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myboy

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It is no secret that a beautiful Mistress can always be counted on to make known Her rules and orders to Her pet / slave.

As well, there definitely are certain things that She finds most amusing and enticing to Herself.

With that in mind, it would be interesting, as well as most intriguing, to know what your playtime preparation ritual consists of?
 

PuntMeister

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I shower and shave my whole body, so, I am hairless and soft like a little babies bottom. :)
Hey, that's kinda what I do! Well, not the WHOLE body. LOL. But the good bits for sure :)
 

Man in Submission

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Hey myboy hope you are well!

Something I have been doing the last couple of times is relaxing with a cup of herbal tea and a lot of visualizing on how the session might go. It is something I have always done in my athletic pursuits over the (many!) years and it served me pretty well... I say 'might' because I do not wish to limit Goddess in any way, so it's purely visualizing how I will respond to commands, visualizing that I can endure more and more pleasure of pain, visualizing that I can and will do ANYTHING she demands. I think it has helped a lot ... adding some mental determination to the physical component. Like most people, I am driven to improve in anything I am passionate about, and I am very passionate about serving Goddess and catering to all Her needs! All that said, I have an awful lot of improving to, so that means lots of visualizing and - if I am lucky - many more opportunities with Her to demonstrate I am totally committed to improving and being the best slave I can possibly be!
 

MissRed

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I agree, punt, you have to show a little hair. Especially, mine, as it is a pretty red color to match my long locks. If the slave is lucky he can always hope to touch or play with it. wink wink.... In his dreams, that is.
 

MissRed

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A good meal is important before a session. You have to Eat to Beat! My outfit is important too. Any excuse to go and buy a new one and I am on it. I think this is more important than the equipment. After all, A true Domina doesn't need any equipment to torment her slave. Her very STRONG and SULTRY presence is enough ;) muahaha
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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MissRed, I like the way you think, and I agree. However, my preference is to send my pets shopping! I was just gifted with my first corset*, and I honestly love the idea that the dear boy went and picked it out and then spent a week dreaming about it. (The full length Lycra gloves added a whole new dimension of sexy, too...) I always like to have an hour to prepare before a Domme session so I can prepare mind and body for whatever might follow!

*Reason 1: new to the business
Reason 2: used to be morbidly obese (as in close to 300 pounds!)
Reason 3: I'm so naturally bossy! ;-D
 
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2shotwonder

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Not sure who this thread is for but...I am very much a rookie sub just starting to expore this...
I set up a session last week for later this week. Too much time I say! Way too much time to think about it. For a newby...I don't know how to prepare. I'll be showered n groomed for sure but, the antisipation and curiousity is driving me crazy! Should I do something special or dress a certain way? I guess I'll let my thoughts drive me wild and hopefully show up...open mind and all!
I won't be booking that far in advance again. Mabey some people are into it...not me. Too much time to ponder the what, if's and what?!.
This is from a rookie though....
 

PuntMeister

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I don't know how to prepare. I'll be showered n groomed for sure but, the antisipation and curiousity is driving me crazy! Should I do something special or dress a certain way? ..... This is from a rookie though....
Hey 2shot,

I have it on good authority that domme's really dig a fun playful rookie. In fact it is customary to arrive with your sock in your mouth and a bra over your shirt. Take something thoughtful and imaginative, like chai tofu cones. It is also very very important to have IMA SLUT written on your ass cheeks in bright red lipstick. Make sure you get the 'IMA' fully on one cheek, and the 'SLUT" fully on the other. Live it. Own it. Love it. And don't dare get any lipstick in the crack of doom or plumber's belt region. Oh, and be certain to bring some photocopies of old Haynes auto repair manuals, like Datsun 510, mid-70's Corvette, or Chevy Nova. For some reason they like to read these later, or just hit us with them. I forgot to bring these once, and oh boy, never again!

Enjoy your session,

Punt.
 

2shotwonder

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Wow...um...I had no idea. I thought thats how we left. Lol. Thanks Punt. I feel so much better. Gulp. Lol.
 

