What does one do in a 2 hour visit? (serious question)

Addison Cortez

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I can talk anytime but I’d rather play. All this talk about how longer sessions are more talk is a bunch of “talk”. I’d rather play and talk when he needs a break, or is done, that’s it. We can talk after the session, if you want to stay. I don’t book one after another so... I’ve had guys try to “save me” but I don’t need saving, I need a man that can keep up with my vagina. And that’s all folks
 

sevenofnine

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let me put it more simply

the door opened to my sp on Saturday

she was wearing my shirt I left behind months previous
and nothing else

all the buttons were un done,

its a no brainer
is it not
 

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And Miss Grace's response should end this thread and not continue on beating a dead horse with other replies.
I agree with her gallant response wholeheartedly.
All opinions are welcome at Perb, only Mod's and administrators decide when a thread needs to be closed!
 

badbadboy

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The assumption that two hour dates are mostly talk with little action are simply incorrect in my case. Others may seek these companions to share a mind meld rather than fully enjoying the physical enjoyment. I went from 60 to 90 and now do two or longer hours to fully enjoy the slow build up.

With me, there may be 15 min of chit chat and then the seduction begins.

I'm certain these SP are equally adaptable at entertaining on more of a social date with less physical action.
 

Addison Cortez

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The assumption that two hour dates are mostly talk with little action are simply incorrect in my case. Others may seek these companions to share a mind meld rather than fully enjoying the physical enjoyment. I went from 60 to 90 and now do two or longer hours to fully enjoy the slow build up.

With me, there may be 15 min of chit chat and then the seduction begins.

I'm certain these SP are equally adaptable at entertaining on more of a social date with less physical action.
exactly, thank you for saying so, I’m here for action and will entertain the in between times with whatever is needed. Could be a good conversation, dance, massage, teasing, flogging, paddling etc.

But to start, 15 minutes is a lot of intro time, unless you mean shower or massage time I want to get right down to business right away and make every minute count.
 

ddcanz

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Some guys are OK with paying for time not directly related to sex.
Others want the time filled up with action.
This would typically dictate the length of a session and the corresponding booking.
And what no one else has said yet is that many ladies prefer longer sessions because they make a bigger nut without all the extra prep time, administration, flakiness(cancellations and BS) and downtime associated with shorter and more numerous sessions. Especially those SPs that travel to their incalls and don't work out of their homes.
This goes beyond some of the SP chatter about "I'm just getting warmed up for the first hour..." or "It's a more intimate spending time building up towards the overall experience..." and such. I'm not necessarily buying it. This is business- so whatever business model works best given the SPs skills, attitude, perspectives, experience, work ethic, lifestyle etc. etc. etc.
So generally speaking IMO/E:
Longer sessions are pretty much dates.
Shorter sessions are more 'utilitarian' (for lack of a better term).
And good on all of us for whichever floats our prospective boats at any given time. The beauty part is there's no right or wrong here.
 
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It really depends on what kind of experience you want. If it is a physical release, then a shorter time is fine, but how much connection is there?

2-hours really isn't a long-time if you are wanting more of a girl-friend or lover experience, which courtesans offering longer timeframes can offer. It is so much more than the physical act itself. It is also an experience of the mind, that with a good courtesan takes the experience to a much higher level. There is a depth of connection and feeling that you are the most important man in the world to them... right at that moment. There is a connection, wisdom gained from their experience, and skill that they use. It feels natural and something that makes you feel fulfilled. It is a creation of a fantasy of something we are unable to find in our normal life. And in the process the lady may also be a confidant, a counsellor or psychologist, a friend, a muse, as well as a lover. There is so much more depth... and it has healing powers as well. I know some ladies consider themselves to be healers, who truly understand the needs of a man and how their psyche ticks. There are a number of ladies in this profession who started off as nurses. They continue to be healers, but in a much more satisfying and lucrative way.

If there is a language barrier, or a lack of experience, it is less likely that longer time periods are worth the money. But where the lady knows what she is doing, there is considerable healing that can happen from the encounter. Sex can be much more than just a physical act, and longer appointments can allow for much more depth in the experience.
Not for everyone, and yes, you need a deep pocket to do this.
 

masterblaster

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My friend called me up Sunday night around 10 and invited me over. She is an an SP I have been seeing for a number of years and we have become friends in that time and often socialize, go for walks, bike rides, lunches and that type of thing. She had a few drinks when I got there and we finished off a bottle of wine together. Just before midnight I thought it was time to go, I put on my jxcket, stood up and started running my fingers through her hair. She didn't seem to mind that and I found myself fondling her breasts under her t shirt. She lifted it up and encouraged me to suck her nipples.

I slid my hand into her shorts and started to feel her pussy. She got off her chair and stood up. I pulled down her shorts and knelt in front of her and started licking her clit. She said how good it felt and I pulled them all the way off. She pulled off her t shirt and was standing naked in the kitchen.

