on their finger, and many SPs are married with their partner having full knowledge of their profession.. but of course, you won't know about it. Life happens... people are people... sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't... Not everyone needs monogamy.
If you think it's real, follow your heart. You only live once... but don't expect she wants to quit the job because she met you... she might, and she might not... drop the expectation at the door. Many girls don't want to get too close because 99% of the time, that's the first thing he asks her to do.. quit your job. It's probably best to decide what you are comfortable with before you take it further.
There are a few AF girls that have ended up with a ring on their finger, and many SPs are married with their partner having full knowledge of their profession.. but of course, you won't know about it. Life happens... people are people... sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't... Not everyone needs monogamy.
If you think it's real, follow your heart. You only live once... but don't expect she wants to quit the job because she met you... she might, and she might not... drop the expectation at the door. Many girls don't want to get too close because 99% of the time, that's the first thing he asks her to do.. quit your job. It's probably best to decide what you are comfortable with before you take it further.
For clarification, I was comparing Diamond to Kalina Ryu.
Super milf, warm inviting personality.
Enjoyed being with Priva but didn't repeat.
Have seen Diamond 3 times now
Super milf, warm inviting personality.
Enjoyed being with Priva but didn't repeat.
Have seen Diamond 3 times now
In other words, Yes, I have fallen in love with some sp's
I was evidently posting this in the wrong forum.
I have fallen in love with porn performers too. Jenaveve Jolie has gotten me through some rough times.
And by love I really think it is lust and hormones.
I was evidently posting this in the wrong forum.
I have fallen in love with porn performers too. Jenaveve Jolie has gotten me through some rough times.
And by love I really think it is lust and hormones.
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Everyone's limit and acceptance is different in terms of still working when an SP is in relationship.
Some are more open minded about it, some are not. Some would quit working because of their belief, some would not. It's important to make it clear with each other, just like any other relationship.
Some are more open minded about it, some are not. Some would quit working because of their belief, some would not. It's important to make it clear with each other, just like any other relationship.
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