when your whole social life consists of people you pay for their time

[newkind]

making some thought, thinking about how all the people you care about and spend time with for social life are people that you pay for their time, makes a feeling of uneasiness inside to think about that way but its true for alotta

 

[Aleister Crowley]

those are called associates ..... learn to treat as such , and treat them respectfully and professionally , BUT , don't mistake them as freinds....
if u got one or two freinds your lucky , if u got lots your a lier !!!!
merry xmas

 

[PlayfulAlex]

making some thought, thinking about how all the people you care about and spend time with for social life are people that you pay for their time, makes a feeling of uneasiness inside to think about that way but its true for alotta

I think it's important to be honest with yourself on this subject. If it's really true in your life, it's time to think about how you can change things. It takes time to develop real friends and, as Aleister has pointed out, most of us have only a few special friends, the rest are all acquaintances. That's not a bad thing, it's just important to figure out how to cultivate some real friendships, even if it's going to take some time.

You could argue that dance or art classes or computer courses also cost money. But you need to put yourself in places where people have the same interests as you. And there are plenty of free activities too, if you really want to just enjoy some fun times without a cost. http://www.robsonsquare.com

Or join a singles club: http://www.eventsandadventures.com/calendarofevents

All the best in 2014, improving your social life and feeling good about the people you meet and hang with!