We made our way up to her bedroom and for the next two hours I couldn't fondle her tits enough or suck on her nipples enough. She couldn't get enough of having her pussy licked or fuck in enough different positions. Two hours literally flew by. Hottest time I ever had with her and best of all she didn't expect any money.
 

maxic

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Different people different needs and wants personally I m happy to pay for good action fucking with hot woman... as far as hours upon hours of some talking and paying for this I have to say no to that sorry ladies hehe
 

BIGOZZIE

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Explained beautifully! A courtesan has taken years to hone her skills. She is well educated, well traveled, able to converse on a broad array of topics, and feeds you mind and soul as much as your body. You can barely get a service in 45 minutes, much less an experience. There are those of us who feel that if all you desire is a service, you can do that yourself in the shower.

There are a plethora of options out there. If you are happy with 45 minutes, then it really doesn't make sense to be paying more for longer. You will likely be disappointed with a longer experience, as it will NOT be a marathon session. There is a saying "The more you pay, the less you play". Longer experiences lend themselves best to those who are sapiophiles, enjoy genuine connection and appreciate the art of sensual seduction
Sapiophiles?
Thank you Angel, that's a new one for me:)
 

Mr Quim

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spongemike

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I mostly do 2 hours now. One hour is barely enough time. 2x shower is like 15 to 20min already. Take another 5 to 10mins to get things going. Then you realize there isn't much time left. 2 hours you don't have to rush everything. I mean as long as you aren't doing this every week or more it should be fine.
 

Class

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I prefer to spend at least two hours with a gentleman. I'm surprised to hear the OP say that he can get everything he wants sexually in about 35-45 minutes.

Like kamivix said, after about an hour, I'm just getting warmed up. I imagine most women are the same.

I like to take my time with sex. Good foreplay drives me wild; I love mutual edging; and multiple rounds with breaks in between for cuddles, conversation and snacks.

Why rush a good thing?
With Pretty Priya, I would want to spend hours too. She has such a sexy look about her, not to mention the sexuality that she exudes. Having followed her and read her posts and tweets, I can imagine her getting warmed up and the intense pleasure shared.
 

Bridge

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I suppose it depends on what you are looking for. A companion and muse, or just a basic prostitute? Usually, people that are interested in a longer session are wanting something a bit more sophisticated, they want good conversation and rapport, companionship and most importantly to not feel rushed or " on the clock". Generally a shorter session may only leave time for your basic phisical needs and wants without all the frills. A provider that only offers longer dates is perhaps offering more of a companion or courtesan type of experience.
Kind of a fast food vs a fine dining experience? Sometimes you may want to treat yourself to a more leisurely and luxurious type of experience, sometimes you may just want to get your rocks off.
I love the analogy of fast food vs fine dining and feel that as we age we begin to move towards a fine dining experience for a variety of reason.
 

PierreCoeur

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I watch some TV, take a nap, brush my teeth, text my wife, call my mom, walk the escort's dog, clean her stove and fridge, pick up her groceries, wash her floors and if there is Five Minutes left, I go for a second shot. That takes about an hour and forty five minutes. The first 15 minutes of my 2 hour visit is heaven.
 

jamasianman

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Keep in mind it may be because the lady wants to see less people. Some ladies are part time only, they might even to so far as to only see a few guys a week even less. So by having a one hour minimum they can up the price and therefore focus on less clients to satisfy. Its not like a whole bunch of guys are gonna be dropping 800-1000 per encounter, inquiries will be minimal.

One hour goes by pretty quickly for me. The only 90 min encounter I had was one of the best. It was unrushed and it was a really nice way to relax and have fun without the threat of not enough time.
 

Jon Snow

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A lot of really excellent points have been made about the difference between one and two hour (& longer) appointments. An additional distinction is that there's a very good chance you are the only client that lady is seeing that day (or possibly week). If that's the case, she is rested, enthusiastic and has been waiting for and anticipating your visit for days (not hurrying to tidy up from a previous guest before you get there). This isn't important for many. However, for some gents, the knowledge that they're not simply a number (or at least the denominator is smaller) may have value.
 

Pretty_Priya

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Thanks for the shout-out, Vulva Man!

As a newbie SP, I was incredibly inspired by courtesans like Classy Angel. I knew right from the start that I was more interested in giving a handful of special lovers a fully-immersive and life-affirming experience, rather than hustling for back-to-back one-hour sessions.

I have friends who are high volume, booking lots of shorter appointments throughout the day. They love it--it works for them, and they probably make more money than I do.

But that model of service is not for me. Nor is it for the type of client that I enjoy.

I grew up in a very sexually conservative family--I wasn't even allowed to have a crush on a boy, let alone go out on date. And forget being bisexual--my parents considered that an abomination.

So for me, being an SP is about so much more than making money, or being popular.

I probably lose money because I'm so choosy about who I'll see. But I don't care. I got into this lifestyle in order to experiment, learn, and evolve along with my loving and supportive clients, and fellow SPs. For the first time in my life, I'm part of a community where I feel I can genuinely be my authentic self (even if my name is a pseudonym).

I think the gentlemen and ladies who book 2+ hours are looking for this genuine connection and opportunity to explore.
 

memyselfandI

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Jesus Christ on a Popsicle Stick!

You have sex for two hours of course!

I've only done it a few times. But they involved almost non stop face fuking for about 1 to 1.5 hours.
 
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