MissRed

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2shot,

Welcome to the World of Kink! Arrive on time for your session, be polite, respectful and open minded. Don't listen to punt, he is just being a brat.

You are a new sub and I'm sure the Mistress you have chosen to session with "will" take that into consideration. Relax, and enjoy this new experience.

Miss Red
 

PuntMeister

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Wow...um...I had no idea. I thought thats how we left. Lol. Thanks Punt. I feel so much better. Gulp. Lol.
Yes, quite right, that is how we leave. But why not save 'em some effort LOL. Good to see you saw the humour in it. If I lost my sense of humour, I would've stopped 20 years ago. I laugh at myself, I laugh at funny situations. But I don't laugh at my mistress, no sirreeee, I laugh with her!

Happy trails and giggle-fits,

Punt.
 

myboy

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At first, I wasn't really sure what to make of it....
And, I must say that it was something that I had read, that really caught my attention, and........kept it there.
What it was, was another submissive providing some insight into the inner workings of BDSM play and the preparation rituals, therein.
That well-written submissive's reply, read, as follows:

"Over the years, i have developed a pre-play ritual that I would love to share.
The day before I know that I will be playing, everything is trimmed and shaved to my Mistress' liking.
My chest hair is trimmed using trimmer and a 1/8 inch shield.
Keeping it short but not completely shaved helps to prevent ingrowns and rashes.
The exception to this is that if I am to be shown off publicly, I use hair clippers and no shield.
This makes me appear hairless as a proper slave should.
As a chastity slave, I keep my pubic area clean shaven at all times.
My legs are also kept cleanly shorn and I use my cycling hobby as justification should anyone ask.
However, pre-play my gluteus maximus, "taint," and external sphincter are shaved as smoothly as possible.
On play day, this process is repeated to make certain nothing was missed on the prior day.
Cleanliness being next to godliness, I, also, make certain that I am also clean on the inside.
This process is undertaken as close to playtime as possible but also allowing for sufficient time to complete the process.
I shower as close to play time as possible.
Just prior to leaving, I make certain to floss, brush, and use mouthwash liberally.
For good measure, I always pack the Listerine strips for last minute freshness.
A couple of these are always utilized as i approach HER Lair.
Before leaving for HER Lair, I make sure to pack my collar and whatever else my Mistress has ordered me to bring.
I always pack a small container of baby wipes for last minute clean up.
When ordered to ready myself for my Mistress, I use these to touch up spots that may have become less clean since my shower.
These include: cleaning after removing my chastity device, the area between my "cheeks," and my feet.
The feet are an often overlooked area but can be important for complete cleanliness.
Typically, I use a clean wipe and make sure to swipe between the toes for good measure.
I always bring a plastic bag to dispose of the used wipes.
If my Mistress is coming to my apartment for play, I have a few extra steps: the lights are dimmed, candles lit, and music played.
In addition, unless otherwise stipulated, a poured glass of champagne and a glass of cold water are placed on the table prior to my Mistress' arrival.
When finished prepping, I assume my position on all fours to await my Mistress.
As a slave to my Mistress I have given my whole body to HER, which includes nipples, tongue, ass, balls, and my cock.
SHE can do anything SHE wants to my/HER body.
I go to the gym to keep HER body in the best possible shape.
It also turns HER on how other people look at me in public, knowing that my body is HERS.
She can use my/HER body any way SHE wishes.
My body is only there to serve my Queen Mistress.
And, I do get punished if I do not pleasure HER."

 
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Ms Erica Phoenix

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At first, I wasn't really sure what to make of it....{?QUOTE]

Beautiful. This is what a Domme deserves. It's been far too long since Mistress Erica had a chance to play! I can't remember the last time I spanked a deserving boy! A run of the mill pantyboy or two, but no one really worthy of more than anything cursory.
 

myboy

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Beautiful. This is what a Domme deserves. It's been far too long since Mistress Erica had a chance to play! I can't remember the last time I spanked a deserving boy! A run of the mill pantyboy or two, but no one really worthy of more than anything cursory.
Well said, Ms Erica!
Your words of wisdom and intrigue have not gone unnoticed.
I can assure You of that!
 
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