How do you define “GFE”?

[Cami Parker]

It’s funny how you can always tell the difference between a lady that is genuinely happy doing what she does and one that’s just there for a payout. There’s no hiding it, no matter how good your acting skills... I’ve done a duo or two with a couple of the “I’m just here for the money” ladies and oh my, is it painfully awkward.

I don't consider certain services to be GFE. When an enckunter flies right on by and you have a lot of fun, and it feels like you are banging an old girlfriend or your girlfriend, then I consider it GFE. If she doesn't kiss, well that can sort of make the session a bit more mechanical, but then for me my regulars do a lapdance instead and its equally fine. And bbbj doesnt mean automatic GFE, I've hsd everything covered sessions that were totally awesome. It depends on the skill of the lady. Some enjoy sex and meeting new people. Some are just in it for the cash and dont put in an effort to hide that fact.

 

[Cami Parker]

That’s so sweet, I like how you think. I agree with you completely, except maybe the wet hair look because I’m so festidious about my appearance, even off the clock lol blame my years in the painfully image based entertainment industry, I suppose.

OK, I'll bite. I can only speak for myself and remember, I'm a couple of decades older than most of you so times may have changed.

To me, a GFE is not only based on sex. (Although sex is why we come back again and again). GFE is about a SP listening to whatever's going on in your life and help (or pretending to help) you thru it. I don't think you can get a GFE with one hour (or less) appointments. I think it has to be a minimum of 2 hours. Sometimes guys talk about wild sex with their SPs and they call it GFE. I don't think so. Fuck, I never had a girlfriend who did all those things. These guys must have confused GFE with PSE or EE (escort experience).

GFE sometimes comes with abuse and I mean it in a good way. When a SP greets you looking like a Victoria Secret model dressed in your favorite lingerie. Then have wild sex with you and obey your every command, that's not a GFE. Girlfriends don't do that. When a SP makes you lunch, sees you with partially wet hair because she's running late and gives you instructions on how she likes it during sex, THAT'S a GFE. (What I meant by abuse)

I can hear her now... "You want a Girl Friend Experience? You got it. That's what you paid for. See you next week, babe." LOL





you need to spend your problems and help connection. It's about two people letting each other into their lives, connecting on a level with real (or pretend) emotions. Listening to the other person and helping each other with whatever's going on.

 

[theimp]

For me, a list of services is just a starting point. I guess i am a pleaser, at heart, but a kinky one. In fact, I usually only ask about restrictions as I don't have many boundaries, but I don't want to overstep hers. So usually my first visit is a " get to know you " date. Most of the time is spent learnng likes and dislikes, developing trust and frequently involves champagne(or other libation )and a reverse massage( I love the feel of a womans soft skin ) and maybe, a little 420, if the mood strikes.
One of the worst times I have ever had, the lady, indeed offered everything I love, but so obviously wasn't enjoying it, that I cut the session short and left feeling very bad( I really hate a yes that means no ). On the other hand, one of my best sessions, was with my first, whom I saw exclusively for three years. When I arrived, she informed me that she was burned out from a long day at her day job and would I mind, just watching a movie and a cuddle fuck. I was, slightly dissapointed, but she had always treated me very well, so why not? We ended up falling asleep after and slept until morning. When I woke up she was grinding her cute little butt on me and we proceeded to have sleepy, breakfast sex, before breakfast. That, to me, was as gfe as one can get.

 

[bdan]

Bbbj. Cim. Cof. Cot. BLS. Daty. DFK. LFK. Anything you would let your boyfriend do without inhibitions (except the obvious that requires a condom).
I consider cum on face & cum on body to be acts of degradation and humiliation.

I've never understood any man's desire to ejaculate on a womans face as I, too, consider it degrading. I put it down to too much porn.

For me, coming of age in a time of yellow pages and escorts that did nothing, allowed nothing other than covered intercourse. I find that kissing is what makes or breaks a visit.

It's really personal.

I don't have a checklist of acronyms. I just want to give and get pleasure, all the while keeping in mind it's fantasy. Respect should be the order of the day.

But thats just me.

 

[JimDandy]

For myself, GFE "with an escort" is a brief period where I can make believe that the lady at least partially into me. If there is no point in the session where I am reasonably comfortable and at ease with the lady then it is definitely not a GFE session. Having said that, because I am really into DFK, if the lady does not provide DFK or is really bad at kissing (which is why I almost never see asian providers because most in my experience have no idea how to kiss) it is more difficult for me to reach that state of ease and comfort. Which is why I rarely see an escort that lets me know before hand that DFK is not on the menu.

JD

 

[Missy Mariposa]

I used to have the line on my website "There is no alphabet soup at this restaurant". I always found that to be a good jumping off point.

 

[thodisipagal]

For me, one single most important element of GFE is kissing.

One recent lady gave me GFE. She was a passionate kisser -- DFK, LFK, kissing on my face, my neck, my earlobes, my shoulders, my chest, my nipples... you get the drift.

 

[Dick Ford]

For me, a GFE should be an encounter as intimate as possible under whatever ground rules are established ahead of time. How you get there is as much up to you as it is up to the provider you share time with.

 

[downtownboy30]

For me, one single most important element of GFE is kissing.

