CIM and COF Restrictions

[Pacific Coast]

I am surprised that so many ladies need to state this as a restriction in their ads. It is not something that I would expect or that even interests me. Perhaps I haven't watched enough internet porn though to know what is expected of women.

For the guys out there who like it, what is the rush? Degradation? I saw it in a movie? I've never done it before?

 

[dipsett]

its just a sexual act, at the end of the day, some enjoy it, others don't, its not like you have some high morals if you are opposed to it, and are above those that aren't.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Haha, responded to quite clearly by someone who is "into it"! ound:

In my humble experience, once a lady gets a few requests for something she doesn't wanna offer, it behooves her to put it out there! For me, a common request is Greek, so I have to put it out there...it saves wasting anyone's time, and those that do call are not looking for that (mostly)!

 

[VanessaofBC]

Why the restrictions ,mentioned, Because of all the guys that call and ask for it.

when i first started in Vancouver guys called all the time asking me for BBBJ. I could not understand because I clearly advertised as a FS provider. but guys kept asking and asking and ASKING. So i put the word "safe" in my ad. Then I changed it to "SAFE". Then I decided to use the word "SAFE" twice, because guys just didn't seem to get it or didn't seem to care.

And it is logical to ask, if so many ladies are doing BBBJs now, where is the cum gonna go? Hey, curious minds want to know.

And yes. I guess it is a kink, a fetish. But there are soooooo many men who POP as soon as they hear you say "oh yeah...cum on my face!". Iiiiiit's pretty much over after that!

CIM (presumably with swallow)...now that's just not right. Theres a reason your wife won't do it. And its the same reason I won't. Oh and doing CIM to a girl without her permission is asking for trouble. Big time. edit: IMO I hate it when I forget to put that, thanks for catching it Alex!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

snip...CIM (presumably with swallow)...now that's just not right. Theres a reason your wife won't do it. And its the same reason I won't. Oh and doing CIM to a girl without her permission is asking for trouble. Big time.

Alright Missy, now that's a stretch, because some ladies on both boards do offer it...so it's not really fair to say it's 'just not right' when it's just not right for either you or me, and many other ladies! It is OK for those for whom it is OK, I surmise!

 

[newkind]

CIM just simply feels much better, instead of pulling out right at the moment of orgasm, the girl provides gentle suction and more stimulation with her tongue and mouth and it feels absolutely perfect

 

[PlayfulAlex]

CIM just simply feels much better, instead of pulling out right at the moment of orgasm, the girl provides gentle suction and more stimulation with her tongue and mouth and it feels absolutely perfect

This is 100% understandable, and what girlfriends are for (typically) but there are some escorts who do offer it (with or without the hork)!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hork&page=2

13. hork
To spit by first gathering saliva in the mouth with a slight exhale thus producing a sound like 'hork' as this is done.
Goddamn! That son-of-a-bitch horked all over my Cheetos!

 

[normisanas]

I think COF is degrading and it turns me off. Whenever I've been asked to do it (by non-SP's only), I do it reluctantly.

As for CIM, I don't expect that from an SP. It's too intimate an act I think. I'm concerned for the health of an SP that does that indiscriminately with any man. As for girl friends though, I rather enjoy it a lot.

 

[normisanas]

This is 100% understandable, and what girlfriends are for (typically) but there are some escorts who do offer it (with or without the hork)!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hork&page=2

13. hork
To spit by first gathering saliva in the mouth with a slight exhale thus producing a sound like 'hork' as this is done.
Goddamn! That son-of-a-bitch horked all over my Cheetos!

I think gargling would be more charming.

 

[amigo67]

I think COF is degrading and it turns me off. Whenever I've been asked to do it (by non-SP's only), I do it reluctantly.

As for CIM, I don't expect that from an SP. It's too intimate an act I think. I'm concerned for the health of an SP that does that indiscriminately with any man. As for girl friends though, I rather enjoy it a lot.

I am in 100% agreement with you. I think there is a lot of stuff in porn that is degrading and a real turn-off for me.

... the swallow from a gf however.... golden.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I think gargling would be more charming.

Nice one, Norm! ound:

 

[Pacific Coast]

its just a sexual act, at the end of the day, some enjoy it, others don't, its not like you have some high morals if you are opposed to it, and are above those that aren't.

