How many guys has your gf had sex with before you?

[BonerHardBiceps]

or wife if you are married

curious to know what the average number is. What do you guys think the average for a 22 year old girl is? (non-escort)

 

[hiddencloud]

I've never asked anyone I've been with and I don't plan on ever asking.

If she wants to volunteer that info then fine but I don't need to know the complete history, just that she's had her STD tests done.

 

[uncleg]

 

[Ms.Lolita Monroe]

Does it really matter? Sometimes these things are best not known

 

[vancity_cowboy]

woman's response: sometimes these things are best not known ^^

man's response: 2 or 3 times, but she didn't really enjoy it until she met me...

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Regardless of asking a man or woman this question, I would think that less than 50% of people would answer honestly.

It depends on the age of the parties as well. Does the answer, "I've lost count..." scare you away?

 

[bcneil]

Agreed 100%. A lot of dudes just don't get it or are extremely insecure

I think a lot of guys are like toblerony. 20 year olds are often insecure and immature like this.

I remember once in college I had been dated this girl for a couple months. Out of the blue her ex, who I never met, wants to fight me.
Someone tipped him off that I had 10 inches and 100 pounds on him, and I never saw him.

What he really needs to be concerned with, is if his GF has had sex with more women than he has.

 

[normisanas]

I think that many females in their 20s don't consider it too much how many guys they've slept with. They think it's not anyone's concern, not a concern for their female friends or male suitors. I believe they also lie to themselves about how many partners they've had, by changing the definition of "sex". If for example, you were to ask them how many guys they've had intercourse with, they will answer the number of guys they thought that the intercourse had any meaning to them. What a guy is asking is how many dicks entered her, but that's a question they are avoiding.

 

[The Lizard King]

I've never wanted to know. Ever. I posted this before and you really have to be careful what you wish for when asking such questions.

 

[Ms.Lolita Monroe]

woman's response: sometimes these things are best not known ^^

man's response: 2 or 3 times, but she didn't really enjoy it until she met me...

ON POINT! :clap2:

Hell I didn't even want a guy knowing my real number of sexual partners before him even before I got into this industry.

 

[Ms.Lolita Monroe]

Agreed 100%. A lot of dudes just don't get it or are extremely insecure

You know what is the most uncomfortable question coming from a person who is insecure? Who was/is the best sex of your life??

p.s: Can I rent your grass hut?

 

[Flanders]

I think a lot of guys are like toblerony. 20 year olds are often insecure and immature like this.

I remember once in college I had been dated this girl for a couple months. Out of the blue her ex, who I never met, wants to fight me.
Someone tipped him off that I had 10 inches and 100 pounds on him, and I never saw him.

What he really needs to be concerned with, is if his GF has had sex with more women than he has.

Tobe better get to work on his abs to compensate. I think he just shat himself...

 

[storm rider]

I just had to add this video.

As for the trolling OP's question,it is a question I would not ask a GF as it is none of my business
and the same goes if a GF asked me.I have a past and she has a past and neither party should
be held in moral judgement of the other.

SR

 

[Miss*Bijou]

I think that many females in their 20s don't consider it too much how many guys they've slept with. They think it's not anyone's concern, not a concern for their female friends or male suitors. I believe they also lie to themselves about how many partners they've had, by changing the definition of "sex". If for example, you were to ask them how many guys they've had intercourse with, they will answer the number of guys they thought that the intercourse had any meaning to them. What a guy is asking is how many dicks entered her, but that's a question they are avoiding.

Why does a number, this number specifically, even matter? Why is it important?

Is there an age-specific average for men too? I bet it's acceptable that it would be higher than the one for females...in which case, does that mean these men are sleeping with goats? Each other? Otherwise how does the men's average go up but not the women's who are, you know, sleeping with these guys?

Seriously though, are we not over this ridiculous nonsense? Who cares! Like someone said, as long as you've both been tested and you're both clean, who cares?!

I mean, sheesh, get over it. It's sex, not murder. I'm sorry you have such hangups about sex.

