Thank you for bringing the subject up!
I am like you. I don't see more than one person per day. So if someone doesn't show there is an impact. And we do put a lot into preparing for a session... which is part of the fun...Generally if someone has a great reference I don't ask for a deposit..
NEVER use paypal for any escort activity.Smart!!Do you find paypal user friendly?
False. PayPal is perfect fine as long as you always send GIFTED payments. Never send as a good or service.
Yes, very user friendly. And I don't use my work name. I use a different name for Paypal.Smart!!
do you have another bank account for it? because my e-transfers give me the full name of the person sending me money, and they also get my full name in their account, regardless of my email. So I was just wondering how you ladies take care of thatWhat a coincidence, I've also just started asking for deposits from new clients. So far I've been thrilled with the very positive reception!
I made a totally discreet and nondescript email address for clients to send either an etransfer or an amazon gift card. Very easy! Sure a few people will balk at that, but you still won't be losing as much as you would through last-minute cancellations. Plus you are well respected, so anyone who thinks you're going to ruin your reputation by running away with their 50 dollar deposit is crazy.
I'm so happy that I'm seeing this becoming a trend among providers. It really changes your entire day when you don't have to worry about your next client bailing at the last minute. I wish I had done this ages ago!
Good luck to you
yeah I wouldn't use that for any type of unsavory activity, paypal is a pain in the ass! I refuse to use paypal for anything, if I want to buy something online or pay for a service, I won't do it unless there is an option to pay with credit card and they don't only use paypal. I am boycotting it because I know someone whos been frozen in the past, and it certainly was NOT for anything illegal! so imagine if it actually was
this would probably be a good idea for SP's who are not the survival type, or the ones who really need the money desperately and quickly...a lot of SP's charge a lot, and need references etc, so I can totally see them doing this too, because they seem to be content with their business and are not in a desperate rush to get paid...they don't need to have a revolving door of clients or have to work everyday. So those guys who don't want to deal with deposits, they can go somewhere else, I doubt the provider would be missing out at all or care at all! Lots of SP's do this on the side or just very part time, the income from this is very lucrative and one can work modestly and still have a good income.
was just thinking the exact same thing while reading the above comments lol...and its not just about enjoying your day, some girls work other jobs, have kids, have other important tasks that need to be done etc so being stood up for nothing ruins that.
Precisely but I would never double book unless they were both aware and both actually showing up lol
Precisely but I would never double book unless they were both aware and both actually showing up lol
Truth be told, I rarely force deposit. Typically if I feel the need to ask I’m less interested in meeting already. I have almost as strict of booking rules as Miss Hunter does and I put up with just about the same amount of texting as she. Anyone who knows me, knows that I don’t enjoy the administrative side to this but love session times and generally if someone is serious about me, they do everything in their power not to fuck that up. It’s usually pretty eaay to tell the difference but sometimes we misread unclear signals, that’s why I don’t use texting for chitchat, my signals are very clear. Obviously, I never ask repeats for deposit.
As for the name, or “nickname” you could change it in your settings (usually)
I want to enjoy myself in session, not be on edge!! If I need to ask, I wasn't given the respect I require, so, why should I make any more effort making an appointment to give my body and soul to this type of person.Precisely but I would never double book unless they were both aware and both actually showing up lol
Truth be told, I rarely force deposit. Typically if I feel the need to ask I’m less interested in meeting already. I have almost as strict of booking rules as Miss Hunter does and I put up with just about the same amount of texting as she. Anyone who knows me, knows that I don’t enjoy the administrative side to this but love session times and generally if someone is serious about me, they do everything in their power not to fuck that up. It’s usually pretty eaay to tell the difference but sometimes we misread unclear signals, that’s why I don’t use texting for chitchat, my signals are very clear. Obviously, I never ask repeats for deposit.
As for the name, or “nickname” you could change it in your settings (usually)
hmmm, interesting, I do have that option, I wonder if I change it, will it actually work? hehe, must test this....oh wait, I don't think it will work, because that is just the account number and you can change that into whatever name, but the actual account holder, which is ME, the name will probably always show up anyways! Maybe my bank is just useless and old school, RBC ugh lolPrecisely but I would never double book unless they were both aware and both actually showing up lol
Truth be told, I rarely force deposit. Typically if I feel the need to ask I’m less interested in meeting already. I have almost as strict of booking rules as Miss Hunter does and I put up with just about the same amount of texting as she. Anyone who knows me, knows that I don’t enjoy the administrative side to this but love session times and generally if someone is serious about me, they do everything in their power not to fuck that up. It’s usually pretty eaay to tell the difference but sometimes we misread unclear signals, that’s why I don’t use texting for chitchat, my signals are very clear. Obviously, I never ask repeats for deposit.
As for the name, or “nickname” you could change it in your settings (usually)
Ohhh, I wasn’t clear... I believe this is only for the person receiving the transfer and yes, it may not be an option, depending on your bank
It is bank-dependent. Some allow setting a nickname for the sender (so that the nickname appears in emails to the recipient), some not. The recipient name in emails can be anything the sender enters. However the whole process is less private than it appears.
Correct. However I doubt that any etransfer deposit amount will go anywhere near the limit to trigger anti money laundering @ 10k.