I'm not saying it has anything to do with morality. I just don't get the need for it, but more importantly, why anyone would ask for it if it isn't offered in the ad to begin with? In my experience, ladies who offer that service will say so in their ad. The same with Greek. So why do they have to advertise a negative?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Haha, responded to quite clearly by someone who is "into it"! ound:

In my humble experience, once a lady gets a few requests for something she doesn't wanna offer, it behooves her to put it out there! For me, a common request is Greek, so I have to put it out there...it saves wasting anyone's time, and those that do call are not looking for that (mostly)!

Why the restrictions ,mentioned, because of all the guys that call and ask for it.

when i first started in Vancouver guys called all the time asking me for BBBJ. I could not understand because I clearly advertised as a FS provider. but guys kept asking and asking and ASKING. So i put the word "safe" in my ad. Then I changed it to "SAFE". Then I decided to use the word "SAFE" twice, because guys just didn't seem to get it or didn't seem to care.

And it is logical to ask, if so many ladies are doing BBBJs now, where is the cum gonna go? Hey, curious minds want to know.

And yes. I guess it is a kink, a fetish. But there are soooooo many men who POP as soon as they hear you say "oh yeah...cum on my face!". Iiiiiit's pretty much over after that!

CIM (presumably with swallow)...now that's just not right. Theres a reason your wife won't do it. And its the same reason I won't. Oh and doing CIM to a girl without her permission is asking for trouble. Big time. edit: IMO I hate it when I forget to put that, thanks for catching it Alex!

I'm not saying it has anything to do with morality. I just don't get the need for it, but more importantly, why anyone would ask for it if it isn't offered in the ad to begin with? In my experience, ladies who offer that service will say so in their ad. The same with Greek. So why do they have to advertise a negative?

Perhaps you should read some of the posts to the thread you started? :nod:

 

[Pacific Coast]

Perhaps you should read some of the posts to the thread you started? :nod:

Okay I will simplify it for you. Why do guys ask for services that aren't offered in an ad? That is the real question.

 

[badbadboy]

Now I am not the type to ask for those services but if I feel I am gonna pop, I let the SP know it's imminently gonna happen. Some will gladly deal with it and some will divert it to their breasts etc.

 

[Pacific Coast]

Now I am not the type to ask for those services but if I feel I am gonna pop, I let the SP know it's imminently gonna happen. Some will gladly deal with it and some will divert it to their breasts etc.

Then your a gentleman. I guess there aren't enough out there if ladies have to advertise what they won't do as well as what they will do.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Okay I will simplify it for you. Why do guys ask for services that aren't offered in an ad? That is the real question.

The age old question. Some ladies actually say to "Call for details". Other ladies, and I am, sure you can tell who they are, have carefully crafted ads breaking services down very clearly.

I have also had guys tell me that the reason they do it is because "it does not hurt to ask."

 

[VanessaofBC]

Now I am not the type to ask for those services but if I feel I am gonna pop, I let the SP know it's imminently gonna happen. Some will gladly deal with it and some will divert it to their breasts etc.

I think announcing that you are about to cum is a common courtesy, no?

Gentleman want the lady to scream "oh yes, you're making me cum", its only considerate to return the favour

 

[normisanas]

CIM (presumably with swallow)...now that's just not right. Theres a reason your wife won't do it. And its the same reason I won't.

I'm very curious about what you said here. What do you mean CIM is not right? I think you mean, some kind of immoral activity, right? Care to explain what it is about cumming in a woman's mouth that isn't "right"? Does it make a difference if she shares it with him? Does it make a difference if it's gay sex and one man cums in another man's mouth? Does it make a difference if he cums and puts it into his own mouth only? What is it about cum going into a mouth that is not "right"?

I'd really like to know. People's attitudes towards sex are interesting to me, and as you suggest, many women don't do this. Personally I've only encountered one of the many non-SP's I've known to be like this and our relationship didn't last long enough for me to get an answer. If what you imply is true about many women having the same attitude about it as you, I consider myself extremely fortunate.

 

[diamondd5243]

I'm very curious about what you said here. What do you mean CIM is not right? I think you mean, some kind of immoral activity, right? Care to explain what it is about cumming in a woman's mouth that isn't "right"? Does it make a difference if she shares it with him? Does it make a difference if it's gay sex and one man cums in another man's mouth? Does it make a difference if he cums and puts it into his own mouth only? What is it about cum going into a mouth that is not "right"?

I'd really like to know. People's attitudes towards sex are interesting to me, and as you suggest, many women don't do this. Personally I've only encountered one of the many non-SP's I've known to be like this and our relationship didn't last long enough for me to get an answer. If what you imply is true about many women having the same attitude about it as you, I consider myself extremely fortunate.

I perceived her comment as in 'not right due to the health risks' rather than a moral thing... I might be wrong though?