Just wondering, has anyone ever picked up a girl from a strip club (like she liked you and wanted to go with you for some kind of compensation....) ? What are the chances of being able to pick up a girl there, not necessarily for actual sex but for some form of adult fun?
Have you ever picked up a stripper (at a strip joint) ?
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My experience of strip bars is VERY limited. But for whatever it is worth .... I was in Toronto about three years ago.We went to this strip bar kind of behind Pearson Airport. I can't remember the name though. Being a Tuesday there was almost no one there and this cute looking younger stripper came to our table. She was intoxicated heavily. After a bit of flirting, she asked us if we wanted to go to a back room. We would have but she was asking for $ 250 a pop for each of us! Did I tell you that she was drunk?
During the same trip, we were in Niagara Falls and there is this strip bar on Lundy Lane. It had a great east European girl there, after about four pvt dances, she did start to warm up to the idea of seeing me afterwards but then she realized that I wanted other guys to come along too so she changed her mind.
I was in a US city, on business, had a stripper meet me after her shift ended. Hung out all night. I paid for all food and drinks. Just hanging out, sightseeing. Around 5 or 6 in the morning, dropped her off at her apartment. Exchanged emails, stayed in contact for almost a year.
Ok thanks for the replies. I don't know but I'm kind of tempted to try and ask a girl -just for the thrill of it- and see what she says. I probably won't do it but just curious.
The Foxy Mermaid,front street New Westminster I believe 1976 .....My friend from school became the bartender there......so of course myself and my best friend hung out there all the time....we knew the manager as well....very quickly we were appointed judges for amatuer nights,we knew all the girls all the rotations and had many many opportunities...most lived at the YMYWCA at 6th and royal area.....I just got engaged to my first wife and I didnt ever sleep with any of them...sigh...but buddy had a field day over 6 months.....party at the Y so often.....all that time I would say about %20 worked from the floor and left with customers at night or between sets....the other girls had families etc and relied on tips and lap dances etc.......it was a very fun time until the biker gang took over the place.....
She will have had plenty of offers already.
I dated one in Calgary for a few years, very strict limits around work and non work.
If they're SPs they'll let you know.
If they're not and you're just looking for someone to go for a drink with or the like, then it works about as well as asking out the barista at Starbucks.
If she escorts she will let you know very few of them do .
He would have better luck with the barista at Starbucks. As west woody said
She will have had plenty of offers already.
What most likely will happen is
she will say it is x amount for a private dance and ask you if you want to go into the Champagne room and as Chris rock says their is no sex in the Champagne room.
I personally hate strip clubs they depress me. If you want to know more about the attitude strippers have towards customers read strippers web particularly the "hustle hut" section.
I have never tried to "pick up " a stripper but anything I have read on the subject has said two things 1 never pay them money in the club and 2 It will be far easier trying to pick them up outside of work . Like a late night coffee shop or restaurant they may go to etc. You have to separate yourself somehow from being a customer . Very hard to do if you do not know them or someone they know outside of work.
Going into a strip club to try to "pick up " strippers
Its like walking into a restaurant and sitting down at a table and then trying not to order food in order to try to pick up the waitress .
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Yes. Had an interesting evening in the mid 80s in a DT hotel pub in Vancouver. Exclusively a pealer pub.. The ex and I would meet there two or three times a week after work. She enjoyed the shows too and one of maybe 2 or 3 ladies in the crowd. One performer famous for her ping pong ball routine one evening came out to the audience after her she and asked if she could sit with us. Obviously sitting with another lady was more comfortable for her. Just into the conversation we discovered she lived two blocks from us in north van. Just before we were about to leave she asked if she could get a ride home with us. Sure was my wife's answer. Good conversation on the drive, wifey invited her in for a nightcap.... hell she ended up staying the night for a tryst. Great time and good mems.
MMM...almost! Got close to having a touring featured dancer come home with us one night but couldn't quite close the deal...
Personally I've gotten to know a few strippers. I've gotten dances from them, we chat, we drink, we get to know each other, and then sometimes we'd get together outside/after work. My point is I've only seen two types who would do this: someone you have a genuine connection with or someone who's an SP using the club as a storefront. Not claiming that's all there is, but that's been my experience.