Ditto. Kissing is the key element of GFE for me. Even if all the other ackronyms are on the menu, if there is no kissing, its not for me. I'd go as far as saying, if an SP offers a makeout only session, I'd consider it.

 

[jgg]

The GF experience?

It has never been the acts of intimacy. It goes beyond the privacy of the bedroom. It is all about the time and pleasure we spend with one another in public. The GFE is when the both of you are prepared to be together on any occasion in any circumstance.

 

[Vpete]

This is such an interesting thread.

Not having much experience within the companion industry it strikes me that if a client were looking for GFE it starts with how you would that a GF. In this case the introduction and subsequent dialogue/communication. Before any woman is a GF, you've gone through the courting period and what happens here is an accelerated version of that. Yes there is an end goal in all of this but to get there I believe much has to be done before hand to make sure both companion and provider get there in the same way at the same time. That's before a date happens and immediately once it starts.

Correct me if I'm wrong but for companions who see certain clients on a regular basis is it easier to be GFE once you know and understand each other? It would seem that way to me but I'm new. Basic respect and sincerity go a long way in any facet of life- probably shouldn't be that way here either. IMHO the ladies take all the risk so trying to do your best to reduce any feelings of risk or concern on their part would go a long way to making the experience you want more likely to happen.

Honest interest in each other, respect for one another, and a healthy dose of patience just like any intimate monogamous relationship seems like the best way to have a GFE.

My two cents.

 

[PierreCoeur]

GFE would be nagging me on Super Bowl Sunday to get off the couch and take her to see a movie.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

This is such an interesting thread.

Not having much experience within the companion industry it strikes me that if a client were looking for GFE it starts with how you would that a GF. In this case the introduction and subsequent dialogue/communication. Before any woman is a GF, you've gone through the courting period and what happens here is an accelerated version of that. Yes there is an end goal in all of this but to get there I believe much has to be done before hand to make sure both companion and provider get there in the same way at the same time. That's before a date happens and immediately once it starts.

Correct me if I'm wrong but for companions who see certain clients on a regular basis is it easier to be GFE once you know and understand each other? It would seem that way to me but I'm new. Basic respect and sincerity go a long way in any facet of life- probably shouldn't be that way here either. IMHO the ladies take all the risk so trying to do your best to reduce any feelings of risk or concern on their part would go a long way to making the experience you want more likely to happen.

Honest interest in each other, respect for one another, and a healthy dose of patience just like any intimate monogamous relationship seems like the best way to have a GFE.

My two cents.

That's two cents well spent.

 

[PierreCoeur]

If I were your GFE I would let you watch the Game and go shopping with your credit card , now that is real GFE !! Happy Sunday PC !

Now that truly is GFE. Can't get any better than that. Thankfully I am still working at this hour to meet my Monday deadlines, so I will be able to afford the spending spree.
Now I am second guessing myself and thinking I should have chosen PSE instead. Live and learn.

But then again I see Angel S. is advertising HME. It might be what everyone is really craving.

 

[Mrmotorscooter]

Nyah......um how bout some Hotwings and a brew after the main event?

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Nyah......um how bout some Hotwings and a brew after the main event?

MMMMMMM wings & beer? Throw in a came of cribbage, a bubble bath & a bottle of massage oil & I'm in!

 

[Abbott_]

CP asked : How do you define “GFE”?

Convincing complete strangers into believing that I'm their Girl*Friend.

........:hug:​

 

[Cami Parker]

You couldn’t be anymore on point with 100 years of experience. Good man.

This is such an interesting thread.

Not having much experience within the companion industry it strikes me that if a client were looking for GFE it starts with how you would that a GF. In this case the introduction and subsequent dialogue/communication. Before any woman is a GF, you've gone through the courting period and what happens here is an accelerated version of that. Yes there is an end goal in all of this but to get there I believe much has to be done before hand to make sure both companion and provider get there in the same way at the same time. That's before a date happens and immediately once it starts.

Correct me if I'm wrong but for companions who see certain clients on a regular basis is it easier to be GFE once you know and understand each other? It would seem that way to me but I'm new. Basic respect and sincerity go a long way in any facet of life- probably shouldn't be that way here either. IMHO the ladies take all the risk so trying to do your best to reduce any feelings of risk or concern on their part would go a long way to making the experience you want more likely to happen.

Honest interest in each other, respect for one another, and a healthy dose of patience just like any intimate monogamous relationship seems like the best way to have a GFE.

My two cents.

 

[Cami Parker]

I would co-sign that absolutely. I’ve been told I’m a great kisser, but I think that may be because it’s one of my favorite things....

For me, one single most important element of GFE is kissing.

One recent lady gave me GFE. She was a passionate kisser -- DFK, LFK, kissing on my face, my neck, my earlobes, my shoulders, my chest, my nipples... you get the drift.

 

[Cami Parker]

Omg when I was a Hooters Girl in LA I used to hide in the kitchen and stuff wings in my face with the cooks all day lol they’re my secret guilty pleasure.... not so secret now....LOL my bestie Evelyn Snow and I have had many chicken wing based adventures in many different cities.... wings for the win! Lol

Nyah......um how bout some Hotwings and a brew after the main event?