It's 2013 and slut shaming is fucking lame regardless what age you are. It's depressing that nothing changes in that department. But this is definitely also about some men's insecurities.

 

[BonerHardBiceps]

Why does a number, this number specifically, even matter? Why is it important?

Is there an age-specific average for men too? I bet it's acceptable that it would be higher than the one for females...in which case, does that mean these men are sleeping with goats? Each other? Otherwise how does the men's average go up but not the women's who are, you know, sleeping with these guys?

Seriously though, are we not over this ridiculous nonsense? Who cares! Like someone said, as long as you've both been tested and you're both clean, who cares?!

I mean, sheesh, get over it. It's sex, not murder. I'm sorry you have such hangups about sex.

It's 2013 and slut shaming is fucking lame regardless what age you are. It's depressing that nothing changes in that department. But this is definitely also about some men's insecurities.

It tells you how "easy" the girl is. If you get with a girl who has only been with 1 or 2 guys, it feels more rewarding than one who's been with 50. No one still answered my question on the number for the average 22 year old girl.

 

[kenchorney]

It tells you how "easy" the girl is. If you get with a girl who has only been with 1 or 2 guys, it feels more rewarding than one who's been with 50. No one still answered my question on the number for the average 22 year old girl.

Does it really matter, she's not going to give it up to YOU Tobly.

I guess we probably have 100 more teen angst threads on the way from you before you finish high school.

 

[BORKO]

It tells you how "easy" the girl is. If you get with a girl who has only been with 1 or 2 guys, it feels more rewarding than one who's been with 50. No one still answered my question on the number for the average 22 year old girl.

Yeah but that girl that fucked 50 guys is probably better at fucking because she's had more practice...

 

[Miss*Bijou]

It tells you how "easy" the girl is. If you get with a girl who has only been with 1 or 2 guys, it feels more rewarding than one who's been with 50. No one still answered my question on the number for the average 22 year old girl.

Rewarding? wtf. That's retarded. And no one answered your question because it's also retarded. Thanks for coming out, Sexist Pig. Something tells me you should just be happy you're getting any (when it happens to you one day) and not worry about such silly details. Well, unless you don't mind being the 40 yr old virgin..in that case, suit yourself.

 

[kauffman]

or wife if you are married

curious to know what the average number is. What do you guys think the average for a 22 year old girl is? (non-escort)

i can only see this question plaguing a very young man. It's a question that reeks of insecurity. A woman's value shouldnt be measured by hom many men she has had sex with. If this is the kind of question you are concerned about maybe you shouldget to know her better until you have learned how to see who ther person is behind the number. Who cares? She is either a good person or she isnt. She either makes you happy or she doesnt you either enjoy her companmy or you dont. I guess the question is what is the relationship? Is it any of your business? What is in anyone's past is what has created the person that presently exists. Focus on the here and now. If you like her then you should thank every person she ever had in her life previously as they were people that affected her and taught her what she knows.
I think the whole idea of having to be a virgin until married was invented by a man with a small penis. He didnt want her to know anything else so that he wouldnt have to be concerned with her comparing him to someone else.That way he can set the standards according to HIS needs and HIS abilities.
Some people never cease to amaze me....

 

[PlayfulAlex]

It tells you how "easy" the girl is. If you get with a girl who has only been with 1 or 2 guys, it feels more rewarding than one who's been with 50. No one still answered my question on the number for the average 22 year old girl.

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here and try and read between the lines. It's possible that what you're saying is: getting the answer to that question helps you determine if the young lady is promiscuous or not, based on an approximate number you've come up with. So if her number is low, and she is presently choosing you, then it may say something positive about you. If her number is high, that tells you that maybe you're not that special, i.e.. maybe she sleeps with lots of guys and you're just another one.

In a rather immature way, you are asking yourself if the two of you have compatible sexual values. It's not really about the number, but rather the values behind the activity.

Either that or it's part of a rather neanderthal belief that "getting" a virgin (or almost virgin) is a feather in your cap (i.e. more rewarding)...